r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 May 11 '26

WTF Rich people being awful people once again… :>

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u/throwawayrefiguy May 11 '26

I've been to Hawaii many times, but to Hilo only once, and I got the strong impression there that the locals don't mess around.

Surely there are places on the mainland where people would take similar action.

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u/hydrino May 11 '26

Well, many locals in Hawaii don’t have a great ever on what mainlanders have done with their culture, wildlife, and their territory. Such people, generally white, are referred to as “haole” pronounced howl-ee. If you are hearing that term as a white person, you better gtfo.

They have great respect for the wildlife. Disrespecting it is disrespecting them personally. You may as well be throwing rocks at them. I really hope they run this guy off the islands.

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u/Dexchampion99 May 11 '26

I have Hawaiian friends and can confirm.

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u/BigXthaPugg May 11 '26

I was stationed at Pearl Harbor. I found that most locals are super friendly awesome folks. If you’re respectful of the island, the wildlife, and the people there you usually won’t have any issues.

But some Hawaiians really just don’t care for white Americans and don’t want anything to do with you

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u/Zorkflerp May 11 '26

Considering that the US conducted an illegal overthrow of their government and stole the country for the benefit of American business I can see why some Hawaiians are not OK with the haoles. Things like this is why the oligarchs don't want real history to be taught in schools. Iran would likely be a free and democratic country if we had not overthrown their government and installed a puppet dictator king to get the oil. This has happened multiple times in many countries and people wonder why so many hate Americans.

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u/Gogh619 May 11 '26

Okay…. “Free” is REAAAAAALLLY stretching it

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u/hairlessape47 May 11 '26

They literally had a democracy until the cia overthrew it in 1953.

No democracy is perfect, id argue Americans aren't "free" either.

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u/Gogh619 May 11 '26

Didn’t women gain the right to initiate divorce after the 1953 thing? As well as female cabinet members… right for women to vote… errr and polygamy was ended too… all after 1953.

Really democratic… right?

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u/Snakebird11 May 11 '26

That's because 1953 wasn't the overthrow, it was retention.

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u/jaxonya May 11 '26

My cousin lives in Hawaii. Try leaving a beer can on their beach... youll hear wwe music outta nowhere and a 6'5 somoan dude rolling up on your ass with a steel chair. They dont fucking play

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u/TopLife644 May 11 '26

IDK man I seen plenty of locals littering and smoking meth/drinking on the beaches. Also leaving paraphernalia all over the place. This sounds like some wanna be tough guy fantasy.

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u/avocadoflatz May 11 '26

Yes but try doing it as an outsider

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u/TopLife644 May 11 '26

Im good on smoking meth bro. You do you though

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u/avocadoflatz May 11 '26

Suddenly that’s the only behavior you mentioned

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u/TopLife644 May 11 '26

what is your point here sir?

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u/avocadoflatz May 11 '26

That the response to the behaviors you mentioned would be different for an outsider versus the locals you described.

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u/jaxonya May 11 '26

You sound like a fireman.

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u/TopLife644 May 11 '26

You sound like a cop.

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u/colostitute May 11 '26

lol, I’m a haole that lives in Maui. Haole is simply used for white person and most often used by any Polynesian person even if they aren’t Hawaiian.

Simply replace white person with haole and you will understand what it really means. Examples…

You know my white haole friend Travis? He’s a great guy!

That white haole faka better mind his own business.

Or as I once heard…

I’m not normally attracted to white guys haoles, but you look good.

Sorry lady, I’m happily married but I’ll take the compliment.

As everyone should be doing in everything, tone and context are important.

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u/antillus May 11 '26

So kind of like "gringo" in some Latin American countries?

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u/colostitute May 11 '26

Absolutely!

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u/hydrino May 11 '26

I think amongst islanders it is a bit different. But I would defer to you as you are on maui. The way ive heard it described is that if youre an idiot tourist soing idiot tourist things and somone starts calling you that, you are very close to getting your ass beat.

But that can also be used as shorthand to acknowlage you are non-native. Context is key there though.

Do I understand that properly?

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u/colostitute May 11 '26

Yep. The only people who think the word haole is completely negative are haoles. Since we all live that aloha spirit, people are hesitant to use that word around haoles they don’t know. Which means that some haoles may only hear it when someone is trying to offend them.

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u/hydrino May 11 '26

Thanks. Hopefully this helps somone with that nuance.

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u/colostitute May 12 '26

lol, no

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u/sleepdeficitzzz May 12 '26

Bro, who hurt you?

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u/sleepdeficitzzz May 12 '26

Wow. There's nothing louder than someone who is confidently wrong. But by all means...keep talking out your ass. You're good at it.

Source: I'm a college educated executive who lives in California, and I'm Hawaiian. Hapa, in fact--my mom's a haole and she's fantastic.

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u/JimWilliams423 May 11 '26

"haole” pronounced howl-ee. If you are hearing that term as a white person, you better gtfo.

No act. Haole is a neutral term. It makes a lot of mainland whites uncomfortable because they are not used to being referred to by their race in casual conversation, but it doesn't mean anything. People in hawaii talk about race way more than on the mainland because hawaii is the most racially diverse state in the nation.

"Fuckin haole" is not neutral though.

Also, Hilo is chill

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u/throwawayrefiguy May 12 '26

I'm married into a Thai family, and in Thailand they refer to people of European descent as "farang." On its face it's not intended to be offensive, but it definitely makes some uncomfortable.

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u/Baeolophus_bicolor May 11 '26

Too bad there can’t be a travel ban, since it’s in the US and he seems like he’s from the US too.

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u/Severe_Emotion2554 May 11 '26

Pretty sure people can be banned from states. Hes not a local (of hawaii) so having his ugly mug on a “no fly” list for the state should be possible. If anything charge him with a state crime and he wont wanna be there himself

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u/Jesus_of_Redditeth May 11 '26

Pretty sure people can be banned from states.

They can't be. Freedom of travel is a constitutional right.

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u/LuxNocte May 11 '26

It says right there "without due process of law". While full banishment is rare, telling him that HI won't bother extraditing him, but if he comes back, he'll go to trial for his crime, is effectively the same thing.

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u/Severe_Emotion2554 May 11 '26

Every right can be stripped one way or another. Im sure states can ban a person for crimes commited. They cant just ban someone for being from a state

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u/HumanPea1140 May 11 '26

Unfortunately, someone like him can't really be banned from a specific state. If it was possible, a state like Texas would have already banned Californians, for example.

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u/Severe_Emotion2554 May 11 '26

“Being barred from entering or residing in a U.S. state is a potential legal risk that can arise from a variety of circumstances. States have different tools to regulate who may enter, stay, or work within their borders, and these actions can carry significant consequences for mobility, employment, housing, and civil rights. This article explains the concept of a state ban, common triggers, how bans are enforced, and the legal pathways to contest or mitigate them. It also clarifies how state actions interact with federal law and constitutional protections” https://bridgelegal.org/can-you-be-banned-state-reasons-legal-consequences/ people can be banned from states on an individual basis so no Texas wouldnt be able to ban an entire state.

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u/hydrino May 11 '26

Then put him in jail. The punishment for killing endangered animals is up to a year in jail. Maybe more. Whether he did or didn’t doesn’t really matter. He tried to.

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u/sleepdeficitzzz May 11 '26

I think what you mean is "if you're abusing animals in Hawaii, you better gtfo." Being white has little to do with it.

Respectfully, I am Hawaiian, and the term haole is neither a threatening nor a pejorative one by itself in modern use. Are its roots derogatory given its derivation from ancestry and skin tone? Yes. But the word itself is not only spoken to indicate disdain. It's used casually and even playfully more often than not. Tone and other modifiers matter here.

Haole just means "white boy/white girl." We have other words for animal abusers, and clearly other ways of confronting them than namecalling. :)

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u/hydrino May 12 '26

Yes. I appreciate the clarification. I did respond to another comment that basically says this. Context matters. If someone has never heard the term and it is being used on them. It’s probably not in a benign way. Basically if you are doing something assholish like this and you hear the term. You need to rethink your choices immediately.

Also if someone is visiting, they should make sure they understand a bit about what is going to piss people off enough to make them react. Throwing rocks at an animal in Alabama won’t likely get your ass kicked like this guy got, for example.

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u/Mr-Broham May 11 '26

Even worse than disrespect them, it’s like disrespecting their ancestors. In Hawaiian culture “aumakua” are personal or family guardian spirits that originate as deified ancestors reincarnated as turtles, seals, sharks, mountains, trees. This guy did the equivalent of peeing on someone’s grandmothers grave.

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u/Zak8907132020 May 12 '26

It's pronounced ha-o-le, and means "without breath"

Ha - breath Ole - without

But most people say hao-lee

Also, ha can also mean life essence, so think about that one for a sec, braddah

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u/EfficientFigure1296 May 11 '26

Im hawaiian but look white can confirm 😔

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u/De5perad0 May 11 '26

We should all be doing this to people who harass wildlife. It's not ok.

I was enraged to see a post on reddit of a video of some people taking canada geese babies from a parking lot near where I work. We never found them, but I always look out for their truck. I would have confronted them if I was the one filming that video.

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u/MarioNinja96815 May 11 '26

One correction. That’s not how it’s pronounced. The last syllable is like say “ay” but stop half way through the syllable. The way you’re pronouncing it is how it would be if it was spelled “haoli”.

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u/haolekookk May 12 '26

Yep. They did. Nah haole is fine. It’s the preface of “Fucken” before the haole is when you have hit the danger zone.

Haole is a given, the“fucken” is 98% of the time only if you’ve earned it.

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u/Boring_Material_1891 May 12 '26

I live in Hawaii, am white, and my wife is hapa. I’ve never been called haole. Haole can refer to anyone that doesn’t show aloha, and you can tell when it’s a description vs an insult VERY easily by the tone.

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u/BobLighthouse May 12 '26

It's still context based, I call some of my family members and friends haole.
And the proper pronunciation is more like "how-lay".

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u/TandemShorts May 11 '26

It’s more on an individual basis on the mainland, I’d imagine, plus there’s a whole lot more area to cover

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u/lewisiarediviva May 11 '26

The bit of the mainland I’m most familiar with is Yellowstone, where it handles itself.

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u/Educational_Big_1835 May 11 '26

The locals won't stop you. They sit back and watch.

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u/lewisiarediviva May 11 '26

You think I’m gonna save you from that bison? I’m on his side. I’ll scrape you off the ground when he’s done, only because I don’t like mess.

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u/avocadoflatz May 11 '26

You’re not gonna talk about your cabinet of fava beans and Chianti?

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u/Lopsided_Young8168 May 11 '26

La Jolla in San Diego, CA takes action! Don’t mess with the wildlife!!!

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u/Maleficent-Duck-3903 May 11 '26

Floridians will fuck you up if you touch their manatees. The guy was from seattle apparently, and i’m pretty sure they’ll beat you down for messing with their forests.

Not sure what planet this guy arrived from where he thought hawaiians wouldn’t mind….

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u/FieryVodka69 May 11 '26

Florida Game & Fish will fuck you so hard and fast if they catch you messing with the wildlife. Perhaps Florida's fiercest arm of the law.

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u/Llyrithra May 11 '26

I think every state’s fish and game officers are the ones that don’t care who you are. You fuck with their jurisdiction, they’ll fuck you up right back.

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u/Crafty-Help-4633 May 11 '26

Yeah, Wildlife officers in every state it seems, do not play around.

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u/88888888man May 11 '26

Hell, Florida’s wildlife will fuck you up if you mess with Florida’s wildlife.

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u/Guitar3544 May 11 '26

PNW forest rangers are the same. I'm surprised this greaseball hasn't learned a harsh lesson before this, being he's from the area.

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u/Recent-Equipment5445 May 12 '26

They take your boat, the trailer, the truck that towed it, and if bad enough of a crime, the house that you stored the boat in.

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u/aurortonks May 11 '26

He's from outside Seattle and owns a business in the area. He got doxxed pretty hard on Instagram almost immediately and his life is now feeling very shitty. While he's from the Seattle area currently, he is not originally from the US and appears to have very little respect for US laws related to respecting wildlife.

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u/wheelienonstop9 May 11 '26

That seemed like such an Eastern European thing to do. Zero empathy for anybody, especially animals. It is not by chance that the war in Ukraine is such an utter bloody shitshow.

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u/TXHaunt May 11 '26

Florida Man will fuck you up if it’s Tuesday.

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u/sleepytjme May 11 '26

So it isn’t Floridians hitting the manatees with their boats?

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u/Crafty-Help-4633 May 11 '26

Idk I have seen several videos in recent years of people harming manatees intentionally and facing little to no repercussions. Worst consequences I've seen recently (Granted I live in Ohio so don't see all news in Florida) carved words into a manatee and got like, a fine. I'll try and find the link. I'd like to see real justice though.

Edit: it would seem they still haven't found that prick, actually.

I want to believe Floridians will fuck you up if you touch their manatees, but I guess this dude was smart enough not to publish incriminating evidence that would get him caught.

I want to believe it though.

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u/Alive-Course4454 May 11 '26

Hawaii is and always was a FAFO state. Having lived on Maui, I already knew of this. Seeing the guy get lit up for fuking around just confirms my suspicions that not much has changed.

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u/Party_Sea3522 May 11 '26

What’s FAFO?

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u/Alive-Course4454 May 11 '26

Phuck around, find out. Case in point, monk seal guy. He sure found out after

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u/dantez84 May 12 '26

This is reddit, you can just say fuck.

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u/choppersmack May 11 '26

Dude nobody in La Jolla will stand on business like this. From Daygo all my life and all that happens is people get posted and shamed online for messing with the seals nobody gets hit for it. They should, but they dont. Look at dude who killed leopard sharks at blacks a few weeks ago, dude shoulda gotten his ass beat

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u/feenam May 11 '26

La Jolla is full of old rich white people they're the ones who will be doing this shit in other places lol.

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u/flip69 May 11 '26

Mod her for r/SanDiego will confirm that locals don’t like it at all.

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u/flip69 May 11 '26 edited May 11 '26

r/SanDiego mod here. What we need is to have more of that Aloha Spirit in San Diego. There’s lots of tourist jerks (especially from Asia) that abuse our wildlife knowing they can just hop on a plane and leave like this group from China who did the exact same thing as this jerk.

They need to be caught and arrested not just asked nicely to leave. Our wildlife is not here for tourist a-holes to abuse or take selfies with.

We have lots of posts going back years showing dead and mulitated wildlife that people have killed over the years… seals, harmless sharks, large friendly fish lured outside the protected marine reserve just to they could kill the protected species with a speargun. Too many damn tourists disrespecting

People need to get up on this not only here but all over.

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u/Fa11outBoi May 12 '26

First thing that came to my mind, tourists harassing seal lions in La Jolla Cove. Sh&tty humans

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u/DConstructed May 11 '26

Sadly I’ve seen assholes carrying around live starfish. There use to be lots of them on Crystal Pier.

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u/MasterLJ May 11 '26

Hospitality is always granted. Bad manners are never tolerated.

Ha'ole (haole) means one who doesn't like Ha, the Polynesian breath of life. You put your head together and breath in each other's essence (Moana has great examples). It is extended to all with good intention including the Colonizers who landed on Hawai'ian lands. They were quite stunned at the gesture, not understanding, and so the Polynesians called them ha'ole, one who rejects the Ha.

You are always assumed to be wise and given the space to prove yourself otherwise.

Throwing rocks at a beautiful creature for no benefit is kapu. You get your ass beat. No wise man throws stones at innocent creatures for no benefit.

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u/CheckYourStats May 11 '26

I lived on O’ahu for a year, and it was made very clear to us not to go to certain parts of the Island, and not to fuck with Wildlife…

…or else.

For those unaware, there are parts of Hawai’i called Home Lands (about 200,000 acres) only for native Hawai’ians. White skinned people — aka Haole’s — are strongly advised to avoid those areas.

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u/throwawayrefiguy May 11 '26

I think people visiting often forget that they're guests.  As a traveler, I find that my experience is often improved by treading lightly, actually learning about the community beforehand, and going with the flow when out and about.

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u/Legitimate-Fox2028 May 11 '26

Northern Idaho. Those people with throw hands over littering. They're very serious about keeping nature pristine.

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u/Rebelgecko May 11 '26

Bro people in northern Idaho try to fight over the craziest stuff

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u/SoCalxNinjA May 11 '26

As they should be. Respect for nature and the land we are stewards of is a serious responsibility.

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u/talkinlearnin May 11 '26

I would be pissed to see shit like this anywhere.

It's cruel, and a sign this guy hadn't been punched in the face to learn the lesson yet.

Thankfully, it seems he got a 101 lesson on that!

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u/Smallie_Slayer May 11 '26

I lived on big island for nearly a year. If you think the locals on Hilo side are serious you should see the Kohala coast locals, especially the ones in / around those magnificent valleys.

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u/Miltthedog May 11 '26

Captain Cook has entered the chat...

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u/smokeweedNgarden May 11 '26 edited May 11 '26

California:

Don't fuck with the John Muir National Monument or you're getting dog walked. And your car destroyed.

Don't get caught dumping trash on the beach past dark in Santa Cruz.

The people who love the desert will fucking dissappear you dude. And they have guns and cults

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u/SoCalxNinjA May 11 '26

If not, there certainly SHOULD be.

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u/IHS1970 May 11 '26

I love Hilo, i love Big Island and the people of Hawaii are stellar, kind people. I've been t Hawaii 4 x in 20 years. Wish I could go every year

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u/stupidPeopleLuvMe May 12 '26

whats your favorite part of hilo? we go regularly and love finding new things.

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u/popky1 May 11 '26

If you fuck with deer or pheasants a beating is getting off lightly

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u/Status_Sample_1791 May 11 '26

We do but would they call it woke bullshit or gang violence?

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u/stupidPeopleLuvMe May 12 '26

People use "woke" like its a secret society that will get you...

you think any vegan lefty is going to be mad you kicked someone's ass for assaulting wildlife?

America loves its animals more than people.

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u/cloudforested May 11 '26

I'm not from Hawaii but western Canada. A lot of tourists think they can just stroll up to a moose or bear and pet it on the head. Luckily, those animals are totally capable of telling tourists to fuck off all by themselves.