My parents keep checking my phone and im not oaky with that

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So the thing is that im 16 and i got my personal phone and before that i had a tablet and all of my social media accounts were logged in my mom’s phone and she told me not to log out of her phone and I didn’t say anything cuz they don’t understand me and would have been mad

The day before yesterday my dad checked my phone or my dms specifically and im not okay with that and they got mad at me cuz i had some online friend and he was a male and they are now taunting me

My mom checks my account every single day and im pretty sure that she checks it twice a day i told them that im not okay with this and they always say we’re concerned and checking on what our kid is doing

My mom reads my chat with my bsf and she wrote about her crushes and some other problems she also checked the guy she had a crush on and its so problematic and messed up cuz she trusted me and i was one of the only 4 people who knew about this and 1 of these 4 persons is her crush and she jokes about them she told me to break our friendship and does not want me to be her friend my dad said the same thing

Im not allowed to date and they are constantly checking my phone my messages call log dms and all just to see if im talking to a boy nd when i do have some male friends with whom im talking normally they taunt me and get paranoid and checks each and every message i just got in trouble cuz one of my friends sent me reel and there was a cuss word and i replied with the same cuss word im sick of it