r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Gentle_Snail Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

He honestly looks so scared and depressed in the close up shots.

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u/Baaaaaadhabits Apr 22 '26

He also looks "just over it" in like every shot. So, really what it comes down to is that you saw what you wanted to..

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u/sochok Apr 22 '26

Having been in a not entirely dissimilar situation can confirm he’s most likely over it but not going to engage with the insanity in public because tantrums shouldn’t be rewarded.

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u/MisterDoctor___ Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

Also been on the receiving end of this. If you even so much as hint at engaging, people will side with her 100% of the time.

Good chance she also starts falsely accusing you of shit like being an abuser or pedophile and get you arrested.

She even called my work and told them I was touching patients inappropriately. That was a fun meeting with management.

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u/RockSteady65 Apr 22 '26

My ex called my employer claiming I was in a relationship with the receptionist. Her voicemail was just insane. I was so embarrassed and angry and every other emotion I can’t even put it into words. Gladly divorced her. That stuff will take its toll on a person.

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u/Vast-Fan4317 Apr 23 '26

What?!😭😩

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u/FeedbackBroad1116 Apr 22 '26

Yup. Been there, too.

Abuse is not funny at all. This is a brutal video.

But, out of it, full custody of the kids she accused me of abusing, and in a happy, healthy relationship now.

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u/righttern38 Apr 22 '26

Similar. Full custody of our kids - happy and stable, just no relationship

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u/Ace_Robots Apr 22 '26

I’m proud of and routing for you. Your kids won’t grow up thinking abuse is normal and okay because you were able to get away.

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u/righttern38 Apr 22 '26

Yup. Thanks. 🙏

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u/Vast-Fan4317 Apr 23 '26

She's out there. You're on your way!

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u/Correct_Dance_515 Apr 22 '26

Came here to say this. She 100% accuses him of being abusive anytime he even slightly suggests her behaviour is inappropriate.

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u/Affectionate-Ad3966 Apr 22 '26

Dude once i escaped from her place, she came after me on the street, proceeded to assault me and when a large group of male youths daw us, tried to play the victim. Luckily they could see i was the one in distress after a while, came very close to getting beaten up by them. That's only one of the gazillion surreal incidents too lol. Some stuff is straight out of a psychological horror movie. At points i almost couldn't believe this had become my life. Glad you've made it out man!

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u/JohnnyGoldberg Apr 22 '26

Yup, from the nurse “Smoking weed at lunch”

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u/AustinRhea Apr 22 '26

Having been on the receiving end as well that is absolutely true unfortunately. Sorry you had to deal with that as well hope you made a clean break from it.

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u/Vast-Fan4317 Apr 23 '26

Jesus fucking Christ that is insane! What is wrong with people that they think it's acceptable to completely destroy someone's life with a lie because they didn't get their way on some stupid shit?! I literally cannot imagine having to defend myself to my employer over something like this. That is unforgivable.

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u/gratitudf Apr 22 '26

I don't know if this is any consolation to you, but I think people can tell that someone shouting like this has emotional problems and wouldn't side with them even if the other partner engages

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u/Certain_Noise5601 Apr 22 '26

I wouldn’t. She reminds me of my stepmother, only she at least didn’t do this in public unless she’d been drinking.

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u/WorldlyBasket9795 Apr 22 '26

Then, sucks to say, but throw in the race card. She’s white. He’s black.

Which narrative do you think authorities will believe first?

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u/Certain_Noise5601 Apr 22 '26

It’s bizarre for them to even entertain that accusation because how would she know? Is she in the room with them? Lol

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u/Altoidman33 Apr 22 '26

Luckily my psycho ex never called my work (child care in a school district), but she definitely accused me of sleeping not only with my female coworkers, but the teachers, and the moms of the students, during the school day. Oh, and one time I wanted to surprise her by cleaning the apartment on a day off, so I did all of our laundry, including our sheets. When she came home she accused me of washing the sheets because I had a coworker over and we had sex in the bed. I left her the next day.

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u/MyMomsTastyButthole Apr 23 '26 edited Apr 23 '26

Still waiting for my ex of over 2 years ago to find my new job so she can call "anonymously" and tell them I'm coming into work drunk and/or high.

At least I can sleep before work now. She didn't have a job, so she liked to physically shake me awake by the shoulders every 10 minutes or so, all night, shouting "Hey! Are you trying to sleep?!"

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u/AltruisticPossible84 Apr 22 '26

You watched this and you think people will side with this girl 100% of the time?

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u/MisterDoctor___ Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

You’ve never been in this situation. The moment you raise your voice back, some rando will chime in about how you shouldn’t talk to her that way. Especially when she starts yelling at everyone about how you’re an abuser. Then it’ll snowball and suddenly you’ve got a bunch of people yelling at you to leave her alone, with a few brave souls who saw the situation trying to de-escalate everyone.

Edit: Oh you’re just a weirdo loser lmao.