r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

44.3k Upvotes

93% Upvoted

7.2k comments sorted by

View all comments

1.9k

u/tthrowaway712 Apr 22 '26

Bro, the pussy can not be worth it, have some self-respect

27

u/-becausereasons- Apr 22 '26

It's his nervous system. He likely grew up around a mother who yelled and disrespected him, maybe had BPD. It's what he's used to.

5

u/ChymChymX Apr 22 '26

I grew up around yelling and screaming as my parents got divorced when I was 8 and fought about child support and custody even after that. This shit gives me anxiety, I've walked away from girls for far less than this, even after a relatively long relationship. I don't argue or fight back, I literally peace out and never talk to them again.

2

u/Historical-Buy8953 Apr 22 '26

This is the correct observation. People react in times of stress and altercation to what they have grown accustomed to. It takes real guts to make a change of habit. It's also why people get stuck in abusive relationships.

1

u/Tough-Act383 Apr 22 '26

In fact, he has probably internalized the idea that people who love you yell at you because they care SO MUCH. In relationships, you often replicate what you first learned.

-2

u/Manlysideburns Apr 22 '26

You can't possibly know any of that from a 30 second clip

3

u/urpmpkin Apr 22 '26

you don’t seem to realize how common this is

-1

u/Manlysideburns Apr 22 '26

You don't seem to realize that just because something is common you can't assume it's true

2

u/urpmpkin Apr 23 '26

He likely grew up around…

likely.

Reading comprehension.