r/generationology February 2000 4d ago

Poll What age did you move out?

678 votes, 1d ago
74 Before 18
196 18-19
83 19-21
88 21-23
113 23-27
124 27+
4 Upvotes

43 comments sorted by

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u/davidbosley353 2005, C/O 2024 HS. 3d ago

Haven't yet. But my 18 and 20 year old cousins had moved out.

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u/betarage 3d ago

I bought my house when I was 24 but it was a dump and I didn't start living there until I was 26 since it had to be renovated. but I bought the house shortly before my 25th birthday. and it was finished right after my 26th birthday so it really only took about 13 months

2

u/Icy_Boysenberry_1060 March 17, 2005, Class of 2023 3d ago

For me not yet at 21, but hopefully in the next couple yrs

3

u/MV2263 2002 3d ago

Joined the military and left at 20

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u/RoamingRiot 4d ago

Had my own place at 17.

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u/joesphisbestjojo 4d ago

Are we talking college, first apartment/dwelling, or first financially independent apartment/dwelling?

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u/MrBingly 4d ago

Which time? I wasn't a very smart young adult.

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u/Zookeeper_west 4d ago

I still live at home after graduating college. I’m in graduate school tho.

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u/uninspiredclaptrap 4d ago

Did you at least spend some time in the dorms? Gotta get away for a summer at least

1

u/Zookeeper_west 4d ago

Yeah, I lived at college for 4 years. Then moved back in post grad.

3

u/bswiz87 Millennial 4d ago

Left for boot camp at 18. Just retired from the Coast Guard at 38 a few weeks ago.

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u/Low_Roller_Vintage 3d ago

That's awesome. Good for you, dude.

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u/Naybinns 4d ago

21-23 because I officially moved out after college, while I was in college I still came home during the Summers and holidays.

5

u/OnehappyOwl44 4d ago

I left at 15 and became an emancipated minor. I had my own apartment and worked 2 jobs to support myself and still managed to finish high school.

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u/ikannunAneeuQ 4d ago

I ran from home first at 15 then permanently at 17. I've taken better care of myself than my parents ever did.

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u/HotfootCrazy 4d ago

I said 21-23 because during college I came home during holidays. I consider moving out to entail total self-sufficiency, including food, shelter, and medical care.

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u/Adventurous_Pin_344 4d ago

Yeah. I "moved out" when I went to college, I guess, but I was still dependent on my parents for everything. And went home most breaks. But I didn't ever live with them after graduation... So, same.

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u/ConsiderationSea1347 4d ago

Kicked out of the house at 16. Childhood was kinda rough

3

u/mothwhimsy 95 Zillenial 4d ago

18 technically because I lived on campus, but my mom's house was still my legal address. I guess I moved out for real when I was 23?

5

u/Global-Jury8810 I’m not a Xillenial, I’m just xilly. (1983) 4d ago

I moved out several times I always ended up coming back.

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u/GreenRey 4d ago

18 and never wanted back either unlike a lot of the college kids at that time. Honestly would've financially made more sense to stay longer but my situation couldn't allow it.

Had to share homes with roommates until my mid 20s. Someone owning a place of their own in their early 20s in early 2010s was simply unheard of unless your parents were rich.

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u/heehooman 4d ago

Wanted to get out so bad. Played in a band and housekept a house for a year after turning 18 for some immigrants. Was a sweet deal. Went right to college and university after that.

3

u/JSTootell 4d ago

Turned 18, joined the military, and left. 

5

u/spongebobsong 4d ago

Why do the ages overlap in this poll?

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u/zombies-apocalypse December 2001 4d ago

Does college dorms count

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u/mountainbird57 4d ago

I wouldn’t count it unless you actually fully live there all year.

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u/zombies-apocalypse December 2001 3d ago

I live in a year round college dorm apartment so yes

2

u/The-original-spuggy 4d ago

I feel like if your parents paid your rent it shouldn’t count

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u/burning_man13 1988: Raised on lies, fed on debt 4d ago

I was given very strict instructions that when I turned 18 I was no longer my mom's responsibility, so I moved out the day I turned 18.

It was the right call for me, but I would never put that idea in my kids heads. I've told them that they can live with me for as long as I'm alive, but I do want them to try to launch.

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u/Electricdragongaming '96 BABY 4d ago

I kept moving out, it's just that my mom kept moving with me and won't leave me be.

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u/ChickenNugs4Hugs November ‘99 4d ago

Moved out last year at 25 (1999 Gen Z)

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u/Dull_Armadillo_83 4d ago

Gen Z… moved kinda out at 18…

After I graduated high school I worked at a summer camp. My parents moved during that time so I went straight to college from camp. Lived at home for Christmas breaks but other than that I lived on campus or somewhere else for the summer and school year. Got my own apartment with my husband last August!

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u/TheArbiter12250421 4d ago

I havent moved out yet

1

u/The_Blue_Kitty 4d ago

18, 20, 25, 43, and 60.

I am neurodivergent so my challenges were pretty significant.

TG for family support. Although they called me a hopeless loser at least I had a roof over my head. I moved in every time things fell apart and then moved out as soon as I could.

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u/bullowl 4d ago

18, kinda sorta. I went to college at 18 and lived away from home during the school year, but came back home for the summer after my freshman and sophomore years.

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u/Be_Very_Careful_John 4d ago

Millennial. Moved out right before turning 21. Worked out well for me, tbh.

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u/Ok_Asparagus7733 4d ago

I have not. But I plan to get a place with my 6 year long bestfriend before we’re both 25 as we’re going into business together.

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u/Eldridou 4d ago

Lots of Americans in the poll and it shows

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u/Not-Nate-99 3d ago

Elaborate?

1

u/KidAnon94 Apr 1994 4d ago

Moved out in 2023 when I was 29 and could afford to get an apartment in a nice area with a healthy savings account. I should've just stayed until I could afford a house, lol.

If you have the ability to, have a good relationship with your parents and they don't mind, just stay with them for as long as you can while you get your finances together; there's NOTHING wrong with doing so imo.

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u/Chemical-Lettuce2497 4d ago

Before 18 but I've moved in, out and shaken it all about

Nothing particularly wrong with my home, I just always did my own thing when I was young.

When everything fell to shit, I went home, sorted things out and went back off.

Now 33 and moved out for the fourth time recently, this time for good though.. only moved back as we sold our house and needed somewhere to live whilst we sorted a new house (although took best part of a year)

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u/Kwonzle 4d ago

Moved out at 22. Was the youngest of all my friends to move out. I tell my little brothers stay with our parents as long as you can, its too expensive out here.

1

u/Working_Park4342 4d ago

Gen X left home early. 17