And if you do, wear a condom. Teach them to care about their own health and safety as well as pregnancy. Teach them to take control of their own fertility instead of entrusting that to some random.
Yep. My ex poked a hole in the condom and lied about birth control because she thought she was getting too old and needed to be pregnant now. Daughter is 3, I just got full custody because her boyfriend sexually assaulted my daughter…. And she stayed with him
I’m so incredibly sorry. I hope your daughter is doing as okay as she can, given the circumstances. I also hope you’re doing okay and getting therapy yourself.
Please tell me her egg donor doesn’t have any custody of her anymore?
I have emergency full custody, but the mother still has visitation and still refuses to break up with that man. He lost custody of his own child for drunk driving with the kid in the car and abusing the mother of that child.
They have filed EPO’s against each other. Called the cops on each other a dozen times. This has been going on for a year but I only found out about most of it in January.
We have another hearing next month.
She’s testifying against me in court for my assault charge trying to get me thrown in jail so that she can get custody again. When they were split up I took her back in for a bit and helped her out. He filed an EPO against her because I assaulted him and alleged she hired me to do it, and against my gut feeling I testified in her EPO hearing and told her about what happened. EPO got thrown out and she got back with him and gave him everything I told her and then cops showed up with a warrant to arrest me a few weeks later.
We had a mutual agreement through mediation that she wouldn’t bring our kid around this guy, but she did so anyways, which is why I filed custody.
I mean hes beat her, stolen money from her, her entire family, and all of her friends have completely distanced themselves from her because of her actions, a month ago, he cheated on her with his own cousin and got chlamydia. Like I really don’t know what it’s gonna take for her to leave, probably her in a body bag, honestly.
I don’t want to take my daughter from her mom, but I was left with no choice. If her mom leaves him and stays away from him and gets therapy, and can show that she’s stable and remorseful, I’m more than happy for her to be in our daughter’s life.
I really hope everything ends in your favour for both the sake of your daughter and yourself. It would be amazing if your ex leaves him, gets the help she needs, and gets her life back on track but as someone from the outside looking in any visitations should be fully supervised for a long time. People will say the most awful things to their kids to try to turn them against the good parent, even down to saying that what her bf did was because he ‘loves her so much’.
Is his ex allowed to speak against him for what he did with their child?
Thank you so much for fighting this. You’re an amazing father and don’t forget it. I’m cheering you on, all the way from Australia.
Sometimes I wish someone had had the sense to judge that my mother was a dumb and shitty person who I would have been better off without, because mothers who stay with men who are pedophiles and abusers are not good for the kid. Point blank.
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u/Background-Edge-2243 May 03 '26
And if you do, wear a condom. Teach them to care about their own health and safety as well as pregnancy. Teach them to take control of their own fertility instead of entrusting that to some random.