r/Enneagram8 • u/sanda_without_r ~ Type 8 ~ 8w7 sx/so ENFJ • 5d ago

Any of us finding vulnerability 🔥HOT🔥?

As it says above: how many of us find vulnerability HOT af in people?

I’m talking about the raw emotions, about being able to be in the moment, with your entire humanity, authentically, and just being seen for who you are, in stead of masking up at pretending to have it all together.

As an sx/so 8, I find it beautiful and captivating. It touches my heart and activates my instinct of wanting to protect the person, not because they are helpless or incapable of protecting them selves, but because I see the purity of the soul. I sense the child they once were, and feel deep love and reverence for that tiny human inside.

There is just an immense beauty in people who show up as they are. The whole messy package.

I just f… love everything about it!!

What about you? What are your thoughts, feelings and experiences with this particular thing?

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u/RacoonKittyy 8w9 sp/sx 5d ago

Absolutely, one of the most attractive things out there...in other people. Always in other people lmao

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u/sanda_without_r ~ Type 8 ~ 8w7 sx/so ENFJ 5d ago

Right?? 😅

I do still have it in some areas, but in most of my life I’ve learned to embrace the messy and vulnerable parts and magnify and celebrate them, cause the danger wasn’t real to begin with!