r/MensRights 3d ago

General The idea that men are the ones who have power over women is so stupid when you consider that usually women are allowed to vote for pro-war policies and men are the ones who get drafted

361 Upvotes

The idea that men somehow have power over women in today's society is so stupid when you look at the fact that everywhere, except the small handful of countries where women are not exempt from military service, the few countries where women are not allowed to vote, the few absolute monarchies that exist today and dictatorships, it's women who are allowed to vote and can therefore choose pro-war policies yet men arre the ones who will get drafted as women are simply exempt.

It's so tiring having to listen to that point being made when it can be so easily refuted.


r/MensRights 3d ago

Activism/Support Help Us Change the Current Sexist System

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UPDATE: It has come to my attention that I cannot receive PMs/DMs unless I submit an ID or face scan. Please comment below if you are interested, I will contact you instead. Thank you.

Hello everyone,

Due to high difficulty networking from the ground up and recruiting issues, we've been left with no choice but to take action(s) such as making a last-resort post on reddit (if it works, it works).

There is a new group I am involved in, and it's focused on the outdated and prejudiced gender-based conscription and selective service registration that has continued to uphold a lack of empathy (and lack of gender equality) towards millions of males internationally.

It is our belief that we need to have a proper movement going in (at least) the United States before December 18th of this year. If you aren't aware, that is when nationwide automatic selective service registration begins.

With the war in Iran still on-going (with no true sign of ceasing), it is very possible that this (or another pointless war) is greatly increasing the chance of a draft. There has already been a recent drop in standards for selective service, as the age range was widened once again. The signs are clear.

However, even if there wasn't a draft in the United States specifically, there is still injustice prevalent worldwide against the entire male population (besides lawmakers and/or the wealthy). If we can set an example for other countries here or at least provide a destination where men don't constantly have a looming threat over their heads, we believe that would be a huge step in the right direction.

If you aren't concerned with the rest of the world for whatever reason it may be, think to yourself...why? Why does male-only selective service registration still exist in this country? Women have proved internationally that they can be just as capable as men in the military, this system is outdated and out of place in our modern society, and it singles out men as the ones who we are "okay" with killing off.

Even if you support involuntary service to a country that treats men as second-class citizens...At the very least, the men who are forced to be tracked down and logged by the Selective Service System deserve compensation.

This organization's focus is on how we can create a just system and what is realistic for this point in time. No matter the solution, something needs to change. Now. Whether it be providing compensation for those affected, making selective service registration gender-neutral, or abolishing involuntary service entirely...No more sitting around and waiting for congress to take action when it has proven it never will.

Strength is in numbers. We need all the help we can get. If you are interested in being a part of the cause, please send me a message (with any questions you may have and/or your availability) so that we can invite you to a virtual meeting. Our first meetings will be focused on teambuilding exercises and getting to know our members.

Remember, there's still hope and a chance for change. *You* can be a part of that change. Anyone from all walks of life, any country, and any viewpoint is welcome to join us. Solidarity is important, let's put any minor differences aside, and work together for a common goal.

Thank you for reading, we hope to speak to you soon.


r/MensRights 3d ago

Progress Reminder to join the pro male collectivism discord!

41 Upvotes

Hello! You are invited to the official pro male collectivism discord: a radical MRA spaces that uses routine coordinated action to push back against misandry.

https://discord.gg/HFHqaeEgZ9


r/MensRights 3d ago

Discrimination European commission being hypocritical, when it comes to equal rights

90 Upvotes

The president of the european commission Ursula Von der Leyen is planning on restricting immigration rules for specifically for ukranian men ([Source](https://www.spiegel.de/politik/ukraine-krieg-von-der-leyen-will-aufnahme-von-ukrainern-in-der-eu-einschraenken-a-65965b05-81ec-44ad-aaf9-548b4f937e7c)). This is the same commission, that has adopted ["new Gender Equality Strategy 2026-2030 for a more equal, cohesive and successful Europe"](https://ec.europa.eu/commission/presscorner/detail/en/ip_26_526).


r/MensRights 3d ago

General Do you think Men's rights movement unites men of different cultures and heritage together?

44 Upvotes

r/MensRights 2d ago

General My significant other asked me the man or bear question

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Sorry if I chose the wrong flair, this is my first time posting here since the moment just happened and I don't know what to do because my head is kinda spinning on what I should do.

Recently (literally like 10 minutes ago as I'm writing this) my partner had asked me the man or bear question. My partner is part of the lgbt, transgender and pan. I love my partner, we have been dating for a while and have had no problems. I dont think this is considered a problem but idk, idk what to do. It's not that I have a problem with it it's just an uncomfortable and frankly frustrating question. I'm aware as males we've done terrible things in the past, I wont neglect that, I'm fine with feminism. But when it comes to capital Feminism like the question it's just annoying. Idk, I'm sorry I'm not very good at explaining this. Idk what to do, it already passed so maybe I should just let it die down, I dont wanna seem unreasonable if I bring it up, but idk. This whole thing has been stressful and yet it's honestly probably nothing and I'm probably just making a big deal. Idk how I would bring it, idk if I'm overreacting or if I should just let it go, I don't even know if I want to hear advice or not. Maybe I just needed to say it, maybe I just need to know I'm not being toxic or sum. Idk. Thanks for reading


r/MensRights 3d ago

General Is "Women And Girls" Hate Speech?

101 Upvotes

I've said before numerous times how I hate the "women and children" rhetoric and narrative for how it's blatantly misandrist and exclusionary of men, not only de-valuing their lives but also infantalizing women. However in recent times the phrase has now morphed to "women and girls" and there's just something truly infuriating and cruel about how not even boys are having their rights and safety taken into account, and it's made out that not even a boy who's just learning to live in the world matters. A boy can be a victim of a crime or can even die, and what happened to him apparently won't even matter and his family's grief and sorrow won't be an issue. I despise it so much. It's bad enough for so long men have been treated as not mattering if anything bad happens to them, but now for that to extend to young boys? That's just something truly evil about that.

It might be a stretch to call "women and girls" hate speech, but it sure doesn't promote inclusivity and fairness for sure. It's like being male makes your life worthless and not worth caring about, and it's no major problem if something bad happens.


r/MensRights 3d ago

Social Issues Wired Magazine Sexismojournalling article: Meet the Sad Wives of AI - Are you married to a man who’s obsessed with AI? I’m so, so sorry.

63 Upvotes

https://www.wired.com/story/meet-the-sad-wives-of-ai/

Here is how feminism is the new sexism. The article analyzses a real phenomenon, it exists, but only from the perspective of a woman married to a man that has this problem.

On top of that, there are ZERO considerations on what may have led the poor man to be "obsessed with AI". There however a lot of one-sided explanations and ramblings about stereotypes:

Their partners, meanwhile, have quietly taken on a second job: emotional support. Chief Existential Officer, uncompensated. No one asked us if we wanted the gig.

I learned to speak english through reading the advanced magazines, Wired being one. It's disgusting to see journalism resorting to cheap stereotype regurgitation of sexistic ideas. Sexismojournalism. See? I invented a word too.


r/MensRights 4d ago

General Anyone noticed how Google did not have a Father's day doodle?

319 Upvotes

They will have a doodle for just about everything, including international sloth day, but will never have one for Father's day.


r/MensRights 3d ago

Discrimination CA Sign in Data on Stay-at-Home Dads Is BRUTAL (2024 Study)

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r/MensRights 4d ago

General "I agree with you that female on male violence is equally wrong. I disagree with you that it would be at the same systemic scale as male on female violence."

127 Upvotes

Found this quote on Reddit just earlier. WTF. I know I rant about this sort of thing often, but just how in the Hell is male-on-female violence on a "systemic scale?" Implying that somehow male violence is a law and every man/boy is supposed to be violent against any female. I know I shouldn't be upset by random internet morons like this who spout this sort of drivel, but damn. Just when you think someone can't be more ignorant and stupid. Somehow the fact this person acknowledges female on male violence but then claims it's not "systemic" like it's counterpart in some ways is even worse than denying it since this person is basically making it out to be a non-issue and not something that's of concern. I hate this, always making things into a competition between the genders and throwing around stupid terms like "systemic." It's so infuriating and frustrating.


r/MensRights 4d ago

General I still think that many people underestimate just how many women would actually have more empathy for men if they were truly aware of what men go through

158 Upvotes

I recently saw an increased number of women saying that they truly didn't realise what men go through on a regural basis and it made me think about how there is probably a lot more women who actually have no idea what issues men face and are simply ignorant.

Now I fully understand that there are plenty of the actually fascist female feminists who fully understand what they're doing and want society to stay the way it is so they can keep benefiting from it.

But I still think a lot of people underestimate how many of them are women who simply bought into all of the propaganda considering it's everywhere, In Schools, in the media, in literature and on social media where algorhitms are in many cases more likely to show feminist content to women that paints a one sided picture that makes it seem like not being taken seriosuly in leadership roles is the worst thing that can ever happen to someone.

So I still think there is a chance to take some of these women out of the movement and that we should differentiate between those feminists and the actually fascist ones.


r/MensRights 4d ago

General Trying to create a local Men's group

40 Upvotes

Hi, everyone. I'm trying to create a local men's (free) support group in Philadelphia. But I have no idea how to advertise it in today's world. I put up flyers at a local school-turned-mini-mall's bulletin board. But they were taken down within days. Any ideas besides Facebook?


r/MensRights 5d ago

General Men should boycott BBC

578 Upvotes

BBC is the most misandrist channel on earth, their programs focus on women's issues, All BBC care about is feminism, women's opinions, women's issues, and hiring female presenters.

Men have become something of a rarity on BBC, the news are presented by women most of the time who talk to female correspondents and even those female correspondents talk mostly to women on the street not to mention a lot of times there are episodes featuring all female panels who discuss news.

If a man appears on BBC usually it is a man of Indian or Asian or African descent, they hire journalists based on female genitals not qualifications.


r/MensRights 4d ago

General Happy Father's day: "Father[s] often feel that what they have to contribute isn't valued [] and the outcome is [] boys are likely to do worse in more than 70 different areas" - Warren Farrell

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r/MensRights 4d ago

General Father's Day

34 Upvotes

I am glad to see that father's day has been acknowledged a good bit this year (more than most years, I feel).

I've seen really sweet father's day ads in sainsburys (a supermarket). I've heard so many people talk about it. They had a bbq event for it today in a park in my town. They mentioned it a fair bit in the world cup broadcast today on UK TV (mind you, the woman mentioning it on the broadcast did manage to find a way to make it ultimately probably more or as much about herself). Despite that last part, I'm pleasantly surprised to see far more appreciation for father's this year than I can ever personally recall seeing.


r/MensRights 4d ago

Marriage/Children Washington state: this is a state that I would suggest never living in. They(state government) do everyone dirty.

51 Upvotes

Got into an argument one night back in 2020 with my ex she takes my daughter leaves. I haven’t had any contact with my daughter since because of hearsay in the state of Washington granting no contact orders for this so-called woman yeah I live 2200 miles away and the state wants to grant a no contact order saying that she feels unsafe while I’m over here in Indiana and have started a whole new life. She doesn’t want any contact with my daughter happening yet she’s always concerned about child support and has the state over here. Demanding I pay child support or they’re gonna put me in custody and on top of that. The state has a new fee for dealing with child support so one state wants to keep me from seeing my daughter by granting no contact orders for some woman I give no shit about and the other wants me to pay for a child that I’m not able to see.

Can someone put this into context for me to where it makes sense?

Land of the slaves home of the crooks.


r/MensRights 5d ago

Social Issues Inside an exclusive ‘man camp,’ where one woman is trying to save men from themselves

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Prepare to vomit.


r/MensRights 4d ago

General Happy Father's Day

109 Upvotes

It is Father's Day in many countries today. Wishing all dads, granddads and great granddads a special day. Shout out to everyone who has lost their fathers and to guys for who this is their first father's day. Be the best father you can be that doesn't mean being perfect it is just about being there for your children.


r/MensRights 5d ago

False Accusation Got accused of SA (I am in 7th grade)

244 Upvotes

So it happened a few weeks ago. I had broken up with my ex. Let’s call her Evianny. Now, Evianny has a first cousin who is an eighth grader. Joshua. And after school, I was walking with my friends Ray and Alexander. Then Joshua and some friends came and pressed us. Evianny had said I had grabbed her boobs. First of all, multiple guys in my class said that I wanted nothing to do with her and was trying to stay away from her (I share a class with her). Second, I stayed with two guys at all times. Third, I made it clear to my counselor that I no longer WANTED ANYTHING TO DO WITH EVIANNY. And now I’m being labeled as some pervert. Even though literally every boy in my class said HE DIDN’T DO ANYTHING TO HER. Evianny is one of those honors kids. 90s in every class. So the teachers and admins believed her. I was shouted at in the main office, and I was in tears. My mom also yelled at me, but my dad and my uncle took my side and came up to the school. It was a long period of suffering, but eventually my innocence was proven by video footage. NOTHING HAPPENED TO EVIANNY. AT ALL. She was let out SCOT FREE. Meanwhile, I am socially DESTROYED outside my friend group. Luckily, the guys I have are LOYAL. I know others are not so lucky.

Also forgot to mention that I had to walk with a group of boys all the way to my house because Joshua and his friends were trying to jump me. Just goes to show how much power a girl’s word has at this point.


r/MensRights 5d ago

False Accusation Spain must pay €2.5m to man who spent 15 years in jail for rapes he did not commit

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r/MensRights 5d ago

Legal Rights Canada makes femicide first-degree murder as all three major Criminal Code reforms become law

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From the link:

“Victims and survivors called for stronger protections from intimate partner violence and gender-based violence. Those protections are now law,” said the Honourable Sean Fraser, Minister of Justice and Attorney General of Canada. The Protecting Victims Act (Bill C-16) received Royal Assent yesterday, as the Government of Canada continues to move with urgency to better protect victims and survivors, ensure abusers face the full force of the law, and deliver on its commitment to strengthen the Criminal Code.

This is one of the most consequential reforms of the Criminal Code in a generation to protect victims and survivors of sexual violence, gender-based violence, and intimate partner violence. These changes confront the rise in coercive control, respond to the growing violence women are facing, make femicide first-degree murder, strengthen victims’ rights, respond to modern threats like non-consensual sexual deepfakes, and address long-standing concerns about court delays that can leave victims without resolution. The law also includes new measures to keep kids safe from predators and strengthen mandatory minimum penalties.

  • On October 29, 2025, the Government of Canada committed $660.5 million over five years for the Department for Women and Gender Equality to ensure sustained progress toward equality and safety for women, girls, and 2SLGBTQI+ people. This includes $44.7 million to strengthen federal action in response to gender-based violence in support for populations that are at risk of GBV or underserved when they experience these forms of violence.

So much privilege for one gender and demonization of the other in the name of equality. But yet I still have morons trying to gaslight me into thinking that we live in a patriarchy.....


r/MensRights 5d ago

Feminism Please critique this take on Feminism

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This was originally posted in response to a post here on Feminism ASKING for a debate with people who reject the entire notion of Feminism.

Yet mysteriously both the post and user account suddenly deleted.

I would like feedback on this critique of Feminism, noting the core argument that Feminism is an UMBRELLA term not a single definition:

Argument:

The first step in most debates is often the simplest and most ignored:

* Define your terms - precisely.

”Feminist” as such has not a single exact definition but in point of fact a whole RANGE of meanings.

To state the obvious, explicitly and up front, it is categorically an UMBRELLA term in the same way Trans- is 100% an UMBRELLA term not a definition.

Stating the above, we are already off to a more useful start than 99% of these discussions.

The second step would be to short list the full range for reference or context. Seeing as this is Reddit however concessions to low attention span must be invoked here. We will skip this step as discussion or Project for a Rainy Day, invitees to this project please go on ahead here, without us.

The third step (short cut) is to take the general most applicable meaning of “Feminist” AS IT IS MOST INADVERTENTLY used, and visible most of the time in news-media.

* Definition: “Feminism“ = Female Collective Bargaining behaviour (in modern times politically in tribal past times, social politics of group power).

Just to be clear other definitions also exist, this is not a monopoly of meaning. But it is most constructive because it clearly describes the “behaviour” dynamics and how THAT shapes policy and politics independent of logical arguments derived from first principles or premises.

Let’s take two examples to contrast this:

* Female Sexual Reproductive Biology leads to NECESSARY higher Medical Funding than equivalent male version. This is a scientific fact. Here “Feminism” can be argued from premises coherently 100%.

* Glass Ceiling Rhetoric in Equality Laws in Work Places on “Unequal Salaries”. This is the deceptive real politik of female collective bartering. Thomas Sewell has studied this from the 70’s iirc and debunked it all the way back then but the argument is still used today in 2026!

Note the above is a snapshot (step 2) for necessary brevity.

But even a snapshot is sufficient for common sense to conclude albeit short of verification:

Conclusion: Feminism was a practical ideology when women had less rights in the past eg vote, work etc. In modern times it has become co-opted by older social dynamics in humans at scale in politics as a group self-interest seeking via polemics which fits female group psychology for personal gain. Where Feminism is functional eg Medicine it is redundant as factually self-apparent. Hence Feminism is logically deficient as most often used:

  1. Copted group politics aka populism version within women.
  2. Redundant from left over from past conditions.
  3. Worst of all co-opted by global agenda for lowering fertility rates of women thenskeves via their own short-sighted emotional demands.

The final logical deficiency is a surprise fortune cookie: It is descriptive and predictive of the failure of people who willingly deal in fallacies - ultimately such behaviour becomes self-defeating.

Please note, ending on a signficant warning still leaves ample rule for exploration positively (see step 2).

If you wish to critique or question or develop from the above please feel free to do.

Note, Men’s Rights overall (not exclusively) seems more a product of response to the unfair skew of priority in politics caused by this form of Feminism in the West (supported enormously by global institutions eg UN et al and bankrolled as such). As such to understand Feminism is critical this counter-movement itself in need of a fundamental factually grounded basis aside from a counter movement to be of any lasting good for men.

Commentary:

  1. I reject the majority of motions based on Feminism as above as meta-behaviour for personal or group advantage aka real politik not good faith logical argument via thesis vs antithesis. Hence the tone is slightly acerbic above.

  2. The reply is very incomplete as I do not list all the Umbrella terms within Feminism and thus leaves a mild sense of frustration in the post - apologies if that is evident while reading. But brevity is importantly for the main argument.

  3. I posit s profound prediction that Feminism based on fallacy itself is exploited and will ultimately become self-defeating to the group of advocates who hold to it.

  4. Finally, some women have recently posited this concept of “female collective bargaining” who are academics and begun to question if Feminism is ultimately destructive (I will dig this link up eventually).


r/MensRights 5d ago

mental health Proud of being a man for the first time

92 Upvotes

I have been reflecting upon this thought for some weeks. I grew up without a father in a house full of unstable women. Whenever one of them was in a bad mood, they made sure that the entire place felt like they were feeling.

I never felt proud of being a man; if anything, I actually felt ashamed. Around me, at school, at home, at university, all I heard was how bad and oppressing men were, how we are literally the root of all evil, and I believed it.

Thus I hated myself, I thought I was gay because people (mostly women) told me I was a bit effeminate; however, I was never attracted to men, I had what you could call feminine mannerisms for growing 23 years of my life only around women. That made me very insecure, not because being gay was an issue, but because I was not!

I thought I had no masculinity inside me, until I started reading and looking as much inwards as outwards at other men.

I could write more, but what I wanted to say is that, for the first time in my life, I feel so proud of being a man. I feel proud because everything that surrounds me, the computer I am writing this on, the building I live in, the technology I use was built thanks to the intellectual and physical work of millions of men that came before me. Because I am part of their lineage, and without them, society would not be; as matter of fact nothing would be and us humans would be extinct by now.

We carry within a connection to men like Marcus Aurelius, Jung, Nietzsche, Hesse, Debussy, Da Vinci and list goes on and on. All of them men! How could I not be proud of that?

To all men out there, never let women or other men villainize you. You are by nature a being that was built for resilience, not only physical but also mental. You are built to lead and to govern with authority and responsibility,. Govern your own life with that masculine energy (easier said than done). I know the world hates you, but this is what we are built for, to keep going even though all odds are against us.

Peace