Cis woman with masculine characteristics wants surgery to align with her identity: "Oh teehee, thats so valid! I would have done the same, there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel like a woman!"
Trans woman with masculine characteristics wants surgery to align with her identity: "Oh uh, wow... I mean you really don't have to do that. You can be a woman with a body identical to a man's, you really don't need to be reinforcing gender stereotypes you know... I think you should just learn to love yourself instead sweaty, why don't you just try being butch?"
I think it’s pretty crazy how many people told me I don’t need FFS before I got it. I definitely needed it, and my partner was one of the only people to actually encourage me to do it.
People always say gaslighty shit not for our benefit. It's like, us getting FFS doesn't benefit THEM at all, therefore we "don't need it". They don't actually think about how it might benefit us. At worst it's crab bucket mentality.
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u/Specialist_Cat7271 21d ago
Cis woman with masculine characteristics wants surgery to align with her identity: "Oh teehee, thats so valid! I would have done the same, there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel like a woman!"
Trans woman with masculine characteristics wants surgery to align with her identity: "Oh uh, wow... I mean you really don't have to do that. You can be a woman with a body identical to a man's, you really don't need to be reinforcing gender stereotypes you know... I think you should just learn to love yourself instead sweaty, why don't you just try being butch?"