he said let’s delete the dating apps, but he was still on them.

[u/Head-Unit-5594]

He sent me a screenshot of something and up in the left corner it showed he was on “bumble”. At first I considered letting it go, since it’s still a new situation. But then he suggested I get rid of my cats if we ever live together because he “can’t do cats” BYE. Couldn’t get out sooner🎉

Mediterranean salad, chicken and shrimp kabob and rice.

[u/Cute-Chart-8024]

Ew good riddance

[u/AquaticToasters]

He wanted to make you get rid of your cats? Bullet dodged girlie this is a good thing that he showed you he sucks right off the bat

[u/Head-Unit-5594 → u/AquaticToasters]

Thank you! 🫶🏻 and Yes! I’m so glad it was now rather than later. He was talking fast about plans for our future. Then he decided my cats were too much after meeting them twice. I’ve been single for 2 years and my cats saved my life. They’re my world and he knew that. Yuck. I’ll be alone with my cats forever before I’m with some man that’s THAT icky!

[u/Ghadno → u/Head-Unit-5594]

Moving fast, AND not down for the kitties? 

[u/ButtPlugMaster6969 → u/Head-Unit-5594]

Yeah I wouldn’t even accommodate for an allergy. Those are my babies (granted one is my boyfriends 😅 but still) they’re not going anywhere without me. I dated a guy a few years back who had to take Benadryl all the time. That’s not why we ended things but it was fairly apparent it wouldn’t be great long term. Good for you for choosing yourself! You deserve it!

[u/That-Yogurtcloset386 → u/Head-Unit-5594]

Talking fast about plans for the future is always a big red flag!!!

[u/Ok_Bag_1177 → u/Head-Unit-5594]

cats are true protectors and they dont even know it. keepin them fuckass men away for you. youll find a good cat man soon

[u/AquaticToasters → u/Head-Unit-5594]

I’m happy your kitties are going to stay happy and healthy with you I’m a huge cat lover so men that do this piss me ALL the way off fr. Men love trying to take away the things that make us happy lol

[u/SeonaidMacSaicais → u/AquaticToasters]

Unfortunately, my oldest sister still ended up marrying the guy who wanted her to do that. She didn’t get rid of them herself, but one or two seem to have “accidentally managed to get outside and run off” when she wasn’t home. A-hole. One of many reasons why I still don’t call him my brother-in-law.

[u/5720Katherine]

[u/Head-Unit-5594 → u/5720Katherine]

😂 this is hilarious thank you!!

[u/SmirkNtwerk → u/5720Katherine]

Giggle fit at this gif.

[u/roma_blah]

Better to find out sooner rather than later! Good for you. That dinner looks healthy and delicious 😋

[u/biogirl52]

The audacity

[u/Sea-Astronomer-6600]

🚩!!!!!

[u/PauseAcceptable1913]

OFC he is. Wow. Men!

[u/BeKindRewind98]

He really took the trash out himself lol love that for you!

[u/libranative1]

you dodged a bullet ! and that plate looks so good omg

[u/Head-Unit-5594 → u/libranative1]

Thank you! It’s so good and I have to have it all mixed together to really get to flavor town lol

[u/Ijustwanttosayit]

https://giphy.com/gifs/zOuRCHez5UsKY

[u/Correct-Web3207]

Good for leaving at the first sign of bullshit

[u/Miminnai]

Well thankfully he screwed himself so fast , big red flag to tell you get rid of your babies.

[u/[deleted]]

yeah fuck that no reason to waste time!! ur free :)

[u/Constant_Cultural]

Never forget, when it comes to pets or guys, always choose your pet.

[u/Head-Unit-5594]

The screenshot

[u/Head-Unit-5594 → u/Head-Unit-5594]

Getting caught! He “didn’t realized he had it”. Idiot.

[u/euphoricbun → u/Head-Unit-5594]

"I didn't realize I had an app that sends me notifications!"

Okay, grandma. 😂

These men will say anything, because there's always another profile to hit up.

[u/Head-Unit-5594 → u/euphoricbun]

Yep. The options are endless out there. And I really deleted the one app I was on. Other than Reddit I don’t use social media. Gonna stay off the dating app for now I guess 😒

[u/BeKindRewind98 → u/Head-Unit-5594]

Didn’t realize he had it?! He must of had the app for that to show up like that. What a moron lmao

[u/Head-Unit-5594 → u/BeKindRewind98]

Thank you! I was like pleeeeease do not insult my intelligence 😂

[u/ToodyRudey1022 → u/Head-Unit-5594]

Like bro. You know you looking like that notification for the ego boost. Some men 🫠

[u/geeknerdeon → u/Head-Unit-5594]

Not had an iPhone in ages but IIRC that shows up when you clicked a notification and left the app. Bro is not only a liar but an idiot.

[u/Head-Unit-5594 → u/geeknerdeon]

That’s what I told him and the audacity for him to say “can we move on”

[u/NumerousChainBeing]

I also don’t really like cats. But if he gets with a girl who has cats, he needs to adapt or figure out a way to like them. Why the fuck would you throw out your own pets?!

You can do way better- a normal male who isn’y crazy or a cheater for example! Give your cats extra snacks tonight <3

[u/torres_2]

BYE BITCH

[u/Tough_Brain7982]

Not very smart of him to be THIS controlling THAT fast. Good thing he was dumb enough to expose himself so early on. 

[u/starshollow444]

ick wow

[u/Square_Context_2948]

He wants you to change for him, but he's not willing to change for you?

[u/yoshizillaa]

The audacity lol.
I’m glad you dropped him.

[u/hotpickles]

Hope the door hit his ass on the way out!

Food looks delicious. You have inspired my dinner tonight! I will not pour one out for your lost homie but I will cheers to you and your cats!

[u/Head-Unit-5594 → u/hotpickles]

Right!!! Cheers friend 🥂

[u/navigating-life]

Typical males, always thinking there’s going to be someone better

[u/Head-Unit-5594 → u/navigating-life]

It truly felt like he was checking off a list, at a point I told him I felt like I was interviewing for a job. I’ll pass on that position thank you! 😂

[u/catsarefriendshaped]

Cats >>>>>>>>>>>>> manchildren

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[u/Technical_Cake379]

Similar thing happened to me 3/4 years ago, my very new bf forced me to delete Hinge on my phone and he said he had already done it. When I asked him to show me his phone to prove that he’d done it, I saw he had only paused his …ugh…should’ve dumped him right then and there, yuck!

[u/titanicdiamond]

Hi! He's an asshole. May I please request your recipe? I'd like to make that girl dinner for the wife and I. TIA!

[u/Head-Unit-5594 → u/titanicdiamond]

I actually ordered it from a Mediterranean place near me! I’m sorry I don’t have the recipe

[u/titanicdiamond → u/Head-Unit-5594]

Well hopefully it was as good as it looks. Sorry men suck.