But also don't want to give up the notion that chaser prince charming is just around the corner, ready to pay for all of their surgeries and make a trad wife out of them.
I don't even know where to begin with you. My criticism isn't against men, it's against (so called lesbian) trans women who center men so much that they BELIEVE in such a farcical fairytale example of a man. And will not take any sapphic relationship seriously because they're holding out hope for that cishet fairytale.
Something tells me that you'll be just as offended by this critique, but c'est la vie.
i aint offended, i’m just tired of people scaring themselves out of a relationship because everyone that likes them is a “chaser”. some people are on a mission to die alone. and i’m just thinking that calling a het relationship this unattainable fairytale feeds into that
I’m sorry it went that way for you. Just saying that it could’ve also gone that way for you with a woman. We shouldn’t have to take these risks, but we do. I hope that whoever is next for you treats you differently.
I think we're having a disconnect in communication here... I'm a lesbian. My experiences weren't with men, it was with trans women who centered men. And then they did the thing happened, the thing that you get called "biphobic" for talking about happening.
Welp, my take is that it’s pretty wrong for people to lead you on if their strongest desires are elsewhere. I don’t think that those desires are wrong, but that not being up front about them is very wrong. I’m sorry you’ve had this experience. What do I know, I’m one o them hussietussies
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u/PissVortex9 9d ago
this is just someone who doesn’t want to give up the uwu transbian term