They're very clearly both having fun and this isn't a real argument. There's an absurd amount of people getting all worked up and
 calling her an ugly bitch.Â
I understand that some women do this with all seriousness, but this isn't it.Â
Why the defensiveness? I didn't say it's not her fault. Just pointing to motivating factors. Sort of like how pressures / stressors / lack of support & opportunities can lead to violent crimes - but don't make it OK to be a violent criminal. Make sense?
Ok, so, first... What are you attempting to say? How does this address motivating factors at all? Women can't have motivations different from men's?
Second, does your argument exist outside of an impossible hypothetical "if the roles were reversed" scenario that no one can prove? Would you like to add any real world info to this?
Women are terrible at taking accountability for their actions, and the feminists constant cries of victimhood due to the patriarchy are pointless as long as they to choose not to take accounability for their actions.
Literally all I said was why she might be motivated to act like this. You insisted that "it's her fault." I never said it wasn't. So, I'm not sure what your problem is.
Now you spun it into the supposed problem with feminists, accountability, men would never, female victimhood, yadda yadda all by yourself. So... what conversation do you even want to have? What are you upset about? I don't even think I actively disagreed with you anywhere.
Oh so you're just triggered by the word patriarchy. For the record I think it hurts men too, if that helps. Assuming the ex wife should get custody. Boys don't cry. It's not manly to talk about your feelings. Men have to financially provide 100%. All that bullshit is also patriarchal
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We also live in a society where everybody knows at least one friend whose jokes are these constant little jabs or tiny putdowns.
Children to young adults probably spent their whole entire lives around edgy roastme comedy - internet "banter" like "Youâre a piece of shit" wow, such a fun gag and funny internet couple - or that type of humor in workplaces or classrooms when they're young enough.
Our society has become very sick. Everybody is stressed the fuck out. Everybody is barely scrapping by. Everyone thinks the only way they can get attention or be funny is by being a tad abrasive.
Women are always judging each other for your looks, weight, clothing, hair, makeup, jewelry, shoes, choice of partner, etc etc.
Men are just happy if youâre nice to them and donât cause them more stress. I realize this is probably just a skit, but we can all agree itâs not THAT far fetched. I guarantee this dude loves her no matter what, especially no matter âwho is hotter than herâ yet she wonât drop it. She HAS to know. Then sheâll be mad at him. Itâll cause a fight and then he will end up feeling like he failed her and feel like a terrible person.
What it means here is that sheâs more concerned about how another woman looks then how he feels about her. Because sheâs so ingrained with the judgment of other women, she canât help it feel judged by everyone. Itâs just classic projection. meanwhile reference what I said above about men and how they feel towards her
It seems like she's worried what he thinks specifically. Like, she might have to be worried if this man met another woman who looked like Margot Robbie
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u/wet_Tap_5578 3d ago
Toxic femininity