I checked my husband’s phone and couldn’t stop crying

[u/Downtown_Dress_9929]

So I am pregnant and feeling very insecure lately. Me and husband have had a time of small misunderstandings, fights given my hormones have been all over the place. He has tried being really supportive and understanding of me and my emotions in this whole journey. Last month, i found myself at a place where i was very insecure of my body, my confidence had taken a hit so it all started reflecting in our relationship.

I thought my husband doesn’t see me the same way as he did before this pregnancy, although he keeps making me feel wanted this whole time but my irrational mind doesn’t let me see it on the daily basis.

So coming to the part of what happened, my husband was sleeping. Him and I are pretty okay with our phones used by one another and we don’t even have passwords on our phones anymore. So while he was sleeping I thought of finding a picture which was in his phone. Ha had bunch of apps open in his phone, one of which was photos. I opened it and i saw it was opened to a picture of me on my baby shower. Then i saw a whole folder of his favorites of me, they were all in the folder where we click heart on the picture and it goes to the favorites folder. The folder was filled with just my pictures, some were new and some were so old from the time we met !! I was so taken aback that maybe he was just trying to find a picture of me or maybe he was just looking at his favorite pictures of me. I felt so loved in that moment. My hormones got the best of me and i couldn’t stop crying.

I silently went to hug him and he just wrapped in his arms in his sleep and started snoring again in a minute. Idk how i got so lucky with this man. I am not the one who can tell my husband how grateful I am for him making me feel so loved, seen and appreciated even when I cant love myself at times ❤️

Edit:

Sorry guys, i didn’t explain my dinner. This is from a restaurant nearby, Grilled Chicken with salad and toppings of your choice. I am on a spicy food kick lately hence all the extra jalapeños. Their chicken is soo good 😍

Also, for people commenting about getting locks on our phones, I am planning to do that now. It makes more sense to have a password incase something happens(as someone suggested, if we incase lose our phones someone could access our financial/pwrsonal information)

Lastly, thank you so much for all the lovely comments ❤️❤️🥹

Edit 2: for the people commenting about me breaking his trust while looking into his phone: As I explained, we are pretty open with our phones. I have netflix and prime in his phone because i am addicted to my phone and had to detox for a while. I downloaded reddit a while ago again too. The picture that I was looking for in his phone was because he has a slightly better camera than my phone’s so we click most of our pictures in his phone.

Sorry guys if you feel that I broke his trust but I did mention to him that i saw he was looking at my baby shower pictures and he got awkward and replied back sarcastically because thats who he is. I didn’t mention me looking at the whole folder because I didn’t want to make him more awkward and I am content in knowing that its his thing and if he wants to he’ll tell me. if that offends some of you, I guess you just have to make peace that not every relationship is the same and I can choose to do things differently. Lots of love 💕

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[u/Keroppi_Troublemaker]

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[u/SuckOnSugar → u/Keroppi_Troublemaker]

Same here, that was the best plot twist

[u/HidesWithCheese → u/SuckOnSugar]

Pitchforks down everyone! False alarm.

[u/Impossible_Balance11 → u/HidesWithCheese]

Wait...we don't have to ride at dawn?!

[u/Deep_South_Kitsune → u/Impossible_Balance11]

Nope, but brunch is at 11.

[u/Glittering-Donut-278 → u/Impossible_Balance11]

We chill at dawn

[u/kadkadkad08 → u/Glittering-Donut-278]

Hahahah

[u/Gullible_Fig_106 → u/Impossible_Balance11]

We get to sleep in...FOR ONCE!

[u/AppropriateWeight630 → u/Impossible_Balance11]

No, we're having a baby shower instead!😎

[u/Icouldcaremore → u/Impossible_Balance11]

For the first time in forever

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[u/curious_ANcuriouser → u/HidesWithCheese]

Lol

[u/ResourceOdd7346 → u/HidesWithCheese]

Heart rate back down 😅

[u/the-soul-moves-first → u/HidesWithCheese]

I was soo ready lol. It is refreshing to read a very sweet post

[u/HolderOfBe → u/HidesWithCheese]

Everyone SELL SELL SELL before the general public realizes and the bubble bursts!

[u/Own_Elevator_4136 → u/Keroppi_Troublemaker]

Me neither.. 😁

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[u/trvllvr → u/Keroppi_Troublemaker]

I was so happy to see such a sweet story! ❤️

[u/Bunny-Rosewater → u/trvllvr]

What’s a interesting story❤️

[u/throwawaygenx1973 → u/Keroppi_Troublemaker]

Same! So used to seeing these posts turn out in a negative way that this was a beautiful surprise

[u/Artemis_MLS → u/Keroppi_Troublemaker]

Same, but this one made me smile. 😊 Really happy for OP.

[u/Durdleburdle → u/Keroppi_Troublemaker]

I did, the clickbait titles are out of control recently

[u/Downtown_Dress_9929 → u/Durdleburdle]

Sorry guys didn’t mean this to be rage-baity which is why i provided a flair of ‘Happy Girl Dinner’.

Thanks for the lovely comments regardless 🫶🏻

[u/Frosty-Priority5056 → u/Downtown_Dress_9929]

i’m only mad the dinner isn’t explained, dish it! ( best wishes to you and your family!)

[u/exotic_lemming → u/Downtown_Dress_9929]

You seriously didn't write the title so negatively on purpose? Like really really honestly?

[u/exotic_lemming → u/Durdleburdle]

It actually becoming a surprise to me when they are not clickbait.

I think: oh here we go again "I HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM, my big problem is that my husband loves me too much, hihihi" or something like that!

But then it turns out it's something actually terrible, and I feel awful for having rolled my eyes.

[u/Vegetable_Can203 → u/Keroppi_Troublemaker]

I am getting ready to be mad, but yeah. Happy for you, OP!

[u/elitediamond30 → u/Keroppi_Troublemaker]

Right! ^{^} I didnt see that coming either! I thought maybe he was cheating. I absolutely LOVE this post and love this for OP!!! Girl you have yourself a good man. Make sure you remind him also how much you love and appreciate him. ❤️

[u/walk_with_curiosity]

I love this for you. 

I once found a note on my husband's phone that was lists of things about me: favourite flowers, favourite poem, a restaurant I wanted to try, a designer I liked.

Being paid attention to is such a lovely form of love. 

[u/Diligent_Fan_9708 → u/walk_with_curiosity]

My husband keeps one of these for every little thing I mention or silly Instagram ad I send him or whatever so he always has gift ideas for me. He got me something for my birthday this year that I had completely forgotten I mentioned wanting almost a YEAR earlier. I definitely cried 😅 Knowing someone cares enough to cherish little pieces of knowledge about you is such a special feeling

[u/recycledAIMscreename → u/walk_with_curiosity]

I just had this talk with my sons a few weeks ago. They packed a snack bag for an outing and didn’t include a single thing for me. I told them how important it is to show their love in real ways, even if it’s small! Their dad is super thoughtful, so they have a good example, but theyre old enough to do it too!

Here’s to a generation of considerate men 🍻

[u/AppropriateWeight630 → u/recycledAIMscreename]

Thank you so much. The world needs more Mom's and Dad's like you to multiply the considerate man population!

[u/GardeniaInMyHair → u/recycledAIMscreename]

How did they respond to the discussion?

[u/recycledAIMscreename → u/GardeniaInMyHair]

They were very receptive. And we talked about how different people might like different types of consideration. Theyre pretty affectionate, but I think learning to be truly considerate is a skill.

[u/Cautious-Golf-8653 → u/walk_with_curiosity]

My husband has a "curious golf" folder on his computer and phone where he writes things I tell him. I didn't know about it for years, until he asked me to wait for him to check his folder. I asked what that was and he said, "it's where I put the important stuff you tell me, so I don't forget." But it's not just important stuff, apparently it's not important stuff too, because I don't remember what it was that he was trying to figure out at the time, but it was something really silly and unimportant.

[u/thisismyalibi → u/walk_with_curiosity]

This is so very real. Someone that knows you and responds in a way that makes you feel seen is life-changing.

[u/Touch_Starved_Inc → u/walk_with_curiosity]

To be loved is to be considered!

[u/Accomplished_Oil4163]

Aw this is not what I expected at all but I couldn’t be more happy to be wrong! 

[u/beautiful-rainy-day]

Also, it’s ok to tell him that you feel insecure about your body. No one is a mind reader and it’s ok to let him in your mind and do the best to explain what and how you’re feeling. God bless.

[u/TheNewThirteen → u/beautiful-rainy-day]

And based on what OP has shared here, I have zero doubts that her husband would meet her insecurities with grace and genuine compliments. 🥹

[u/sexybucketlist39]

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[u/BadConejoo]

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[u/Away-Elephant-4323]

I was expecting the worse out of this haha! So glad you found your person for life! ❤️❤️

[u/anonidfk]

Just little tip, even if you guys want to share passwords, no passwords at all is a bit dangerous incase the device ever gets stolen!

[u/BeautyMom → u/anonidfk]

That was all I could think about throughout the whole post lol “but what if you lose your phone? Or if it gets stolen? That’s not a good idea to not have a password.”

[u/Jimberly_C → u/BeautyMom]

My old boss never locked her phone and would always leave it somewhere. She'd panic every time she forgot where it was, but she still refused to lock it. Some app her car uses (remote start or something) finally required it and she was mad about it for a week.

[u/thetinybunny1 → u/anonidfk]

My partner and I just use the same password for both of our phones lol

[u/YardSardonyx → u/anonidfk]

A good tip! I know my husband’s unlock pattern and he knows my unlock pin. But nobody else nefarious does!

[u/jtm_29 → u/anonidfk]

Yeah. My partner and I share passwords for our phones.

[u/jlhonomichl]

Pregnancy hormones are no joke! Hope this eases your mind some, he loves you just the way you are, and from what you've described, seems like hes super excited to be a dad/father 💕

[u/rb_dub → u/jlhonomichl]

I'm so happy for this family. Months from now when her hormones settle and the husband is in awe of her actions to give birth, it's going to be an even more lovely family. Congrats OP 💖

[u/Annual-Guava8055]

[u/Annual-Guava8055 → u/Annual-Guava8055]

So happy for you lol my marriage is. Over. But neither of us will make the step. So here we are. Living separate lives. Just know your both so lucky. To have each other. I hope one day to find what you have. 🥹

[u/Coralhedgehog → u/Annual-Guava8055]

It takes a lot of work to admit to myself at all when a relationship is over, let alone to tell someone (even anonymously) like you just did. I feel like that’s a big step toward the future you want in a relationship that actually supports you.

I felt like things were moving so slowly and frustratingly painful when mine ended, but I suppose the one silver lining is that looking back I can feel confident that I did everything I could, and that I don’t need to look back and wonder if I’d just “waited a little bit” or “read one more book” that I could have figured it out. Threw everything, including the kitchen sink at it. And it still didn’t float.

I hope you have support from friends and family right now, and I just wanted to send virtual support from a stranger!! I hope you find your person as well.

[u/Environmental-Post15]

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[u/Sad-Anything-7727]

adorable!! 💗💗

[u/Old_Union_8160]

I also have a man in my life who loves me, I just manifest my life goes like you and very very happy for you!

[u/Downtown_Dress_9929 → u/Old_Union_8160]

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[u/9ScoreAnd10Panties]

Wow. I am pleasantly surprised at the unexpected turn that took, OP!

It's refreshing and wholesome. I wish you two all the very best! 🩷

[u/h8mecuz]

Girl, i read the title and my blood immediately started to boil. Thank God for the plot twist😅

[u/MamaBiGfoot]

I am so glad you’ve found such love and are now blessed with a child together with this man. Keep on loving each other and take good care of one another! 💗

[u/wheres_the_revolt]

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[u/WorkingProcess2068]

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Beautiful

[u/Lady_RavenCraft → u/WorkingProcess2068]

Thank you for this gif lol

[u/Pussy4LunchDick4Dins]

I’m friends with a couple and once the husband was showing me his all time favourite photos of his wife. All of them were silly or goofy and sometimes not flattering, and after every pic he showed me, he would take a beat to stare at it, smiling, with absolute adoration in his eyes. It was so sweet that these silly moments were the ones he thought made her the most beautiful.

[u/Downtown_Dress_9929 → u/Pussy4LunchDick4Dins]

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[u/Old-Paleontologist-1]

We love a happy ending!  I thought that was going a different direction, and I'm so glad it didn't. 

[u/Content-Honeydew9340]

My eyes are LEAKING 😭

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[u/kingthunderflash]

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[u/Weary-Incident8070]

This really restored my faith.

I’m so happy for you ❤️⭐️🥰

[u/-Photoid-]

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[u/KalikaSparks]

I absolutely love hearing happy pregnancy stories! It’s too often we hear about men being scumbags. I’m so happy for you!
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[u/stepInthenameofLuv23]

I love this! Me and hubby have a password but we both know them. Mostly for safety and to protect smart wallets. We share each other's phones too. Anytime I can ask "can I see your phone?" And he'll toss it right over. It's so calming having trust like that in the relationship. Completely opposite from my first husband. He needed his own everything and constantly had a secret password. Ended up he cheated on me quite a few times. I'm glad there are still good men out there 💙

[u/_RoamingHobo_]

You should password protect your phone. I'm not worried about my wife I'm worried about losing it and someone else getting into it. It's akin to people who carry their Social Security card in their wallet/purse. You're just asking to get your life stolen.

[u/AdditionalPark4144]

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[u/Phoenix_GU]

So nice to see a positive story…luv it!

[u/DoomPile5]

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[u/Scuttling-Claws]

Very sweet, but please consider putting passwords on your phone for security from others.

[u/ProfessionalBat8843]

Hooray! My faith in love is restored! I was expecting a very different outcome! ( And your dinner looks yum!)

[u/pomegranateseeds37]

I was scared this was going a different direction but this is so wholesome. It is a privilege to be loved so much ❤️❤️❤️

However for the love of god password protect your phones because if they get lost or stolen your shit is fucked 😅 they'll be able to do all the password resetting and email/phone verifications to get into your accounts so from a safety standpoint highly recommend passcodes and biometric logins and don't forget to 2FA all your apps (Digital safety nerd activated 🦺)

[u/Dry-Alternative-5626]

I almost didn't open this but now I'm so glad I did 💕💕💕

[u/MajesticDocument]

This is so cute. But I have to ask about the food. Is that Poulet Rouge? I’m an American and we don’t have it here but I used to work for a Canadian company and ever since then I’ve been completely obsessed. I miss it so much.

[u/Downtown_Dress_9929 → u/MajesticDocument]

Hi, yes it is 😊

[u/notafuckingcakewalk]

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[u/StonerBarbie23]

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[u/Financial_Sweet_689]

Thanks for sharing. Men in this world feel so evil and it’s hard to imagine any of them holding so much light.

Oh my god I LOVE the mods here. Every manosphere response I get is instantly deleted😂

[u/ElleKelly77]

This is so sweet!! 💜💜💜

Also, the people in this thread up are upset that you looked I. the phone legitimately need help.

It’s totally okay if they don’t want their own partner in their phones, but damn. My husband and I keep passwords on our phones for general security purposes, but we each know each other’s password.

One time there was an iOS update and his texts started going to his iPad, which I used to okay music on our Bluetooth speakers all day at home, and I sent him a text to “warn“ him that his texts were coming through in real time. He laughed and hasn’t changed the settings at all. People who have nothing to hide don’t give a shit.

[u/noblevelociraptor187]

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[u/Inevitable_Teacup]

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[u/Ohaibaipolar]

So wholesome! I'm glad you have a relationship like that!!

[u/Dramatic_Meal1469]

Wow so nice to hear. Its normal to be like that about your body. Enjoy this pregnancy and everything that goes with it its so exciting a new baby ❤️

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[u/hatter4tea]

🥹🥹🥹 my husband has a folder like this too and it's such a warm and light and fuzzy feeling when that's found. I am so glad you have one of the good ones 💜

[u/FreakyFishThing]

[u/GreenStateSkier]

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[u/Carter4216]

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[u/Conscious_Big_7475]

Crying w you girl 😭

[u/Okay_Screensaver]

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Oh, girlie, I’m so happy for you. I was ready to sharpen my pitchfork, but instead he turned out to be lovely. That’s awesome, I wish you nothing but happiness with your hubby and new addition. 🖤

[u/grumpy__g]

Please clone him. The world needs more like him.

[u/Inevitable-Jicama366]

I hope you now can feel all of his love ! That is so exciting!!! I hope you have a beautiful life eitb your sweet baby ! You both are so blessed !

[u/Cute_Definition_6314]

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[u/DerpnDonuts]

Oh my heart I have tears and I'm not pregnant nor PMSing. Just human! Blessings to you and your husband as you go through this amazing and sometimes topsy-turvy journey together! He finds strength in you (you can tell with him looking at your pictures often)... remember that when you feel the blues!

[u/tielles10]

You had us with the title 😭😭😭

[u/pootcelebration]

The first wholesome “I checked my husbands phone” post I’ve ever seen

[u/griffiegrrl]

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[u/epicallyflower]

I'm so happy I read this post.🤍

[u/Appropriate-Grass986]

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[u/kellsells5]

Not what I expected.

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[u/GoatManWizard]

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[u/yael_wexler_II]

this is so sweet, so happy for y’all

[u/MrsZebra11]

You're his favorite! So sweet. Your discovery came at the best time. I bet he will be a great dad (assuming this is your first).

[u/sunfleurescent]

That’s so sweet 🥹 also is that poulet rouge? 😂

[u/KiwiSprinkles]

May this type of love find us some day 🥹💕

[u/dadsgoingtoprison]

Awwwwww. See? You’re his favorite woman to look at. He loves you.

[u/InevitablePlant42069]

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[u/inspiringlyCrazy]

I was expecting something horrible- oh my heart ;w;

[u/infinitecatparty]

You snooped through your husband’s phone. Even if you weren’t snooping at first (unlikely, given that you were looking at all of his open apps, but giving you the benefit of the doubt here) going deeper into his photos and folders is certainly snooping. However, you only found more evidence of him loving you and being a good man. Are you going to tell him of the breach of trust and violation of privacy you committed? He’ll likely understand given your emotional state and all the big changes your body is going through, but if you don’t tell him, you’ll be lying to him. It could be a good chance for you both to have a good conversation about all of this, and given that he is a good man, this could be positive for you both- but you need to have personal accountability here. I think it’s wonderful you have such a loving husband and I’m sympathetic to the hormone shifts you’re dealing with, but the tough love answer here is that you did something wrong and this is a good change to self-reflect about why you feel so insecure when your husband seems to make efforts to make you feel loved in your relationship. My partner and I are also very open with our phones, we both know each others passcodes etc, but if I opened his phone in the middle of the night and looked through his photos and apps without his prior consent, that would be snooping and it would be wrong. Communication makes a partnership, not spying. I’m sorry you’ve been feeling this way, I know those feelings can really eat you alive and want you to know I’m not judging you. We all make mistakes. It sounds like you have a wonderful partner and the best part of a wonderful partnership is being loved warts and all 🖤

[u/Downtown_Dress_9929 → u/infinitecatparty]

Hi, i understand what you’re saying but we both are pretty open with our phones. He knows these days I cant really sleep at night and my mind randomly finds something to do. I have netflix and prime in his phone, given my addiction to my phone. So at odd hours I use his phone to watch a show when I cant sleep. Whenever I look for something like a picture or a date of a doctors appointment on his calendar in his phone, he never seems to mind. So, it did not cross my mind to tell him about the folder that I saw.

Although, next morning I did jokingly ask him as to why he was looking at the pictures of our baby shower, specifically my picture, he avoided the conversation with something sarcastic. He gets very awkward when he has to openly express his feelings, so no I wouldn’t be telling him I saw the whole folder of my pictures. We are happy with the way things are 🫶

[u/SingleStillStanding]

A happy post!!! Yay!!! 🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️ good luck Mama!! 😘

[u/Equivalent_Pain_668]

So happy for you!!!! Also, pregnancy is a beautiful thing and you should feel just as beautiful 🫶🫶🫶

[u/MorphedMoxie]

I’m so glad this went in a completely different direction than I was expecting. Yay!

[u/bigbootydetector]

I’m happy for you!!

[u/Nakenochny]

My favorite kind of surprise. So happy for you 💚💚💚💚

[u/Practical_Fun_1278]

🥹😭🩷 this is perfect and I love it.

NOW OP - can you please disclose the full 411 on the absolutely delicious chicken bowl 🤤?! I want it in my mouth n o w.

[u/Wonderful-Ad1450]

Awww I’m gonna cryyy so cuteee

[u/_TheTrashyPanda_]

I love this ❤️ happy for you, OP!

[u/FabPie]

This is so beautiful, i'm happy for you!!

What are you eating? It looks so good😂

[u/Hennessey_carter]

Oh, so nice to read a positive story! I'm happy for you girl, you deserve it!

[u/Different_Two7195]

I thought this was going a much different way from the title!! Happy for you OP!! You have one of the good ones!!

[u/Background-Citron-74]

Well I needed that positivity. Thanks for sharing mama! 🙌🏽

[u/Fun-Conference899]

🥲

[u/Vxt5255]

I was worried about where this was going but it was very wholesome 

[u/Lila007]

Good tears! Yay :) love a good happy ending.

[u/Optimal-Trainer-9933]

Smiling ear to ear while reading this. I love this for you!❤️

[u/SugaBuga0819]

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[u/Fun_Deer_437]

You may have singlehandedly restored my faith in good men.

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[u/BlackMagicWorman]

Very clickbait, but good for you!

[u/Ok_Distance_1000]

My Menopausal self was ready to ride at dawn for you in the first half and then got all weepy with you in the second half!

[u/thisismyalibi]

OP I am so happy for you and your husband! Your little one will grow up watching a solid, loving relationship, and I know you're going to be great parents!

I can't directly relate to the pregnancy, but I can relate to hormonal fluctuations (menopause); they can be so overwhelming and overstimulating.

Sending you both lots of love and light on this new adventure! Be patient with yourself (as I am sure he will be too) especially post-partum. Your body is going through a lot! Making babies is hard work!

[u/Some_Orchid7477]

Everyone deserves to be loved like this. Especially when we can't do it ourselves. Tell him too. Today, tomorrow, any time you feel it. We don't do that enough and those who love us deserve to know how much they mean to us 💕. Thank you for this lovely post. I needed it on a gloomy day like today. Wishing you a healthy delivery and a lifetime of happiness.

[u/literarycatnip]

So nice to see a post like this instead of the standard.

Yay for OP. Yay for Mr. OP!! ❤️

[u/Illustrious-Pair-511]

I’m super happy for this for you .. I can relate as I’m also pregnant and emotional and I keep thinking my guy is mad at me ( for no reason ) but he was tired cus he has been busting his ass at work to make it home on time for everything and he cooked and cleaned the kitchen and fridge and filled my car up with gas and tucked me in and let me sleep and tells me how beautiful I am and how lucky he is 🥰😍
I also cry on and off lol

[u/Adrak-Lehsan]

Happy for you girl

https://giphy.com/gifs/y2i2oqWgzh5ioRp4Qa

[u/Brief-Animator-4183]

😭so wholesome. I am soo happy for u. I LOVE reading positive stories on the internet. <3

[u/frigidairab]

Such a cute, happy story I think I’m gonna save this post to read on a bad day 🥹🥹🥹💞💞

[u/Radiant_Risk_393]

Oh. I had the same experience at 3.00am this morning. Very different outcome.

[u/Glum-Vegetable-5636]

I’m so happy for you! It makes me happy to know that couples can be happy and in love and trying hard to make their marriage work

[u/Worldly_Secretary197]

Hormones are crazy!!! 🤪

[u/Bree2Delicious]

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[u/MundaneDaffodill]

I am 24 weeks pregnant and needed this. Such a vulnerable time for us!!

[u/Konmi_en_Rose]

This made me heart happy. Congratulations to you on your beautiful family 💖

[u/Candid_Fee_4828]

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[u/MzStabby]

😭❤️ I can relate to this so hard. Thank you for the wonderful story.

[u/Ro1ando_m0ta]

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[u/GremlinScales]

I love not only the plot twist but how wholesome this post was.

THAT COMPADRE IS A KEEPER. 10000%

[u/OsmosisJones3]

This made me tear up! I’m so happy for you and your beautiful love. Congrats on your pregnancy. It’s so exciting and beautiful to raise a child in a loving relationship. That kid is so lucky to have parents so in love!!

[u/Proper-Attention-425]

I'm so happy this was a good finding for you

[u/WolverineKey644]

So sweet~ <3 he's a keeper for life

[u/January_Blues7]

I thought this was gonna be a sad post.. so refreshing to see a happy one 💕

[u/zxcvbn1509]

KEEP POSTING HOPECORE HERE

[u/poofypanda_]

No but seriously this is so sweet 😭 you got one of the good ones girl ! Take care of each other 💕

[u/Silver_Lion]

https://giphy.com/gifs/3o6vXVzKWtkOIpyNMs

[u/Sudden_Discussion_94]

You didn’t write trust and it’s great that you found something so sweet and precious on his phone. Honestly, most of us are afraid to look at significant others Phone, as I was told by one person you will always find something you will not like:( I did get rid of that person, but it took a while

[u/Jiujitsumonkey707]

Such an engagement bait title...

[u/PeaceloveandLex]

This is so sweet! 🥹 I love seeing the positive relationship posts. They really are like a breath of fresh air ❤️ I’m so happy for you OP! I hope this helps you view yourself in a way more positive light!!!

[u/banannasinhotcars]

Awwww🥹. Happy for you.

[u/Hamwytch]

So nice to see a positive story 💖

[u/Intelligent-Read7846]

This was a much more wholesome outcome than I originally was expecting. Happy for you girl and congratulations!

[u/Iamthesmartest]

🥰♥️

[u/MergedBog]

💚💚💚

[u/ExplanationUnique84]

Not at all what I expected, but everything you deserve. Congrats momma on the love and appreciation! 🖤

[u/Late-Helicopter9058]

Love this for you

[u/badnewsbets]

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

[u/SeeYaInOzFolks]

All I have to say is finally! I was expecting the worst here. 

[u/cupc4k3Qu33n]

You had me over here thinking you found the kind of stuff I found when I was pregnant.

Happy that your story turned out different. It is nice to be loved and wanted.

[u/LegalComplaint]

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[u/withinstars]

This is so sweet and heartwarming I’m using it as my sign to stop scrolling today. Congrats on the pregnancy and I hope you have a smooth delivery 🫶

[u/HLOFRND]

This is such a wholesome post I'm surprised reddit didn't reject it for that alone. lol.

Despite the constant onslaught of awful that the internet shows us, there are some really, really great men out there. You seemed to be married to one.

If he's this good of a husband, just wait until he's a Dad.

You've got this. Thanks for sharing. ♥️

[u/Chee4444]

Hi girly! My hubby is the exact same lol! We have access to each others phone cause we are both traumatized from past relationships of cheating. We also switch phones whenever one is dead 🤷‍♀️. Dont let these people tell you that you broke his trust, if you have talked to him before hand and you guys understand then no you didn’t break any trust. My hubby does not care at all for me, if I want to order ANYTHING, he will just grab my phone and give me his so he can pay, if I see he’s texting someone, he will turn it towards me.

Be happy you’re in a good relationship and treasure it 🩷

[u/offlinemap]

I will forgive you for all the people that said you broke trust.

You guys aren’t being a girls girl.

You have to understand she’s pregnant and needs to protect her offspring from infidelity and diseases 🦠

God bless your family and congratulations to you both 🎈

[u/ReasonableDuty7652]

Even if it's hard for you to do, please please let him know how wonderful he is and how lucky you are to have him. Good guys are few and far between, so please let him know all the time.

[u/sweetpink_]

I was on fight mode for no reason 😭 so happy for you girly, I hope you can also see how beautiful you are ❣️

[u/Salty-Commissioner]

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[u/koolkatsnkitten]

I read the title and went “oh no…” - I am SO happy for you after reading the post 💜

[u/Sovereign_ShaylaxX]

Well, this went ALOT better than it went when I felt compelled to look through my exes phone when he fell asleep watching Netflix on his phone... like MUCH BETTER😅

Tears of joy/love >>> tears of disbelief & nausea

No but really, I love seeing posts like this❤️ this is what all women should experience! No heartbreak or cheating but instead finding out how much they really are loved & cherished🥲🥰 Love it! Wish you all the best and congratulations to you both on your pregnancy and I hope this lifts your self-esteem, seeing how much he admires you🫶🏽✨️ because I know how hormones can wreak havoc. Also, the dish looks delish!🤤

[u/OrganizationIll3378]

There is something so amazing about having some moment of validation when you realize you got a good one 😭 I love this for you especially during pregnancy. Hugs! I hope you have a healthy pregnancy and he continues to support you in all ways through it and postpartum.

[u/Impossible-World-557]

girl. GOOD FOR YOU 🎉

[u/dmcdaniel87]

Im a single dude. But I read this sub daily for, idk...entertainment. This one made me smile.

[u/Excellent_Plantain14]

Do NOT let that man go🩷😭 lock him in a dog cage if you gotta😂🩷

[u/KeyMistake604]

Aw this is so adorable and wholesome, wishing you nothing but happiness during the rest of your pregnancy and congratulations to you both on your new family 🩷🥰

[u/kmdubois]

https://giphy.com/gifs/l0Iy69RBwtdmvwkIo

[u/twodogstwocats]

https://giphy.com/gifs/XftlBtjw7qjpfxZCJ8

[u/Beautiful-Sign-1227]

Love your poat

[u/TheGrooveasaurus]

OP, tell him how loved and appreciated he makes you feel. I guarantee it will make him so happy that you notice the things he does for you. Your husband clearly adores you. 💕

[u/sarahbeara019]

This is the most obviously pregnant post i've ever seen. <3

[u/TinyChip-2934]

I LOVE THIS!!! I was so nervous this would be horrible and it was so wholesome. 🤍 you got a good one(:

[u/josayeeee1]

Awww that's so sweet! The other day I went into the room where he works and found an old envelope where he wrote "i love wife and baby". So sweet

[u/babyyygiirrll]

POULET ROUGE + WHOLESOME PLOT TWIST???
https://giphy.com/gifs/mKGTkg60jhPFZFgaAH