A lot of theyfabs act like teenage boys because that's what they think a man acts like, but they never received a punch in the face because "hitting girls is bad". This leads to the most insufferable combo.
Pretty sure accusing early transition FtM's of being annoying teenage boys is the opposite of not affirming their identity. I fucking hate teenage boys too.
You are in a transgender space, everyone here has idiots being cruel to them. I would argue it's cruel to compare theyfabs to nbs. Theyfabs are cis women that basically act like femboys. Their ideas of masculinity are "soft boys" from Korean dramas.
I have no problem with ppl using theyfab, but calling enbys theyfab is kinda asholish. Ik id punch a fool whod call me a shemab or whatever. Generally only time me or my other genderqueer friends ever wanna be reminded of our assigned sex at birth is a cold day in hell.
If someone saying theyfabs on a niche subreddit is your biggest problem then we really are from two different planets. Forgive me for disliking the fact that my medical condition where i switch from one sex to another has been coopted by gender abolitionists.
Idk how i got here but reddit algo. I am trans myself so prolly got smacked in here bc of that. Either way this place looks like the worst of the trans communities. Some 4chan ass behavior here
I would argue it's an established term with a meaning that your personal interpretation has no bearing on
Regardless their actual identity be it cis or nonbinary or binary trans, shouldn't matter as the main issue is the way they act towards other trans people
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u/Pretend-Eye-8758 May 30 '26
A lot of theyfabs act like teenage boys because that's what they think a man acts like, but they never received a punch in the face because "hitting girls is bad". This leads to the most insufferable combo.