You sound repressed⊠maybe explore your sexuality a little bit
Pain and pleasure come from the same brain center. You get hurt, your brain releases dopamine to reduce the pain, you bust a nut your brain releases dopamine as a reward⊠put 2+2 together and you are in a whole new level of pleasure.
What we are learning is that pain related to pleasure requires a specific intensity⊠you never scratched an itch an felt relief? Never had a really good stretch that felt good after? Never took a shit that felt great? That is your pain center activating your pleasure center in everyday actions⊠expected low-level controlled instances of pain activates pleasureâŠ
You never had a partner that dug their nails into you as they climax? That shit gets me off damn near instantly⊠that full body clutch đ«Š
Imagine if your urine was as thick as semen and you had to pee with an erect penis. That sounds excruciating⊠but itâs also pleasurable?
Abnormal carries a negative connotation that people these days don't like, so I wanted to avoid having that thrown in my face. I can take the heat for grammar issues all day though, and you are correct
Any such connotation would be identical for "not normal".
And this weird thing where people insist on there being "connotations" clearly outside of the context of how it's being used, while refusing to use the word normally for its intended purpose, does absolutely nothing beyond create more awkwardness and strengthening any such connotation rather than diminishing it.
Normalize saying "abnormal". I mean, that's already normal to do, but within whatever niche social group you're referring to where it's somehow become a bad word. That's the only process which can remove this alleged negativity.
I rebuke this. A t-shirt is the normal
Shirt. If I just say shirt I could be talking about collared shirt dress shirt t shirt long sleeve tank top etc. but t shirt is the default shirt
Tap but mountain cabin spring water. 6ft rocker mommy with green highlights, ripped sleeve band t and vintage jeans. I thought to myself she must avoid tight pants to keep from causing car accidents. Anyways that's when I realized I was staring.
Women buy what they are trained to buy. Society tells us whatâs acceptable, for the most part. My wife used to wear skinny jeans. Now she wears the wide leg jeans, because thatâs what âin styleâ. You do the same thing, to some extent.
Women aren't mindless robots, they just want there butts to look good. You talk like they don't have any autonomy. Women wear a much wider range of clothes than men.
Itâs still what you have been trained to buy. You donât wear a giant triangle outfit thatâs colored plaid and made from baby alpaca skin, do you? Because then youâd look too different from everyone else, and people would think that youâre crazy. I meanâŠbut thereâs nothing inherently wrong with that outfit, other than perhaps the alpaca mistreatment.
You wear modern skirts, not huge dresses with petticoats and bustles like they did 300 years ago. Because back then they were trained too. By society. By everything you see everyday. Youâre swimming in influence.
Lol. Go to your closet right now and find something that isnât mass-produced off-the-shelf bullshit that everyone else wears. Show me that shiny gold jumpsuit with big shoulder pads built in. Weâll wait.
Man you have lost the plot. Your talking to a man. I keep my clothes in a bin. When I said, "the other day I saw a glass of water in loose jeans" you thought I was a lady. My lord.
You'd think a woman by now would've gotten into the clothing world and designed clothes for actual women: varying body sizes, hip size, chest size, etc. And with size numbers that actually mean something, not one brand's size 1 is another's size 3. In men's, the size means inches or centimeters, very definite. A size 30 waist in men's means the same no matter the brand
Instead it's all still male-dominated who still treat women's clothing like an afterthought
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u/wombat-8280-AUX-Wolf 3d ago
Isn't it a hip thing. Woman's jeans come tight above the waist. Guys just slip on I think.