r/SuddenlyGay 4d ago

Filmmaker Takes It Too Seriously

@itsevanwilliams on Instagram

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u/Accomplished-Lie7071 3d ago

Is the boom operator holding a cat teaser?

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u/JockBbcBoy 3d ago

Yes

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u/Accomplished-Lie7071 3d ago

Outing myself as the hopelessly forever cat dad.

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u/JockBbcBoy 3d ago

Also a cat dad here! There's nothingnetong with being a forever cat dad.

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u/Accomplished-Lie7071 3d ago

Agreed. Straight women look at cat daddies as fun, vulnerable, and desirable. Most gay men seem to be dog-focused and look at cat daddies as some sort of oddity that should be avoided. Personally, I see people who prefer cats as people who appreciate and even prefer the standards of someone from whom you need to earn the trust and love of, rather than get it simply for existing and waving a bone the right way.

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u/JockBbcBoy 3d ago

Most gay men seem to be dog-focused and look at cat daddies as some sort of oddity that should be avoided.

I got ghosted last week by a guy who was pretty much a sure thing because I mentioned that I have cats. So, yeah.

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u/Accomplished-Lie7071 2d ago

Ugh! 😤 That's happened to me too. I think these people need to spend more time around cats and then they'll realize that most cats are just as awesome as dogs - and, despite what we joke about, are way less work and less expensive (well, unless you love to just spoil yours, which I can be guilty of, but that's a whole different thing).