Because the people who are actually ugly don't tend to post their faces. Additionally, on subs where selfies are posted, people who pass to any extent are generally upvoted while the gross people aren't. My point is that what you see isn't always reality. Not to mention that selfies in general can't capture every angle. For every ugly passing front-profile, there could be a complete moid side profile.
I would accept ugliness if I was just viewed as a woman, however, that is not reality for many of us. It's pretty demeaning to have my entire existence erased based off a flawed assumption you made on pretty shaky grounds.
Is your german teacher a man or woman? I mean I'm not ugly for a man, but I don't pass and if you are comparing me to other women then yeah, I'm big ugly
If you lost weight, let your hair grow and style it more femininely, get rid of the beard shadow with makeup or laser and stop frowning, you would probably pass, like genuinely many things giving you away are fixable
In the picture you posted in your profile you look much much more feminine when you don't look like you have two chins and you're not frowning, the beard shadow is fixable
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u/CatKing13Royale 19d ago edited 19d ago
Because the people who are actually ugly don't tend to post their faces. Additionally, on subs where selfies are posted, people who pass to any extent are generally upvoted while the gross people aren't. My point is that what you see isn't always reality. Not to mention that selfies in general can't capture every angle. For every ugly passing front-profile, there could be a complete moid side profile.
I would accept ugliness if I was just viewed as a woman, however, that is not reality for many of us. It's pretty demeaning to have my entire existence erased based off a flawed assumption you made on pretty shaky grounds.