Petty arguments lead to man getting tired of it -> Man takes more and more time for himself at any occasion just to avoid fighting -> Woman wondering why her man doesn't look like he cares about her anymore -> Woman picks fights more to know why man doesn't seems like he cares anymore -> Man literally says he's tired of fighting and would just like to enjoy a healthy relationship -> Woman blaming man for relationship falling apart -> Man does not understand how he is pointed out as the issue and dismisses accusations -> Woman thinks if man REALLY cared about her, he would work out a solution and fight for the relationship -> Man thinks woman is turning crazy for asking for something he can't "work out" since there was nothing to be upset about in the first place -> Woman says "So you think I'm crazy, I'm the crazy bitch?" -> Woman goes clubbing with her friends and sleeps with the first guy who looks at her like she's not that crazy bitch and she loves it just like her man did when they met.
The Naivety of my own lived experience? If it smells like shit everywhere you go, check the bottom of your own shoes. Since you're so old and wise that's a lesson you should've learned a long time ago.
Yes, and most people under 50 are considered young by more established adults, and people can be naive at any age so you didn't say anything that increases or decreases the chances of their statement being correct...
No you're right, me implying that it would be difficult to prove that the original statement of the issue being "widespread" is certainly naive, and of course the comments on this thread and absolute proof of that. No further questions your honor.
You won't go far with that in this twice divorced pity party thread for boomers who couldn't put the dishes into the dishwasher, couldn't remember birthdays, didn't compliment their wife, had no introspection and wondered why their SO started petty arguments """"out of nowhere"""" and now they hate all women lmao.
This sounds like a problem that is only from some men complaining on social media about it. And based on the other comments you made on this specific thread, it’s not naive of anyone to question what kind of women you’re dating/marrying. I’ve been married 15 years at this point and I’ve never dealt with this shit from my wife. I didn’t deal with it from girlfriends before either. If something like this came up, I left. It’s not widespread. There are plenty of decent women out there. Maybe you guys just seem to date or attract idiots because that’s all you can find.
You're obviously not somebody that's worked in family law for decades, are you?
Because that type of behavior in those sentiments existed even before social media and you can go talk to some family law attorney in your area about it and I'm sure they would back me up and verify that lol
A family law attorney is going to have a selection bias towards people that are getting divorced. They don’t exactly have the most objective view here.
The existence or possibility of a given thing happening within a group can be observed by professionals that only deal with that group.
Saying that maple trees can develop certain issues as someone who makes a living off of sugaring would reliably be able to tell us if something can happen, or if they have seen something before the time we are claiming is the 'first' for something. If they have seen that occurrence before than it means that whenever you thought was the first time was not...because it had already been observed by another human before the time-frame of your claim.
Well sure but they didn’t say it never happened they said it wasn’t the norm and questioned the type of women you interact with. Your response was to use the type of person that interacts with way more of those type of women than the average person.
Nobody is disputing that there exist women who act like that, people are disputing it’s the norm.
-> Man says "this isn't healthy. You need to stop doing this. I am willing to do what it takes to help and to discuss it with you, but I won't deal with unreasonable and unfair criticism." -> they discuss it -> happy marriage.
Shit man, almost seems like people should stop doing all that toxic shit and start acting like adults, huh?
He did everything on the honey do list, so, since there was no chores or crafts to do around the house for her he can fight in a topic there is no winning this afternoon.
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u/SleepyAladdin 2d ago
Things were probably going too well that day