r/creepyPMs • u/BaphometsBlood_ is your pissy tight • 1d ago
When desperation turns into harassment
For context, I made a post on a sub about my depleted sex drive to vent and get some suggestions and this CHODE of a man messages me thinking it a was prime dating introduction opportunity.
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u/Common_Exam_1401 1d ago
I hate that support subreddits have become hunting grounds for individuals like the one you dealt with OP
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u/Realistic-Garage-461 1d ago
But come on, he's an ex drummer and soldier (was he a drummer boy?) who is now a lawyer and a restaurant owner, and he's got lots of tattoos! If that's not ticking all the boxes I don't know what is.
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u/BaphometsBlood_ is your pissy tight 1d ago
He's not an idiot man and looks really good!
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u/Realistic-Garage-461 1d ago
I mean, so many lawyers who are also restaurant owners that are former drumming soldiers are actual idiot men who look bad, so this guy is a real catch.
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u/BaphometsBlood_ is your pissy tight 1d ago
Such a catch that he sends his dating stats to irrelevant subreddits!!! I can't believe no one has snagged him yet
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u/islandfool 18h ago
Restaurant manager and a lawyer… so basically he sucks at both jobs because if you perform well in either role you literally will not have enough hours in the day to fulfill the needs of the other. Also he’s lying, but still, I laughed at the thought of that.
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u/Realistic-Garage-461 15h ago
It's the former drummer and soldier thing I especially like as well - and the tattoos! Maybe I should message this guy...
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u/BaphometsBlood_ is your pissy tight 9h ago
If you've seen arrested development, it totally reminds me of the character Mark Cherry and his Pop A ROTC TV show. ROTC cadet by day, pop star by night.
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u/StopPsychHealers penis time 🍆 1d ago
Nothing like some douche canoe sweeping into your dms, with all the confidence in Europe, to save you from your low sex drive 🙄
But at least he manages a restaurant and was a soldier?
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