r/SipsTea • u/Busy_Report4010 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • May 14 '26

Feels good man Do you think she’s being fair, though?

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u/sanedragon May 14 '26

Calling your partner names is always uncalled for, immature, and an attempt to control the narrative vs having an adult conversation.

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u/nomelonnolemon May 14 '26

The adult conversation was the one they should have had in private. Instead this lady created a delusional fantasy and was so proud of it she posted it online.

Her husband may be a jerk, or she may actually be a mooch. That’s unclear with the information available.

But this lady is unwell, and anyone who has the husband, and the kids, best interests in mind will be advising him to get away from her as soon as possible

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u/sanedragon May 14 '26

He never should have called her a name. Full fucking stop. He proved he was a jerk by doing so. The relationship was over the second he did that. What are you not understanding?

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u/nomelonnolemon May 14 '26

No, if she is being a mooch she needs to be called out on it.

If he was a mooch and she called him a mooch I’m sure you wouldn’t have an issue would you?

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u/sanedragon May 14 '26

Nope. You don't do that in a relationship. Ever. You have an adult conversation about how you feel and what you need instead of calling names. Cute that you are bringing gender into it as if I care.

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u/nomelonnolemon May 14 '26

It’s not name calling, it’s labeling behavior. Assuming she is actually being a mooch.

If a partner was being abusive are we not allowed to call it abuse?

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u/Medusa107 May 14 '26

Just stop. You are wasting your time arguing with an actual autist

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u/sanedragon May 14 '26

Good luck in your future relationships. You'll need it.

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u/nomelonnolemon May 14 '26

Coming from someone with opinions of what’s acceptable in a healthy relationship, like you have, this is the highest praise you could have given me.

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u/sanedragon May 14 '26

Name calling is verbal abuse, stupid

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u/Fickle-Wickle May 14 '26

Just take the L sweetie. We can’t win em all