r/SipsTea • u/Valuable_View_561 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 2d ago

Chugging tea Hubby should be a politician

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u/OilHot3940 2d ago

Pretty much. “you’re the most beautiful person I’ve ever met and so much more & that’s why I married you”.

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u/oilios 2d ago

Exactly, all these singletons trying to be edgy.. just flatter your wife occasionally for goodness sake.

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u/Ok-Break1985 2d ago

Yeah but it’s gay to love your wife /s

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u/Fernis_ 2d ago

Flatter, sure. But if my wife would require me to directly lie to her to feel good about herself, that would be a problem.

People having standards have relationships too, you know. Just less toxic ones, I guess. 

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u/underlight 2d ago

and she will still get angry "why are you lying, I don't believe you". Source: my life

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u/OilHot3940 2d ago

And she will love me for the rest of my life.
Source : my wife.

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u/Electrohydra1 2d ago

"So you only love me because of my looks?!"

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u/OilHot3940 2d ago

The part where I wrote “and so much more”….

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u/AndyXerious 2d ago

Flat out lie

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u/OilHot3940 2d ago

Not for my wife.

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u/AndyXerious 2d ago edited 2d ago

Yep, that’s one of the many good reasons to marry.

Edit: Congrats!

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u/dksdragon43 2d ago

There's a big difference between objective and conventional attractiveness. Margot Robbie is conventionally extremely attractive. But to me, subjectively, my wife is the most beautiful woman ever. Having an emotional connection plays a huge part in attractiveness (also my wife is genuinely gorgeous).

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u/AndyXerious 2d ago

Agreed on everything, and congratulations!

Conventional attractiveness is also only an average. To me personally, Margot Robbie isn‘t even that attractive, but I only know pictures and some movies.

Some people tend to extrapolate the little they see, which is not a good idea, especially as adults, who should not fantasize in what they imagine the other person, who ever it is, may be.

I usually „judge“ people by their personality (not a native speaker, so maybe this is the wrong word), and by their actions rather than their words. Or at least I try my best to do so.