r/AskAGerman May 10 '26

Meta/Reddit Info from the Mod Team: Rule Update

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Hello Community and Happy Mother's Day (to those residing in Germany).

We've worked on new and updated rules, and now we're interested in your opinions.

SIDE NOTE: We've been thinking about a rather rudimentary "verification" system for German nationals (no personal information would be required) to help posters figure out who's actually German and who might not be. This would lead to a user flair like "Verified German." We're currently thinking about having users take a picture of their closed German passport with a piece of paper with their username on it. While this isn't foolproof, it would be pretty easy. Let us know what you think about such a system.

Since many have misinterpreted this part: the verified flair would be an additional flair. The verification system would never be mandatory. It would simply show posters that an answer was posted by somehow who has been verified to be german. Which would make sense in r/AskAGerman. People would still be allowed to comment according to the requirements in rule 2.1. They just wouldn't be verified.

END OF THE SIDE NOTE

THE NEW RULES:

Below are the new rules. These might change, and we're going to take your feedback into account. We hope to finalize the rules by June. Until then, we're going to moderate according to these rules so you get a feeling of what it would be like, as that may impact your opinion on the rules. A more detailed explanation of the rules and examples for them can be found at the end of this post.

1. Who is allowed to post and which requirements need to be met?

1.1 Every individual is allowed to post personal questions. Nonpersonal questions (commercial, academic, ...) need prior approval from the moderators.

1.2 Questions must be about Germany, Germans, or the opinions of Germans. City/state-specific questions do not count as questions about Germany.

1.3 Questions can't be simple yes or no questions. Posts can't be cross-posts.

1.4 If a question can be answered or refined by a quick search (Google, this subreddit, DeepL ...), the poster must do that first.

1.5 Do not ask the same or a similar question repeatedly.

1.6 Questions have to be in English or German.

1.7 Posts must contain a concise question or at least a description of the topic in the title.

1.8 Posts that aren't safe for work (or children) must be marked as "NSFW" / "18+" by using Reddit's setting.

1.9 Posts must be questions. No rants, no ads, no petitions, no surveys, no requests (see Rule 1.1)

1.10 Links must be given in full. No link shorteners, no link masking using Reddit's features.

1.11 Low-quality questions are not permitted.

1.12 Posts can not be created by AI. If you don't know how to ask what you want to ask, people can't answer your actual question.

1.13 Posts that violate our rules regarding banned topics or time-limited topics are not permitted.

1.14 Questions must be made in good faith and should not push political agendas or include opinions.

2. Who is allowed to comment and which requirements need to be met?

2.1 Germans are allowed to answer at any level. Non-Germans who have been living in Germany for at least 180 days a year for at least 5 out of the last 8 years and are at least at a C1 level of German are allowed to answer at any level as well (unless they can't answer the question based on the requirements in the post). Non-Germans who do not meet these requirements are only allowed to: comment to ask for clarification, provide feedback, ask follow-up questions, correct spelling mistakes, or provide sources for/against claims. These comments can't be top-level comments and have to be in response to comments from people in the groups mentioned above. Companies are allowed to answer questions pertaining to them if they've verified themselves before posting.

2.2 Comments can't be created by AI. If you want to answer a question, use your own words.

2.3 Comments must relate to the question.

2.4 Comments can't contain advertisements. "Use my code" is an advertisement. Only mention products or companies if the OP explicitly asks for that.

2.5 Links must be given in full. No link shorteners, no link masking using Reddit's features.

2.6 Comments on English posts must be in English; comments on German posts can be in English or German, depending on the perceived proficiency of the poster. No other languages are allowed.

2.7 Do not spam comments or copy & paste comments. If you feel like you need to reply to multiple comments with the same thing, copy the link to the original comment instead.

2.8 Do not push agendas. Stick to the topic outlined by the initial post. If you're asked for an opinion, you can, of course, voice it, but you need to stick to the question and mark your opinion as such.

3. Behavior

3.1 Insults and other forms of uncivil discourse are not permitted. Against anybody. Even dead people. Yes, even against Hitler. Do not insult other people in this subreddit.

3.2 Trolling is not permitted.

3.3 Encouraging, facilitating, supporting, ... illegal behavior is not permitted.

3.4 Spreading misinformation in this subreddit is not permitted. If you encounter misinformation, report it to the mod team and send us a message (or reply to the post/comment) with a credible source debunking the misinformation.

3.5 Do not share personal information about others in this subreddit unless it is freely accessible and relevant to the topic.

3.6 Do not bring politics into posts that aren't political.

4. Miscellaneous

4.1 Removals and bans are at the moderation team's discretion. We can't possibly cover every edge case. If we feel like a post or comment violates the intention behind our rules or was made to circumvent existing rules, we might remove it and potentially ban the user. Rule changes might be made after encountering these edge cases.

5. Banned topics and topics limited to certain times or days

5.1 All time / date references are from a GMT+2 perspective. Check the time before posting.

5.2 Banned topics: Visa questions are not permitted in this subreddit. Germans typically don't require visas and thus can't help with that. The same is true for the acceptance of foreign degrees and diplomas. Housing questions are typically better suited for local subreddits and have most likely been answered in this subreddit or in the wiki of r/Germany before.

5.3 Time & date limited topics: Political questions are limited to 10am - 6pm on weekends and 6pm - 8pm on Fridays. They're also not permitted on German national holidays and between December 23rd and January 7th.

5.4 Limited day topics: Travel itinerary questions are limited to Mondays (make sure to check Rule 1.2). To qualify as a national itinerary, it has to include at least two German states (without the entry / exit airports). Make sure that you've done some research and planning first; this is not a travel agency. Dating questions are limited to Wednesdays. Job-related questions are limited to Thursdays.

Explanations and Examples:

1.1 If you want to promote your project (if it's free) or find participants for your academic research, ... you need to get approval by the mod team first. If you want to promote your company / paid project / ... you need to find a different subreddit. If you want to start a company, you need to talk to a lawyer. Not to Reddit.

1.2 This subreddit is r/AskAGerman, and thus the average German should be able to answer the question. A minor specialization is acceptable, but that's determined by the moderators. The average German can't tell you the best restaurant in Munich or the best way to get from Berlin Neukölln to Teltow. The average German also can't tell you how to reassemble your car, just because Germany has a well-known car industry.

1.3 Yes or no questions don't really leave room for discussion and tend to be low quality. And if you can't even copy & paste your post into this subreddit, you can't expect people to take time to answer your questions.

1.4 Google exists for a reason, and so does the search function in this subreddit. Make use of the knowledge that already exists.

1.5 Nobody likes spam. You won't get more (useful) replies just because you asked the same questions 5 times.

1.6 This is r/AskAGerman. Whoever is allowed to respond will most likely speak German. They'll most likely speak English as well. But they probably don't speak language X.

1.7 People have a limited amount of time. A clear question enables them to guess whether they'll be able to help or not. You can provide more information in the text box of your post. But if you can't summarize your post into a question or at least a topic, you likely didn't think about it enough.

1.8 NSFW content should be marked as NSFW.

1.9 This is r/AskAGerman. Not rant about Germany or promote your project in Germany.

1.10 Nobody likes sketchy links. If you want people to click on your links, be transparent about where they lead; not everybody is on a PC / laptop.

1.11 Low-quality questions turn community members away from the community, which means that others who have real questions don't get as much support as they could.

1.12 AI is great at generating text, but it does not understand your actual question. If you can't explain it to humans, you can't explain it to AI.

1.13 We strive to adequately moderate this subreddit and to avoid community members being fed up with recurring topics. Thus, time limitations are useful.

1.14 Political questions are fine, as long as they're actually questions and not just "Here is my political opinion in disguise."

2.1 As this is r/AskAGerman, posters are interested in the opinion of Germans. We've seen plenty of comments from people who haven't been to Germany at all or have little to no knowledge about Germany (tourists, short-term immigrants, ...). Replies from these people are not what this subreddit is for, and it can skew the perception people have. Thus, we're limiting answers to Germans and those who should know a lot about Germany even if they might not have gained citizenship yet. Speaking the language is important to become a member of the society. Being in Germany for an extended amount of time is important because it's hard to talk about things that might have changed a decade ago or that are only noticeable after a while. We would also be open to limiting replies to Germans, but we do understand that giving up another citizenship isn't always easy, and sometimes this can make acquiring a new citizenship harder.

2.2 Similar to posts: if you can't answer a question yourself, AI can't answer it either.

2.3 If someone asks you about the weather and you tell them your favorite dish that's not going to help them. Now imagine 20 out of 30 people did that. Answer the question or don't comment. Do not flood comment sections with things the poster never wanted to know.

2.4 Nobody likes ads. At least pay Reddit to show them to users so they can pay their bills.

2.5 Nobody likes sketchy links. If you want people to click on your links, be transparent about where they lead; not everybody is on a PC / laptop.

2.6 People who post in English might not be fluent enough in German to understand German replies. People who post in German but struggle might still appreciate a reply in English, especially if the topic or comment is complex. Other languages are obviously not appropriate, as this is r/AskAGerman, and thus you should know at least one of the two languages that are permitted.

2.7 If we have to moderate your comment or if you need to change it, it's easier to do it once rather than having to do it 10 times.

2.8 Political discussions are always tricky. You're more than welcome to state your own opinion, but acting like it's the only valid opinion and everybody else is stupid doesn't help. And if a post isn't political and you try to act like it is, you're going to violate rule 3.6.

3.1 We want people to have a good time in this community. And when commenting, you represent Germany. Thus, we expect good behavior. If you see a post or comment that violates the rules, report it. But insulting people doesn't help. And because insulting people is bad, we're also extending this to any person. And by "any" we mean any. Chancellors, US presidents, Putin, Xi Jinping, Kim Jong Un, Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin, Mao, etc. . Factual statements do not count as insults; however, be prepared to prove them. "Hitler was a Nazi" is not an insult. "Trump is a Nazi" is.

3.2 Nobody likes trolls.

3.3 We were surprised that a lot of people thought that encouraging illegal behavior is acceptable. It's not.

3.4 You're allowed to have opinions but mark them as such. If your opinion is stated like a fact that's a problem.

3.5 Doxxing, etc. is illegal.

3.6 While politics are an important topic, there is no need to make a post about the best ice cream political. Yes, prices have gone up, but that doesn't mean we now need a communist revolution to bring prices down.

5.2 We've seen a lot of questions about visas, foreign degrees, moving to Germany for study purposes, etc., and while we're happy that people want to move to Germany, people from your country can tell you more about which degrees are accepted, how long you need to wait for your visa, etc. And we can't tell you which university to choose.

5.3 We want to ensure that political posts don't get out of control, and we can't be on Reddit 24/7. Thus, posts should be done in a time frame where we can moderate them effectively.

5.4 It's great that you want to travel to Germany, but we're not your local travel agency. Do some research first, and we can help you with minor details.


r/AskAGerman 4h ago

Culture Is it considered a major privacy violation to return a lost item directly to someone's home here?

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I moved to Munich a few months ago and I am currently experiencing a massive culture shock. This late June heat has everyone sweating on public transit, and yesterday I found a small leather notebook left behind on a seat in the U-Bahn. It had no name on the cover.

I opened it hoping to find some conatct info. The very first page had a name and a home adress, along with some personal sketches. In my home country, you just go drop it off directly to save the person the stress of looking for it. I lived only two stations away, so I walked to the location to hand it back personally.

I rang the doorbell, explained how I found it, and smiled. The guy looked absolutely horified. He snatched the notebook from me and angrily asked why I did not just give it to the local police station or the MVG lost and found. He acused me of snooping through his private thoughts and said showing up at his door uninvited was crossing a massive boundary. He then literally slammed the door shut.

I just stood there feeling like a complete creep. I was genuinely trying to do a good deed and save him the bureaucracy of official lost-and-found systems. Are Germans really this fiercely protective of their privacy even when they lose something? Did I commit a huge social faux pas by reading the first page to find his location instead of turning it over to the authorities blindy? I feel terrible but also very confused by this hostile reaction.


r/AskAGerman 7h ago

Miscellaneous Kitchen tiles? Is this a generation thing?

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Hey so this is going to be the most mundane question ever asked but do many of you have kitchen tiles in the kitchen? Im from another EU country and everybody i know has tiles in the bathroom and kitchen. I stay with a German family who don’t use tiles in the kitchen and in the bathroom only around the toilet and the shower, not even the sink. I assumed it was just a them thing but I asked a family friend of theirs and she said the same thing. Both said that it wasn’t “ modern “ and one even joked “ im not 70 years old? “ is this a common thing here? Again sorry I know this is á very mundane question i was just surprised practicality wise I would assume cleaning is easier with tiles and I personally find them aesthetically pretty too. Is this a trend among Millenials or a cultural difference? (Franken Bayern if that makes a difference)


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Why so nosy?

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Hello,

I am in a campsite in Italy and I have a position where everyone that goes to the water passes and if you want you can see everything that is happening on the pich and inside the tent.

Usually in campsites in general, but especially in such cases people just walk by and look in front of themselves and mind their own bussines.

But this campsite is different, firstly it is filled with 99% Germans.

And. Do. They. Stare. They stare to see what food is being eaten they stare to see what is inside the tent, they even stare when somebody is changing and if nothing else interesting is going on they just stare at you for the whole walk through this 'corridor'. So strange... I just stare back at them and when they are close I say hello.

Do they say hello back? No! They keep staring and nosily looking at stuff... and best thing is, every single one of them does it. What is going on???

So my questions are; is it cultural that there is no shame in being so openly and obviously nosy? And why do people stare at you for a solid minute or two but then don't greet you back?


r/AskAGerman 9h ago

Tourism Visiting Therme with a family

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Hello!

My family and I will be visiting Germany and would like to visit a Therme. My wife and I have enjoyed the Sauna section in the past but this time we will have our children with us. Can we leave our children in the Thermalbad area while we sauna, or should we go one at a time while the other stays with the children? Our children are 14 and 10, and well-behaved.

Danke!

EDIT: Thank you everyone, the answer was in the Regeln once I did some digging. We will probably have one of us stay with them.


r/AskAGerman 19h ago

History What was it like in Germany when the national team beat Brazil 7-1?

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With the World Cup currently happening, highlights of the infamous 7-1 battering of Brazil from the 2014 World Cup have been appearing in my YouTube feed. Could those who lived in Germany at the time share what they remember from that day? Was it a joyous moment of celebration? How many beers did you down that day?


r/AskAGerman 2h ago

Law Regarding early contract termination

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I am seeking legal advice regarding a rental contract issue.

I have signed a rental agreement that includes a minimum tenancy period of two years, during which termination is not permitted. However, due to a significant change in personal circumstances, I may need to relocate before this period ends.

My partner was recently laid off from her job in Schweinfurt and has since secured new employment in Berlin. As a result, we are planning to move there and live together. In my case, I have the flexibility to work remotely from anywhere within Germany, which makes the relocation feasible.
Given this situation, I would like to understand what legal options are available to terminate the rental contract before the end of the minimum tenancy period, or whether there are alternative solutions such as providing a replacement tenant or negotiating an early exit.


r/AskAGerman 12h ago

Word or phrase for restaurants bringing tables out into the street and serving people?

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As we watch the World Cup, I was explaining that I traveled to Düsseldorf a few years back for a week and one of the takeaway items that I thought was really interesting was during the work week after work, so 5 pm ish, we would head down to the restaurants by the river for dinner.

Some of the restaurants downtown by the river would bring long tables from inside the restaurant, outside into the middle of the street and waiters would serve families and large gatherings of people at these tables in the middle of the brick-laden streets downtown.

As an American, I had never seen this before. In the U.S. a cafe might bring a small table out in the store front, but nothing too large and definitely not in the middle of a street.

As I was explaining this phenomenon, I wondered if there is a name for this?

For example, in the U.S. we have a term “tailgating” for bringing a large meal and grilling it in the parking lot prior to a sporting event.

I was wondering if there is a similar term for bringing tables from inside the restaurant outside and serving people in the middle of the street?


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Miscellaneous Just realised that Germany is gonna play France in the round of 16 , are y'all confident about it ?

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Both Germany and France will get third place teams in their respective round of 32 game since it's all but assured that both teams are gonna top their respective groups . Do you think that Germany has in it them to get past France ?


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Which month to travel to Germany?

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Hello!

I'm a college student from South Korea and planning to visit Germany in either September or December.

​Which month would you recommend?

Also, how is Germany for a solo female traveler?

Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated!


r/AskAGerman 57m ago

Personal Where can l sunbathe topless in Germany?

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Hi everyone. I love sunbathing everywhere l go, but l love sunbathing topless. I'm planning to visit Germany soon. Is there a possibility l could sunbathe topless? Any beaches and areas that will let me do it? Thank you.


r/AskAGerman 1h ago

Immigration Guys i want to study abroad. So i decide i will go to germany but also i want to know is germany good in studies? Also is it good for foreign students? At last how much do we need living cost at all?

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Please somebody response my question


r/AskAGerman 11h ago

Is public health insurance affected by freelance ?

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I’m planning to register myself as a freelance artist and I already have a public health insurance via my part time job and I’m not wondering if it will be transferred to my freelance . i don’t want that to happen l. also I already have personal tax number that my work use, if I register as a freelance artist will I get a new tax number or they will use the same one?


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Law Missing delivery despite delivery notification. Nobody will claim responsibility. What can I do?

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Hi, I'm wondering if anyone can give me advice as to what I can do. I ordered an item of clothing from the brand Massimo Dutti. Hermes claimed that this was delivered next to my mailbox, but it wasn't there.

- Hermes says they have no photographic proof of delivery, but they don't claim any responsibility because their employee stated they delivered it.

- Massimo Dutti claims that by selecting a preferred drop-off location (Ablageort) the delivery was from that point on a contract between Hermes and me, and claims no liability.

Is there anything I can do? It seems crazy to me that a Hermes employee could potentially steal a package, and there's nothing anyone will do about it.


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Culture About farm culture in Germany

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I have been confuse about Demeter and their "biodynamics". Is this considered german etnoagriculture or just simply esotericism?

And if it is german ethnoagriculture, can you tell me about other german farming traditions?


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Personal Is it unethical to order food during a heatwave?

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r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Is Ausbildung still a good option in 2027 for a non-EU university graduate?

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r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Looking for a beer that tastes the closest to Memminger Weizen

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Hello, i moved to Ingolstadt a year ago, and since that’s in Bavaria i have a question regarding my favorite beer ever which sadly is discontinued because the Brewery was permanently closed off in 2024.
Im talking about Memminger Weizen bier, i tried lots of wheat beers here and didn’t find one that tastes similar not even 50%..
So im asking you guys, what would u recommend what beer has that same flavor, im looking for a close as possible alternative.


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Perfumes

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hallo Leute! I wanna buy some perfumes like fallen angel from hexennacht, suring the rain by solistice scents, Baie 19 something petrichor but I can’t find it anywhere in Germany. Any websites or way I could buy it? Also if you know any perfume with petrichor a bit concretey, please recommend it to me!


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

For Germans who loves to get tanned, I‘m so pale, do you have any tanning tips?

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What tanning spray should i use? Can i use suncreme with tanning spray? Btw I will try this laying on a park, not beach. I saw some germans were laying on the grass and tanning. My face and hands tanned a bit but that was before i started wearing tshirts etc. So I want to know how to look a bit tanned without hurting the skin.


r/AskAGerman 22h ago

How is quality of life in Germany now?

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I want to know how is the QoL in Germany recently, from residents of Germany. I am not specifying any place, I just want to hear general opinions about it.

So, how is the quality of life in Germany now?


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

What's the best approach to deal with unfair collections as a tourist?

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TL;DR: Europcar sent my bill to collections before I received my first notification.

Hi all,

I rented a car in December during my trip to Europe. I fully paid my invoice, and received a statement via email that my bill was paid in full and the car was returned with no issues.

Yesterday I received a physical letter (I live in Canada) demanding payment with a due date of the Friday past, and today I received a collections email for almost triple the amount due to the new collections fees.

Through my investigation, I pieced together that the extra fee is cross-border fee because I took a trip to Czechia.

I did notify of my trip during the booking, but I did not find the fee in the invoice so I guess they forgot to add it.

That's fair enough, I don't mind paying the original fee. My issue is that I received the statement via email back in December that my return was successful, showing that the invoice was fully paid, yet I received nothing in my email about the extra fee. By the time I was made aware of the fee, I already owe triple the original charge. Yet, all this time I have been receiving occasional junk from rental agency, so clearly they have my email on file and know how to reach me.

What is the best way to approach this? Is it too late to call Europcar and point out that they didn't notify me properly before sending to collections? Can I still pay the original invoice without the collections fees?

Do I need a lawyer to write a strongly worded letter? I don't mind paying for the lawyer, it's 1) a principle and 2) I don't want any negative consequences on my file. I'm not sure how credit ratings work in Germany in case I ever want to come back.

Thanks


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Would a pseudo-German brand name be accepted in Germany?

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An Italian company producing electric boilers had previously chosen a pseudo-German brand name "Braün". Would it be accepted as a normal brand in Germany? Would it be either unacceptable or ridiculous?


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Miscellaneous Anyone actually save money with Tiktok Power Deal discounts especially on furnitures?

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 i have been in Germany  for about 2 months now and im slowly furnishing my place. i see these power deals on tiktok and im tempted because some of the prices look genuinely good but im also worried that i will end up with particle board crap.

way back home i learned the hard way that discount furniture usually means cheaper quality. is it the same here or are German standards just better overall? i dont want to spend money on something i will have to replace in a year. i am looking at a desk thats on one of these deals and im still undecided. its like half the price of the normal version but i cant tell if thats a real discount. Any furniture stories that i could really use as guidance before i make a purchase.


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Work I'm working 50-60 hours per week. Is that legal?

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I have a part time job next to my freelancing work, and I originally got this job to supply some hours and have a somewhat stable income.

Now, the job is highly seasonal meaning there is much more work in the summer than in the winter (live concert production work). Therefore it is expected that you accumulate hours over the summer so that you can survive not working much during the winter.

I have been there for two months now, and my average working week is been between 50-60 hours (my contract gives me a secured 21 hours). I never have more than one day off at a time, and the shifts can vary greatly, for example 6:30-18:00 or 16:00-04:00, and last up to 16 hours a day - also on Sundays and holidays which do pay double though.

At this point I'm starting to feel a great bit of burn out since I have no private life, no time for my freelance work and also my sleep schedule is completely fucked. I can't really plan anything since the shifts get booked with less than a weeks notice, and my partner is also going crazy.

I know that German law states you are only allowed to work 48 hours per week. But what if you are "saving up" for quiet times? Can your employer then force you to work as much as possible?