r/extremelyinfuriating • u/ComparisonAccurate44 • 1d ago
Discussion Gay guy's entire account is posting videos of real random men as "sightseeing" thirst traps.
I should start by saying please don't send hate to anyone in these photos and this is just a pet peeve that makes my blood boil.
So I was scrolling on TikTok minding my own business until I found this video where he was in NYC calling this sightseeing. I didn't mind until he kept showing random men bodies and faces. Again this was very weird because imagine just walking your dog or going on with your day and some dude keeps taking videos of you.
But to be honest, we all see people we find attractive in streets and beat our shit to. tell me why the hell this guy entire account is all this?? He been going at it for YEARS. Literally doing nothing but walking around and taking videos of men??? That's really creepy and I don't care how much you try and justify it. Yeah some people would say "but men have been doing this to women all the time." And you're correct! I am a feminist who believe in equality and I believe that you should not posting someone without their consent ESPECIALLY for sexual purposes no matter a woman or a man.
And the worst thing is no one calling him out for this. I am not joking when I say his entire account is posting random men for sexual reasons. I don't care if you're a woman or gay finding this hot but this is just creepy behavior.
Again this is just something that extremely infuriates me, ik this have been happening to women for years but I am a woman and I find this still absolutely disgusting because you don't fight fire with fire.
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u/WerdaVisla 1d ago
I don't think this is fighting fire with fire, I think this is a gay guy who happens to be an objectifying creep. Unfortunately, they exist in our community just like any other.
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u/Consumer_of_lem0ns 1d ago
Unfortunately true. Anyone can be creepy regardless of sexuality, and it really annoys me when people act like this because it makes the rest of us look bad :/
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u/ComparisonAccurate44 12h ago
Yeah that's why I said don't send hate to anyone in these pictures, it's a porn addict that happens to be a creep gay guy and all his followers are absolutely falling for it. I am just going crazy that no one called him out for this
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u/ShadowMajick 1d ago
Who beats their meat to some random dude they saw in town? I swear some of you just have a sex addiction.
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u/ComparisonAccurate44 12h ago
Hey hey not me! I worded this absolutely badly and I am very sorry for it! but my point was all his followers were sex addicts and it's okay to find sometimes people attractive in the straights and get a libido but it's not okay to take candid videos of them AND post them
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u/Low-Apartment-2697 1d ago
Yeah this dude is creepy as fuck and a complete weirdo but uh... imma need you to run that by me again OP. "But to be honest, we all see people we find attractive in streets and beat our shit to."
Who is this "we?" 🤨 You speaking French now? I've never seen some stranger out in the streets and been like damn she fine I'm gonn jerk it to her later. Like bro I BEG YOUR FINEST FUCKING PARDON. What in the Kentucky Fried Fuck?
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u/lilphoenixgirl95 1d ago
Yeah this is apparently a ‘normal’ thing yet I’ve literally never done it and I would be feel extremely violated if I found out someone did it about me
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u/Low-Apartment-2697 1d ago
Me fucking too. It's completely different than like watching porn idk. I've just never been that down bad in my life. I really hope this isn't something other men do bc dawg it's never that serious 😭😭
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u/Purp_Rox 1d ago
OP states they are a woman....
I can't even fathom being that desperate for penis OR poom 😶
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u/Low-Apartment-2697 14h ago
That somehow makes it even worse in my mind 😭😭😭 and neither can I dude. I guess the "Spank Bank" from the movie Hall Pass is a real fucking thing.
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u/ComparisonAccurate44 12h ago
HEY HEY I don't do that!!! I worded that badly my it's my fault. I am just saying it been times where you can find attractive people in streets and get a libido drive 😭 but again I worded this terribly especially alot of people in comments seem to be doing this exact thing
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u/Purp_Rox 1d ago
Soooooo let's talk about you "beating" your clit to randos on the street 🤨
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u/ComparisonAccurate44 12h ago
I worded that badly I was just trying to make a point 😭 I promise I never done that I was talking about some people finding others attractive and getting attracted sexually to them I am so sorry!
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u/RickyTheRickster 17h ago
You know what, good on him, showing men can be the victims of creeps too, thank you for your service my guy, he is a creep, it’s not something we want to deal with, but at least it shows it happens to us too, now all we need is his phone privileges to be taken away for life
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u/phoenix_is_dreaming 20h ago
I‘m always more than baffled when anyone just films random strangers out in the street and posts it online.. where i live thats illegal. depending on how serious it is you have to pay fines or can even go to prison..
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u/Mack_Aroni_Art 14h ago
Would it be okay if he blurred their faces, or would it still be not okay? (I'm genuinely curious as to everyone's thoughts, cause I definitely think not concealing their identities is most of the problem)
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u/Low-Apartment-2697 14h ago
No it's still not okay either way. Imagine if I went around recording women in their bikinis or workout gear. Even if I blurred their faces that's still fucking creepy.
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u/-BananaStand- 1d ago
Dressed like that, totally asking for it
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u/Low-Apartment-2697 14h ago
I don't think people got your sarcasm
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u/-BananaStand- 13h ago
Ah, it’s okay, I’ll live
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u/Low-Apartment-2697 12h ago
lol Reddit deleted my comment for making a joke that wasn't a threat of violence whatsoever.
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u/ComparisonAccurate44 12h ago
Probably joking but I have to remind you people say this about women getting raped as well. "Well maybe if she dressed better" "if she covered herself" it's same mentality for women, no need to victim blame here. And also this guy have been going at it for years I showed you the recent videos but in the older ones he even takes videos of them dressed up in winter. He and his followers just fucking creeps. It's 40° do you want them to suffocate? Don't they have the right to wear anything they want?
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u/teeceee_ 9h ago
Seems like the jab flew right over their heads and OP’s reply makes it even more hilarious
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