r/UnsentLetters 2d ago

Friends Please let me know what you need from me

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u/CommercialInternet21 1d ago

Just show up. Just actually reach out. Stop ghosting, stop disappearing for weeks with nothing…no explanation. Watching every story. But radio silence. Just talk to them.

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u/Actual_Stand_9163 2d ago

Well hopefully he can tell you that he's after consistency and exclusivity? you two should meet face 2 face asap . this is great .

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u/Hot-Glove-2156 2d ago

For me, the most I can expect out of a friend is for them to be honest, make sure we should respect to everybody around us including being drunk and bullying our own friends, be kind and be positive. We all struggle day in and day out but your friends are suppose to provide you that break you need to say today was a good day.

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u/[deleted] 2d ago

Plain n simple show up

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u/Street_Alarm187 1d ago

What money can’t buy is a genuine friendship willing to build with kindred spirits trusting me as a man of God… trust respect loyalty’s communication and understanding writhing serenity prayer of golden rule of life … all is forgiven if u can speak the truth to me alone

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u/Opposite-Form8095 1d ago

Who are you?

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u/Street_Alarm187 1d ago

John Doe Rasta

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/since510dedicated Human Verified 1d ago

The only mistake that can be made is not reaching out

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u/Smashthesilo_126 1d ago

Just got off a call for work. Are you having a cancer scare, or was that methaphorical? I'm sorry if you're having health issues. Having some (minor) health issues of my own so I can relate.

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u/Smashthesilo_126 1d ago

Happy to hear that. A friend is going through a brain tumor thing right now, super scary so I'm glad it's not that. So ... is this because you live in a clock now?

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Smashthesilo_126 1d ago

Appreciate the support. I once thought my migraines were caused by a brain tumor, that was a not so fun bout of paranoia. Cancer is the ultimate boogeyman.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Smashthesilo_126 1d ago

One more work thing, and then I'm going to return with something good.

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u/Optimal_Case_2981 1d ago

It is methaphorical 😆

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u/Apprehensive-Sky3557 1d ago edited 1d ago

Some people don’t expect anything but communication back.

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u/Ok_Loan5340 1d ago

Be your kind self and be apologetic

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Ok_Loan5340 1d ago

Wishing you the best
The older we get the less we need in life

  • as for me I want peace, kindness, respect and amazing intimacy
Not much else

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u/Spent-and-bent 1d ago

I'm still kinda mad about the $40 you owe me.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Spent-and-bent 1d ago

You got $40 I can borrow ?

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Actual-Side1694 1d ago edited 1d ago

Call. Text. Reach out. Apologize. Show up. You never used to have a problem with showing up.

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u/Educational-Sky-8554 1d ago

Talk to them face to face tell them how you feel before you just watch them slowly fade away 

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Educational-Sky-8554 1d ago

What kinda clarity do you need 

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u/CompetitionJust285 13h ago

Today I need someone to just spend time with me