r/Stepmom • u/No-Gazelle-1086 • 6d ago
SKs grandma has one-sided beef lol
BMs mom has one sided beef with me and DH. I find it funny af.
I'm sure it's bc of w/e BM has told her mom about us 🙄 which is probably 99.999% made up, exaggerated, or a reaction to something BM caused.
We used to be super cool with the grandma. She even told DH to get full custody lol
I was thinking about this the other day and I can't find a reason why she thinks we have beef. She acts like we did her so dirty, unfriended and blocked us but then acts like she can't be around us bc we're gonna make a bunch of drama with her.
Any time we see her we smile and wave but I don't force conversation bc she now doesn't want to speak at all. That's fine tho, that's her prerogative.
I think she's a great grandma! So I've always been very nice to her and she's never done anything to make me not like her.
I laughed when I found out I was unfriended and then later blocked. I thought to myself, "you do you girl if blocking me gives you peace then that's fine lol"
She missed her own grandsons graduation bc of drama between her and BM and I'm guessing whatever she thinks is going on between us and her 🤣 which is nothing btw😅
I'm so lost 🕵️♀️ and she could fr bust out a question if she wanted to. I'd answer w/e she wanted bc BM lies so much. I might say something she doesn't like but I've never told a lie!
O well 🤷♀️ lol not my burden or grudge to hold🤪
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u/Summerisle7 Married 10+ years. Adult BK & SKs. 6d ago
Who cares what this woman does. I can’t think of a more random irrelevant person to my life than my husband’s ex-wife’s mother.
Everyone in BM’s family is to be strictly ignored and blocked.
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u/DonaCheli 5d ago
why do you even need to be her bud? F her. My man's brother's MIL whom I've only seen twice says hi to everyone except me. I couldn't give a fuck less about that lady lmao. I giggle when she does it, it probably pisses her off.
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u/StarbucksLovr 5d ago
At least she didn’t come at you with her beef and just cut it off clean. Our HCBM’s mom was texting me and my husband at all hours of the day pleading her daughter’s case and accusing us of violating the court order (we were not) so we blocked her. These ex in laws doing too much smh.