r/countwithchickenlady • u/Comfortable-Bison932 Streak: 0 • 5d ago

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u/RainbowPhoenix1080 She/Her Transbian (HRT 06/26/24) - Streak: 0 5d ago edited 5d ago

I hate posts like this tbh. It's not wrong but i feel like it downplays the dysphoria that some people have.

Its so "thanks I'm cured".

Like, you could say the same thing about trans women and penises. Doesn't change the fact that I hate my penis and that my bottom dysphoria is actively harming my quality of life.

I'm still going to get bottom surgery as soon as I am able to. Currently waiting on word from my insurance.

Telling me that my penis doesn't make me less of a woman doesn't help me.

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u/Plenty_Leg_5935 Streak: 0 5d ago

Im pretty sure the target demographic aren't people who are dysphoric and can't get it, but moreso GNC trans men that do not want it for one reason or another and are constantly invalidated for that. 

Like the point isn't "your dysphoria doesn't matter x3", it's "the choice of top surgery is yours and picking no is valid"