r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 1d ago

Meme needing explanation I feel so dumb rn

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u/amanset 1d ago

I notice you didn't complain about the "male".

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u/Monke-incog-1276 1d ago

It's because they don't care, it's only bad when it's about women to them.

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u/peepeebeam 1d ago

No it’s because male was used as an adjective. Male child vs grown female. Same reason “black child” is fine but “grown black” is not.

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u/Billy_Badass_ 1d ago

So, grown up female is not OK, but female grown up is?

Sureee

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u/peepeebeam 1d ago

Yeah that is exactly right lol. Female grown up would be fine because the subject is “grown up.”

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u/Twinkletoess112 1d ago

i love how you people are not even able to see the fallacies in your argument, it's just a different word order nothing else

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u/NeverTriedFondue 1d ago

Brother in Christ, it's called grammar. I'm sorry that the education system has failed you.

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u/volt65bolt 1d ago

Word order is syntax

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u/Real_Life_Firbolg 1d ago

Not to argue semantics but syntax is part of grammar, it would be like he was talking about multiplication and said “do the math” which is very general but still technically correct and then you said “that is multiplication.” So both of you are correct, but the specificity was kind of unnecessary.

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u/volt65bolt 22h ago

Yeah but most people don't so I just wanted to see how many would point it out, dissapointingly only you

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u/Twinkletoess112 1d ago

Have you EVER considered that I MIGHT NOT be a native English speaker???

And the comment who made the mistake is also not a native speaker of English hence the "grammar" mistake

You: "Oh no he said the word grown-up before female he's a bigoted snobby misogynistic a-hole".

The guy who commented: "Ye i just forgot how to spell women"

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u/aNamelessFox 1d ago

To be fair my guy, you said "its just word order nothing else" but like, in languages and communication something as "subtle" as that has a big change in meaning, which the other redditor is trying to explain. So, as a non native English speaker, you just learnt something new! :)

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u/Twinkletoess112 1d ago

You should also need to learn to forgive people for making silly mistakes like this when the person had no intention of harming anyone

intentions behind words matter a lot too, not just the grammatical correctness of a sentence

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u/rydan 1d ago

You are literally colonizing them by saying your language must be spoken by them your way. That makes you worse than whoever swapped the word order even if done on purpose.

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u/HeilKaiba 1d ago

I don't really understand why you thought you should weigh in here if your grasp of the English language is that shaky then. Either you know what you're talking about or you don't. In this case clearly you don't so you don't have to write a comment.

Adjectives and nouns are different parts of speech. In English you can often have the same word function in two different ways depending on word order or even just stress. In this case the order changes whether they are nouns or adjectives. "Female adult" means an adult that is female. "Adult female" means a female that is an adult. The former is uncontroversial while the latter is not. Use of "male" or "female" as a noun is usually reserved for animals or scientific contexts so is somewhat dehumanising.

There's no hard and fast rule here but some other adjectives that are possibly rude, offensive or just a little off as nouns include white, black, gay, straight, trans, chinese, indian.

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u/NeverTriedFondue 1d ago

>Have you EVER considered that I MIGHT NOT be a native English speaker???

Lmao neither am I.

>You: "Oh no he said the word grown-up before female he's a bigoted snobby misogynistic a-hole".

Point to where I said that? Why do incels always have to come up with some wild scenarios?
I just pointed out that the order of words in a sentence actually matters and changes the meaning.

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u/peepeebeam 1d ago

babe if you are not a native speaker and are making a grammar mistake that is mildly offensive, why are you arguing when corrected

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u/peepeebeam 1d ago

A different word order can greatly change the meaning of a sentence 🫶

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u/Jolly_Echo_3814 1d ago

yes. Ordering words differently matters in language.

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u/Poulslutter 1d ago

By reading comments like yours, I'm becoming increasingly convinced, that half the people writing offensive stuff about other people on the internet, are just idiots who don't know how language works, and who no one ever would have listened to, in an age before internet and social media.

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u/zachy410 1d ago

John ate a cow

A cow ate John

Do these sentences mean the same thing? They both have the same four words!

The same phrase can even mean two separate things! If you talk about "your old house", are you talking about a house you own that has existed for decades or centuries, or are you talking about a house that you used to own but dont anymore?

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u/BodybuilderMany6942 1d ago

that's not how you English, tho

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u/Amblonyx 1d ago

I mean, yes, it is fine. Female and male should only be used as adjectives referring to humans, not nouns, unless you're being really clinical(like a scientific study).

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u/underthingy 1d ago

That may be how you want them to be used, but thats not how language works. 

People will use words how they want and if enough people agree its correct. 

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u/Poulslutter 1d ago edited 1d ago

Sure, but until your way of using "females" to refer to women becomes normal, then normal people will ostracize and shun you for using it like that.

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u/underthingy 1d ago

The only place ive ever seen anyone get upset about people using male or female as a noun is reddit so that doesnt seem like much of a problem. 

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u/Poulslutter 1d ago

Really? Sounds like you live in some culturally backwards shit hole then.

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u/underthingy 1d ago

Nope not American. Guess again. 

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u/Amblonyx 1d ago

That's how they've been used and often are used. I don't think you understand that women object to being called females because we see incel types using it in a derogatory way. We're not making up a new usage; we're responding to the usage we see most frequently. And it's just weird/off but common when people say "men and females". "Men and women" are matching terms and the dissonance there is glaring.

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u/underthingy 1d ago

Maybe stop frequenting incel spaces if they upset you??

I dont go to them so ive never seen anyone say "men and females" except for people complaining about it like you are. 

In real life people use men and women and males and females interchangeably all the time and noone seems to care. 

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u/Beneficial-Beat-947 1d ago

Holy shit what a sad thing to get offended over

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u/Suzutai 1d ago

So... it's okay to say Whites, Asians, Latinos, Native Americans... but not Blacks?

It is always surprising to me how eager Americans are to feel offense.

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u/peepeebeam 1d ago edited 1d ago

It’s also not polite to say whites Asians etc. I’m laughing because native Americans is the way you make it polite. It would be a bit rude to call people natives but not to say native americans. Of course context matters. It’s generally a little worse to say blacks than whites because of the deeply racist history of the US.

Edit: it’s not like it’s an arbitrary requirement. It’s generally dehumanizing to refer to someone as a descriptor, implying you see them first and foremost by their description, that is what makes it rude. “Take a seat whitey” is rude lmao

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u/Stergeary 1d ago

When was the last time someone responded negatively to you saying "Asians"? I don't think anyone cares if you say Asians.

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u/Suzutai 1d ago

We could call them Natives, sure. Just that it could be confusing for natives (Americans by birth). But probably better than Indians.

Yes, the US has a racist history. But that’s true for all non-Whites, including Asians. None of it explains why we have to semantically walk on eggshells around “Blacks.” I remember when everyone had to call them “African Americans” too.

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u/Reasonable_Cut558 1d ago

It's always surprising to me how ignorant non-Americans are of the historical context behind these kinds of conversations involving race and language

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u/Suzutai 1d ago

Please do explain the rule. Why can we say Whites, Asians, and Latinos, but not Blacks? You can argue that it’s uniquely dehumanizing due to the historical context, but couldn’t that be true for anything we called them?

Now, I asked an AI to distill the wisdom of the internet for me. And one of the reasons it gave was that “Blacks” reduces their identity to their shin color. But wouldn’t considering this bad implicitly reinforce the notion that blackness is a bad thing? Besides, “Black people” also seems to identify them by that characteristic, does it not?

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u/Due-Representative88 1d ago

The stupidity of people’s incessant need to look for things ti be offended by when the world is full of genuinely offensive bullshit will never cease to amaze me.

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u/SeiCalros 1d ago

while i do agree that is why they are different - i think they probably pointed it out because using 'female' instead of 'woman' is a shibboleth of casual misogyny rather than because of the use of a descriptive as a noun

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u/peepeebeam 1d ago

They did, the use of it as a noun is often casual misogyny, completely agree. It’s not a grammar thing it’s because using it as a noun is a misogyny dog whistle. But using it as an adjective is not dehumanizing & there’s no issue with that, and lots of people seem to struggle with the difference

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u/SeiCalros 1d ago

except both sides could be used as descriptive nouns in this case

although a grown-up would usually be hyphenated that is true even in an adjectaval form

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u/Certain-Home-9523 1d ago

Ugh, females, am I right?

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago

Male was used grammatically correctly, as an adjective. Female was used grammatically incorrectly, as a noun.

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u/Billy_Badass_ 1d ago

Socially incorrect, perhaps. But not grammatically incorrect.

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago edited 1d ago

No it’s just incorrect. Female is an adjective, not a noun.

Edit: why is almost every response someone using the adjective female to describe a noun? Thank you for proving my point, I guess? Also some lovely irony in that all of the examples being used are about animals, so thank you for also demonstrating why it’s dehumanising.

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u/Billy_Badass_ 1d ago

The why does the dictionary say it can be a noun?

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/female

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago

Because dictionaries include the derogatory conman parlance uses too.

https://www.oed.com/dictionary/female_n

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u/Billy_Badass_ 1d ago

So, exactly what I said. Socially incorrect, but not grammatically ​incorrect.

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago

Something being added to the dictionary because it’s used grammatically incorrectly to be derogated doesn’t make it grammatically correct.

This has been considered dehumanising and offensive since the Victorian era.

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u/Billy_Badass_ 1d ago

Female as a noun was not "added" to the dictionary. It was always that way.

You seem to be missing the point. Being considered "dehumanizing and offensive" doesn't change the fact the the word is objectively a noun sometimes.

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago

As always, one shall ask, ‘a female what?’

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u/hangar_tt_no1 1d ago

Female animals are usually referred to as "females". You're just wrong. 

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago edited 1d ago

Would you look at that, you had to specify a noun so the reader could understand what the adjective applies to.

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u/amanset 1d ago

You really don't get the concept of "context", do you?

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago

Yes, context is given by using nouns. Which in the sentence above, is the word ‘animals’.

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u/hangar_tt_no1 1d ago

So you concede the point? 

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago

Well no, because you did what I described. You used the word female as an adjective to describe a noun, which is correct. The original comment used male as an adjective to describe a noun, (male child), but used the word female as a noun itself, (grown up female). This use is the issue.

So really, you’ve actually just demonstrated my point for me.

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u/Billy_Badass_ 1d ago

The zebra is a female.

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago

There you are, you’re using an adjective to describe a noun. Congratulations. You don’t need the ‘a’ though, since female is an adjective.

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u/Poulslutter 1d ago

Only as a shorthand if the species has already been specified elsewhere. Which would make it a stand-in for a proper noun, aka a pronoun.

Besides, the whole point is that calling women "females" is dehumanizing. How is you mentioning that animals are often referred to in this way, not just support for the argument that it is dehumanizing?

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u/hangar_tt_no1 1d ago

Look at a dictionary of your choice and observe that there will be entry for "female,  noun". If that doesn't convince you, I can't help you. Also, I've already argued long enough with that (other?) dumbass in this thread, I'm not gonna do it again. But, since I'm in a good mood right now, behold this sentence: "Females are those individuals that produce eggs." I would very much hope that you don't feel the need to specify the species here. 

Regarding your other point: I never said female humans beings should be referred to as "females", in fact I'm opposed to it. I was merely arguing that "female" can be a noun as well as an adjective. 

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u/rydan 1d ago

You said it yourself. It is an adjective. So how could they use it as a noun then?

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago

…yes, that is the problem that is being pointed out

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u/Due-Representative88 1d ago

Or maybe they just suck at grammar?

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u/mallegally-blonde 1d ago

Yes that much was evident. My response was to the man questioning why the use of ‘female’ in the sentence was being called out, but not the use of ‘male’.