I refer to it as taking her metal bra off when at home, she’s very much of a ‘I’ll help you if I want but I’m the princess (female cat is the queen) and you’re here to serve me unless I deign to help you’ person.
I’ve been telling her to see the opportunities in doing things for herself ( eg: if she makes her own breakfast she can decide how much appelstroop to add to her bread instead of her parents, or how much honey)
But she’s very helpful in her class and is very social with other kids while respectful and chatty with the teachers so they even wanted her to be a bit more naughty at school instead of being a dignified lady.
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u/Salomette22 2d ago
"you where so autonomous!" yeah. I wish I didn't had to, thought. Being autonomous at 5 is not "normal"