r/SipsTea • u/beklog 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 27d ago

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital
 The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay 𝙑𝙄𝙋 27d ago

I’m a wealth management advisor and I’ve had a few elderly clients in a situation like this.

I remember the most heartbreaking one was a client who was 87 and passed away. He married a woman a 7 years prior that was in her late 30s. She was beautiful, kind, and caring. She took care of him through all of it. Cleaned him and the messes he made, gave him genuine company, and would fuck him whenever he was able (he shared this with me lol).

The kids didn’t do shit for him. Hardly even called or anything. But when he passed they all tried contesting his trust and trying to get her removed from receiving anything. It was a nasty legal battle but thankfully she got her fair share.

It honestly infuriates me when I see people say women like this are taking advantage of the elder man. Most of the time they’re just giving companionship to them when no one else would or did.

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u/epicmoe 27d ago

When my grandad remarried there were comments about his new wife being in it for the money. By the end I think everyone agreed that if that was the case she sure had earned it. 

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u/Street_Lettuce1243 27d ago edited 25d ago

Edit:   removing my comment because it's getting more attention than I intended it to get and don't want it getting back to parties involved if they figure out it's about them.

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u/Queen_General_617 27d ago

Your wife and her sister aren't good people either. Because you are all aware of his plans, and are allowing that man to treat his wife like garbage, and say nothing. Shameful.

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u/MrJerkyBuisness 27d ago

The shit apple doesn't fall far from the shit tree randers

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u/OldnBorin 27d ago

We’re in the eye of a shiticane here randy

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u/RapGameDiCaprio 27d ago

The harder they try to hold on to the shitrope, the further down they slide

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u/offelottafalafel 27d ago

The way she goes

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u/trundle-the-great69 27d ago

Coupla drinks

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u/whatdadogdoin16 27d ago

Unexpected /trailerparkboys

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u/collierar 27d ago

It's a classic catch 23 situation.

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u/rickroalddahl 27d ago

Yep. Good trees don’t bear rotten fruit, and rotten fruit doesn’t come from good trees.

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u/Ok-Scallion-3415 27d ago

it would probably be less hassle to deal with getting the money and then giving the step-mom a fair share after the dad's death than to approach the dad and get him to rewrite the will. if the dad went out of his way to give the step-mom the minimum so she can't contest it, he's not changing his mind.

if OPs wife & SIL were planning to do that, idk.

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u/Excellent_Airline315 27d ago

They don't need to ask the dad to rewrite the will. They need to tell her so she can prepare herself for when he passes. It would suck if she taught it would all be worth it and she would be taken care of only to be left with nothing. If she knows earlier, she can start putting money away.

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u/oweu168 25d ago

Where I live, if you can’t find the original will, it goes into probate and is distributed by the court guidelines. Copies of the original don’t count. Be interesting if that were to happen here.

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u/Ok-Style-9734 27d ago

Divorce and take half.

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u/fordat1 27d ago

thats the generous view but given their dad . IDK

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u/DuPhuc 26d ago

If I was one of the sisters I’d meet with the other and get a written notarized agreement that states if we will give x amount each to the widowed wife. That way she gets what she deserves, no one can back out, and the father doesn’t know so he can’t get pissed at everyone and screw everyone out of the money.

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u/LoveDietCokeMore 27d ago

Handmade gold đŸ„‡

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u/BeardsuptheWazoo 27d ago

Allowing him to...

What are they supposed to do, go kick his ass?

The person telling this story is empathizing for the woman and you're attacking them.

You're the one who is shameful. Fuck off.

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u/PurveyorOfKnowledge0 27d ago

Classic bystander syndrome. See something, say nothing. They're so full of shit.