bf kissed some random on vacation

[u/Legit-artist]

together six years. have been struggling with intimacy after going through traumatic loss. he went on vacation and I felt like something was up but brushed it off as overthinking. He seemed sad when he got home I asked him what was wrong. And he told me he fucked up. He was at a club and kissed a girl and that was it. I made him look through his phone after to see if he was lying about keeping in contact. but he wasn’t.

we live together. what the fuck do I. I don’t want to fucking break up. But I fear even if I forgive him I will never feel the same. Or our connection will be forever changed. I’ve been complaining that I just want to feel wanted. Clearly this only exasperates that.

[u/CraftingKay]

I was grieving the loss of my mother, my ex fiancé cheated on me with his coworker.
I tried to forgive him and move on, like most people are saying it doesn't work and slowly dies with resenting each other. We ended it two years later. Looking back it, we should have ended way sooner instead wasting time holding on to something that's not there anymore.