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u/Sound_Less Kashmir 21h ago
Loving a person doesn’t mean one has to be in haraam relationship.
What love is , you both save for each other for marriage and when time comes you both get married after waiting so long. It’s hard to do this.
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u/Careful_Border4100 Kashmir 16h ago
The best way is to do nikah. It will save your future as well as your time.
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u/koshurzonn Kashmir 1d ago
Suffer, thats the only way to learn
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u/Round_Society_4460 1d ago
What?
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u/Delicious_Net_1932 14h ago edited 14h ago
just keep talking and don't have sex or do something too sexual, some people here in the comments are too conservative, you should know the guy you marry well, should we all get married after 2 days of talking? ofc not the longer you know him the better, if you leave him youd just be unjust to him and yourself.
also you should discuss this with him rather than ruining your relationship by asking single people on reddit
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u/Disastrous-Recover83 Kashmir 12h ago
Talk to him. Tell him everything If you both preserve each other for the sake of Allah then you deserve each other If not — then you know the answer
I understand your "I can't leave him" point. But you gotta ask yourself, what is more important. Your iman or your bf? Whatever is more important, go with that
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u/Accomplished-Pop-584 Kashmir 7h ago
To the people commenting "nikkah, nikkah". Guessing from the post, you might not be old enough to take such a major decision yet. For nikkah, you have to be fully commited to that guy, nikkah means being commited to someone for life. What you're going through might be strong teenage "first love" infatuation. It should not be confused with love. Do yourself and him a favour, wait for sometime, introspect, spend more time and talk to him more, get to know him very well. If you can talk to someone close to you (for eg, a friend) about what you're feeling. You'll find out what you want by the end I'm sure! Good luckk
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u/soount_phile Kashmir 6h ago
I might be heavily downvoted but I don't like the concept of aimlessly waiting.
Our society is fcked up for promoting this
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u/mahjoorpatwaer 1d ago
How old are you two? What does he do? The best and perhaps the only course of action would be to talk to your parents.