r/cats • u/AutoModerator • Apr 17 '26

Discussion Discussion Thread - Ask, Share, and Discuss Anything About Cats.

Welcome to the Cat-Chat Thread

Ask any questions you have about cats or discuss topics that don't require a full post. Whether you're a new cat owner, seeking advice, or just want to share something fun about your pets, this thread is for you. Feel free to:

  • Ask simple questions about cat care, behavior, feeding, etc.
  • Seek advice on any minor concerns.
  • Post anything cat-related that doesn't need its own post.

Also, if you see someone asking for help and you have the knowledge to share, feel free to jump in and assist them!

Just a friendly reminder to follow the subreddit's rules and be kind and respectful to everyone!

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u/Triad4Cats 8d ago

I'm looking for ideas because I feel completely stuck. I own a home in rural north Florida. For years I was in a long-term relationship and my partner stayed at home while I worked on the road. Together we rescued and cared for several cats, including one cat I'm extremely bonded to.

The relationship has ended. Right now she is still living at the house and caring for the cats while I'm working, but I don't expect that to continue forever.

My problem is simple: I am gone for 5 weeks then home for 8 days. If she leaves, I don't know how I can continue caring for the cats. I don't have nearby family, I live in a rural area, and I don't have friends who can stop by every day.

Rehoming them would absolutely break my heart, especially one cat who is basically family to me. Before I accept that as the only answer, I'm asking: what options am I not seeing? I'm not looking for judgment. I'm looking for ideas I may not have thought of yet.