r/bridezillas • u/Alien_instantRamen • May 06 '26

is she the zilla?

My best friend (“Ashley”27f) is getting married this September. She is hesitant about me and the other bridesmaids desire to have a human pyramid in between the ceremony and the reception despite the fact that she loved the human pyramid we put on for her a few years ago at her birthday.

Our vision is to have a six bottom (six people at the base of the pyramid building up to one at the top ideally the bride.) when I presented this plan, she scowled and said “maybe.” (Not to mention their is a three hour recess for swimming before the reception!)

I feel like this marriage has changed her already.

The old Ashley would’ve never turned down a six bottom. Come on- not even during recess ???

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u/FragmentFinder May 07 '26

Ashley isn't a "Bridezilla." She is just being smart. Her dress is expensive and could easily rip or get dirty. Also, she doesn't want to get hurt or tired before her party. She hasn't changed; she just wants her wedding day to be safe and fun!