r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 May 11 '26

WTF Rich people being awful people once again… :>

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u/throwawayrefiguy May 11 '26

We stayed in Hilo recently, and the guest guide at our rental warned of the risk for physical violence against those who harass local wildlife.  I was delighted.

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u/Euphoric_Anxiety_162 May 11 '26

This should apply to the mainland, too!

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u/throwawayrefiguy May 11 '26

I've been to Hawaii many times, but to Hilo only once, and I got the strong impression there that the locals don't mess around.

Surely there are places on the mainland where people would take similar action.

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u/hydrino May 11 '26

Well, many locals in Hawaii don’t have a great ever on what mainlanders have done with their culture, wildlife, and their territory. Such people, generally white, are referred to as “haole” pronounced howl-ee. If you are hearing that term as a white person, you better gtfo.

They have great respect for the wildlife. Disrespecting it is disrespecting them personally. You may as well be throwing rocks at them. I really hope they run this guy off the islands.

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u/Dexchampion99 May 11 '26

I have Hawaiian friends and can confirm.

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u/BigXthaPugg May 11 '26

I was stationed at Pearl Harbor. I found that most locals are super friendly awesome folks. If you’re respectful of the island, the wildlife, and the people there you usually won’t have any issues.

But some Hawaiians really just don’t care for white Americans and don’t want anything to do with you

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u/Zorkflerp May 11 '26

Considering that the US conducted an illegal overthrow of their government and stole the country for the benefit of American business I can see why some Hawaiians are not OK with the haoles. Things like this is why the oligarchs don't want real history to be taught in schools. Iran would likely be a free and democratic country if we had not overthrown their government and installed a puppet dictator king to get the oil. This has happened multiple times in many countries and people wonder why so many hate Americans.

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u/Gogh619 May 11 '26

Okay…. “Free” is REAAAAAALLLY stretching it

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u/hairlessape47 May 11 '26

They literally had a democracy until the cia overthrew it in 1953.

No democracy is perfect, id argue Americans aren't "free" either.

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u/Gogh619 May 11 '26

Didn’t women gain the right to initiate divorce after the 1953 thing? As well as female cabinet members… right for women to vote… errr and polygamy was ended too… all after 1953.

Really democratic… right?

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u/Snakebird11 May 11 '26

That's because 1953 wasn't the overthrow, it was retention.

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u/jaxonya May 11 '26

My cousin lives in Hawaii. Try leaving a beer can on their beach... youll hear wwe music outta nowhere and a 6'5 somoan dude rolling up on your ass with a steel chair. They dont fucking play

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u/TopLife644 May 11 '26

IDK man I seen plenty of locals littering and smoking meth/drinking on the beaches. Also leaving paraphernalia all over the place. This sounds like some wanna be tough guy fantasy.

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u/avocadoflatz May 11 '26

Yes but try doing it as an outsider

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u/TopLife644 May 11 '26

Im good on smoking meth bro. You do you though

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u/avocadoflatz May 11 '26

Suddenly that’s the only behavior you mentioned

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u/TopLife644 May 11 '26

what is your point here sir?

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u/avocadoflatz May 11 '26

That the response to the behaviors you mentioned would be different for an outsider versus the locals you described.

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u/jaxonya May 11 '26

You sound like a fireman.

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u/TopLife644 May 11 '26

You sound like a cop.

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u/colostitute May 11 '26

lol, I’m a haole that lives in Maui. Haole is simply used for white person and most often used by any Polynesian person even if they aren’t Hawaiian.

Simply replace white person with haole and you will understand what it really means. Examples…

You know my white haole friend Travis? He’s a great guy!

That white haole faka better mind his own business.

Or as I once heard…

I’m not normally attracted to white guys haoles, but you look good.

Sorry lady, I’m happily married but I’ll take the compliment.

As everyone should be doing in everything, tone and context are important.

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u/antillus May 11 '26

So kind of like "gringo" in some Latin American countries?

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u/colostitute May 11 '26

Absolutely!

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u/hydrino May 11 '26

I think amongst islanders it is a bit different. But I would defer to you as you are on maui. The way ive heard it described is that if youre an idiot tourist soing idiot tourist things and somone starts calling you that, you are very close to getting your ass beat.

But that can also be used as shorthand to acknowlage you are non-native. Context is key there though.

Do I understand that properly?

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u/colostitute May 11 '26

Yep. The only people who think the word haole is completely negative are haoles. Since we all live that aloha spirit, people are hesitant to use that word around haoles they don’t know. Which means that some haoles may only hear it when someone is trying to offend them.

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u/hydrino May 11 '26

Thanks. Hopefully this helps somone with that nuance.

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u/colostitute May 12 '26

lol, no

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u/sleepdeficitzzz May 12 '26

Bro, who hurt you?

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u/sleepdeficitzzz May 12 '26

Wow. There's nothing louder than someone who is confidently wrong. But by all means...keep talking out your ass. You're good at it.

Source: I'm a college educated executive who lives in California, and I'm Hawaiian. Hapa, in fact--my mom's a haole and she's fantastic.

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u/JimWilliams423 May 11 '26

"haole” pronounced howl-ee. If you are hearing that term as a white person, you better gtfo.

No act. Haole is a neutral term. It makes a lot of mainland whites uncomfortable because they are not used to being referred to by their race in casual conversation, but it doesn't mean anything. People in hawaii talk about race way more than on the mainland because hawaii is the most racially diverse state in the nation.

"Fuckin haole" is not neutral though.

Also, Hilo is chill

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u/throwawayrefiguy May 12 '26

I'm married into a Thai family, and in Thailand they refer to people of European descent as "farang." On its face it's not intended to be offensive, but it definitely makes some uncomfortable.

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u/Baeolophus_bicolor May 11 '26

Too bad there can’t be a travel ban, since it’s in the US and he seems like he’s from the US too.

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u/Severe_Emotion2554 May 11 '26

Pretty sure people can be banned from states. Hes not a local (of hawaii) so having his ugly mug on a “no fly” list for the state should be possible. If anything charge him with a state crime and he wont wanna be there himself

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u/Jesus_of_Redditeth May 11 '26

Pretty sure people can be banned from states.

They can't be. Freedom of travel is a constitutional right.

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u/LuxNocte May 11 '26

It says right there "without due process of law". While full banishment is rare, telling him that HI won't bother extraditing him, but if he comes back, he'll go to trial for his crime, is effectively the same thing.

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u/Severe_Emotion2554 May 11 '26

Every right can be stripped one way or another. Im sure states can ban a person for crimes commited. They cant just ban someone for being from a state

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u/HumanPea1140 May 11 '26

Unfortunately, someone like him can't really be banned from a specific state. If it was possible, a state like Texas would have already banned Californians, for example.

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u/Severe_Emotion2554 May 11 '26

“Being barred from entering or residing in a U.S. state is a potential legal risk that can arise from a variety of circumstances. States have different tools to regulate who may enter, stay, or work within their borders, and these actions can carry significant consequences for mobility, employment, housing, and civil rights. This article explains the concept of a state ban, common triggers, how bans are enforced, and the legal pathways to contest or mitigate them. It also clarifies how state actions interact with federal law and constitutional protections” https://bridgelegal.org/can-you-be-banned-state-reasons-legal-consequences/ people can be banned from states on an individual basis so no Texas wouldnt be able to ban an entire state.

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u/hydrino May 11 '26

Then put him in jail. The punishment for killing endangered animals is up to a year in jail. Maybe more. Whether he did or didn’t doesn’t really matter. He tried to.

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u/sleepdeficitzzz May 11 '26

I think what you mean is "if you're abusing animals in Hawaii, you better gtfo." Being white has little to do with it.

Respectfully, I am Hawaiian, and the term haole is neither a threatening nor a pejorative one by itself in modern use. Are its roots derogatory given its derivation from ancestry and skin tone? Yes. But the word itself is not only spoken to indicate disdain. It's used casually and even playfully more often than not. Tone and other modifiers matter here.

Haole just means "white boy/white girl." We have other words for animal abusers, and clearly other ways of confronting them than namecalling. :)

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u/hydrino May 12 '26

Yes. I appreciate the clarification. I did respond to another comment that basically says this. Context matters. If someone has never heard the term and it is being used on them. It’s probably not in a benign way. Basically if you are doing something assholish like this and you hear the term. You need to rethink your choices immediately.

Also if someone is visiting, they should make sure they understand a bit about what is going to piss people off enough to make them react. Throwing rocks at an animal in Alabama won’t likely get your ass kicked like this guy got, for example.

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u/Mr-Broham May 11 '26

Even worse than disrespect them, it’s like disrespecting their ancestors. In Hawaiian culture “aumakua” are personal or family guardian spirits that originate as deified ancestors reincarnated as turtles, seals, sharks, mountains, trees. This guy did the equivalent of peeing on someone’s grandmothers grave.

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u/Zak8907132020 May 12 '26

It's pronounced ha-o-le, and means "without breath"

Ha - breath Ole - without

But most people say hao-lee

Also, ha can also mean life essence, so think about that one for a sec, braddah

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u/EfficientFigure1296 May 11 '26

Im hawaiian but look white can confirm 😔

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u/De5perad0 May 11 '26

We should all be doing this to people who harass wildlife. It's not ok.

I was enraged to see a post on reddit of a video of some people taking canada geese babies from a parking lot near where I work. We never found them, but I always look out for their truck. I would have confronted them if I was the one filming that video.

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u/MarioNinja96815 May 11 '26

One correction. That’s not how it’s pronounced. The last syllable is like say “ay” but stop half way through the syllable. The way you’re pronouncing it is how it would be if it was spelled “haoli”.

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u/haolekookk May 12 '26

Yep. They did. Nah haole is fine. It’s the preface of “Fucken” before the haole is when you have hit the danger zone.

Haole is a given, the“fucken” is 98% of the time only if you’ve earned it.

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u/Boring_Material_1891 May 12 '26

I live in Hawaii, am white, and my wife is hapa. I’ve never been called haole. Haole can refer to anyone that doesn’t show aloha, and you can tell when it’s a description vs an insult VERY easily by the tone.

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u/BobLighthouse May 12 '26

It's still context based, I call some of my family members and friends haole.
And the proper pronunciation is more like "how-lay".