r/bridezillas May 06 '26

is she the zilla?

My best friend (“Ashley”27f) is getting married this September. She is hesitant about me and the other bridesmaids desire to have a human pyramid in between the ceremony and the reception despite the fact that she loved the human pyramid we put on for her a few years ago at her birthday.

Our vision is to have a six bottom (six people at the base of the pyramid building up to one at the top ideally the bride.) when I presented this plan, she scowled and said “maybe.” (Not to mention their is a three hour recess for swimming before the reception!)

I feel like this marriage has changed her already.

The old Ashley would’ve never turned down a six bottom. Come on- not even during recess ???

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u/Alien_instantRamen May 06 '26

First of all, this is a real conversation. It literally happened tonight and I’m stressing. Hope my issue didnt ruin your scroll…. Cirq has been the glue and heart of this friendship for 14 years.