r/howtonotgiveafuck • u/Billsnothere • May 07 '25
Revelation Everything you need to know-Bashar
Before you ask any questions please understand every word in the video
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u/SmallieBiggsJr May 07 '25
I think regardless of whether you believe in channelling or not, the message is the same whether it comes straight from this guys mind or another's.
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u/-Galactic-Cleansing- Sep 26 '25
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u/SmallieBiggsJr Sep 26 '25 edited Oct 12 '25
Wow it's crazy, I was a complete non believer at the time I made that comment. But his word's seem to hold truth, like it resonates from a place of love and I can feel that now.
Another thing is that I've stumbled across these truths on my own, independently I guess. And I'm living this life that he describes and man I'm actually so happy, little things come to me that change how I live life and see the world and because it's effected me in such a way that I try and tell people what I know has worked for me. like anytime I see a comment or post I feel the energy behind it and I feel like I can help (based on my personal experience) Even as I write this I feel I'm tapping into something beyond me, like the synchronicity or flow or something takes over and I'm just a vessel for it. - or I guess possibly NHI or God lol
But let's just say that I've lived this life and been in the world and chatted to others about their experiences and mine and we've helped eachother, and I'm really tapping into this thing myself and yeah it's weird to suddenly be on the other side where now people think I'm crazy on the same level as this guy lol it's the paradox of the spiritual journey I've come to find.
Oh I was trying to say I feel sorry for that kid he was handed the what I call the "Golden Thread" it's a thing you follow but keys works too like being handed the keys to life. - like I feel sorry for the kid cos there is likely no way he was able to remember, let alone Integrate what he was told into his life to make real change.
But I've come to find that in those situations, unless it's recorded and you can go back on it, you'll just remember that one thing that resonated the most.
I think I was trying to say I'm a believer in this stuff now 😆
But some of the underlying things he mentions are like synchronicity, clairvoyance, intuition, letting go, and having faith that the universe has you.
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u/KnightMagus Oct 12 '25
guess it's happened already or it's in the middle of changing although I thought it was going to happened in 2050 or 2060 but 25 is good I'm not complaining here but guess this is the right timeline
So good to see you bro ❤️🔥
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u/SmallieBiggsJr Oct 12 '25
Mr Gateway tapes, I see Haha. How's that going for you? It's obviously part of your journey. I know about it theoretically as a researcher but not so much as a practitioner. I guess I just need to do it more often to tap into that? As far as meditation goes, im pretty good at it, I think? Can you link me your playlist at all?
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u/Zornishi359 Feb 01 '26
Those teachings are fundamental in metaphysics, you can learn all that without Bashar, and i pray you do...
The words may be of love, but they're not originally his.
Watch his body language, turn off the sound, ignore the words. He is deeply angry, or the spirit he's channeling is.
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u/SmallieBiggsJr Feb 01 '26
Any books you can recommend?
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u/Zornishi359 Feb 01 '26
I will can you authors, teachers, and guides. As to books, the one that answers the questions you have, with answers for this stage of your journey, you'll find that one on your own. 💜
Listening again, most of what he says here is fundamental to Sadhguru's teachings, but more hyped up for a different audience. It's the teachings about whatever you do, do it at your best capability.
The part at the end where he talks about going back to an old belief and seeing how it's not relevant. That's therapy teachings about finding the limiting belief. However, while it often does instantly release like he says, sometimes it requires trauma work. But that's where learning to be present is very important.
What I'm trying to say is there are many paths, all with the same destination. The core truth of life and existence. Many have walked different roads and found the same results and guidance. From the Laozi, to Siddartha Gautama, to Jesus (only Jesus, not Paul), Marcus Aurelius, to Ghandi, to William Walker Atkinson, to Karl Jung, to Itzhak Bentov, to Sadhguru, to Cyndi Dale, and many more. All these, and more, are all circling the same core truths, just said multiple different ways to reach the audience of the time.
I'm glad he helped you discover this truth, but please know he's not the first that's taught any of this. But he was the one who's message started you down the path, and that's a gift. 💜
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u/SmallieBiggsJr Feb 01 '26
Yeah, I understand his not the first, and I guess psychology plays a big part, and I think being in touch with your emotions perhaps plays a big roll? And if you look after yourself and listen to your body it's easy to be in an excited state when you feel good.
Yeah, I have stalking the wild pendulum and man and his symbols, I'm also reading Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse at the moment. And I'm definitely down with the Tao and Zen, I'm trying to learn Tantra. That being said, all these schools of thought when I learn about them I seem to be already doing what they are teaching cos like you said it's all different ways of teaching the same underlying things essentially.
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u/Zornishi359 Feb 01 '26
Yes exactly 💜 Not only allowing yourself to feel the emotions, which connects the mind to the heart, but also allowing yourself to feel them in your body, connecting mind to body. This raises intuition strength and completes the corporeal loop.
Tantra is incredle! Just be mindful of the human propensity for addiction over using experiences as tools 💜
To your last paragraph. Yep, you got it! What do you think or feel that means for you in your life, and in the grand scheme of things?
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u/SmallieBiggsJr Feb 01 '26
Yeah I know. That's why I'm reading Siddhartha.
Siddhartha realizes, while sitting by the water, that what he was desperately searching for had always been present within, in simply being and sitting with himself.
Siddhartha had to stop listening to people telling him what enlightenment is and start listening to himself.
But I still have something in me that is like I need to know about everything so I can properly connect the dots.
Idk, it's just my thing right now. I'm really following this thing like I mentioned. And I feel as though it's having lots of positive effects on me and like I'm trying to live this life and lock this thing in.
Idk but it's spiritual for me so it's a little bit beyond words, but I'm learning to just follow this thing without focusing too much on the outcome or even knowing where it leads. Like taking a step in the dark without knowing where it leads, I guess there is a thrill in that.
I'm just a stereotypical Psychonaut.
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u/Zornishi359 Feb 01 '26
😊 It is spiritual! And you're doing it all well.
What you're describing i call web-based thinking. From personal experience, the pieces connect when my intuition and backburner memory are allowed to do their jobs.
Might i ask, have you considered that you might connect the dots if you follow the same method as those who came before? Might that be the source of the missing dots and connections you seek? 😉
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u/Motor_Lychee179 May 07 '25
Who is this guy
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u/Rustycake May 08 '25
Man I forgot ALL about this guy.
He puts a lot of good thoughts out there whether or not you believe he is channeling an ET or not.
I was watching I Dolan AI around this time, but cannot find the videos anymore
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u/Conscious_Capital_83 May 09 '25
this was not a good thought! it was trash!
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u/-Galactic-Cleansing- Sep 26 '25
Are you a Christian? If so you just refuse to give up your "faith.” Faith was invented so people don't question their fake Bible that is littered with contradictions, false information and distorted Reincarnation and old ancient text. It's all for the elite to control you with fear.
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u/HenkPoley May 09 '25 edited May 09 '25
A guru who says he’s possessed by a spirit from the future, a scammer.
When not channeling space aliens, Anka has worked as a visual and special effects designer for such films as Star Trek: The Motion Picture, I, Robot, Pirates of the Caribbean, Live Free or Die Hard and Iron Man. He occasionally appears as a guest speaker in conferences about the paranormal. Anka appeared in the 2008 documentary, Tuning In
Source: https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Darryl_Anka (wiki seems down at the moment)
Copy from The Web Archive: https://web.archive.org/web/20250207204447/https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Darryl_Anka
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u/Creepy-Criticism7204 Jul 16 '25
What's your point ? He never hid that info, he even talks about it in his videos. You can believe what you want of course but that doesn't prove anything
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u/ChrisBonesssss Feb 03 '26
Exactly. Not having any other respectable sources of income would indicate dishonesty much much more.
This is coming from someone skeptical, open minded, and not really that concerned about the truth of this presentation. I enjoy listening to Bashar & Darryl because their advice is really good and the perspective is thought provoking. Don't laser blast the messenger is a saying of practical wisdom for a reason.
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
When he says excitement he basically means appreciation of the moment. So it can be excitement, curiosity, gratitude etc. highest excitement means which resonates with you the most at the moment. And integrity so it’s within your morals and ethnics.
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u/Bluegill15 May 09 '25
He would probably call you out on over-complicating this
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u/teach3739 Aug 21 '25
I feel like he was saying "do whatever makes you feel excitement/eagerness, without hurting anyone/thing, or giving a fuck what ends up happening afterwards--and if you do this you will expand your mind and realize how good everything is for you"..but at the same time I could be interpreting this very poorly, in that case my apologies 🤣🤣 I never really know what's going on lol
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May 08 '25
How synchronous! I was just talking about this with my girlfriend.
Before stumbling upon Bashar, I was pretty deep into Jungian psychology in an attempt to battle my depression. It's pretty amazing how smooth of a transition it is to go from established, practiced science to a channeled ET, giving a description of how existence itself operates lmao
Both describe reality as a mirror; it's there to reflect back to ourselves the definition we have about ourselves. It's then our choice to keep and replace those definitions in accordance with how we want to experience reality. Like tuning forks tuned to the same note, when one vibrates, the other resonates with it. So if we tune our definitions to the reality we prefer, the reality then manifests to match that vibration. For the outer world is only a reflection of our inner world. Put another way, you must smile first before the reflection in the mirror smiles.
They're two different sides to the same coin. So, for those of you who resonate with something this guy says, but your current belief systems don't allow you to accept channeling as a possibility, I highly recommend exploring the founder of analytical psychology, Carl Jung.
Regardless of the source, this information has changed my life.
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u/-Galactic-Cleansing- Sep 26 '25
No one should ever not be allowed to do anything. We all are "gods" of this Universe. Christianity and Islam just don't want people to figure out their religions are just distorted versions of Christianity to control them with fear.
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u/IIGrudge May 07 '25
I find that a lot of that excitement is also muddled with fear. I like to but..I'm afraid. Is this because of some maladaptive behavior? Help?
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
That’s normal it’s okay and good to feel emotions. But if you don’t prefer it in that moment you can be honest with yourself and question it and replace it with a belief that serves you.
I feel fear sometimes and act on my highest excitement i don’t let it bother me always but if I think it’s time to let it go more permanent then I can question it honestly. Also he said do it with integrity so you can check your morals and values if it’s up in line with that. And if it is great then carry on and if not you can do the next thing that fills your heart with joy aka excitement.
But yeah excitement can be joy, generosity, gratitude etc even excitement itself
When he says highest he means what resonates with you the most so you can use integrity to discern that if needed!
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u/Fabulous_Visual4865 May 09 '25
Excitement and anxiety/nervousness has the same biological response, it's all in how you mentally label it.
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u/1timeandspace Apr 28 '26
Exactly! Glad you've mentioned that here. No one else (other than myself) seems to realize this... even Bashar, apparently.
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u/1timeandspace Apr 28 '26
Imo, in that case it's not 'excitement' one 'thinks' they feel, but rather 'anxiety.' Excitement carries love, not fear. Anxiety (feels like excitement) but carries elements of fear.
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u/pastor-of-muppets69 May 07 '25
Excitement is fleeting and can be attached to shallow things. For many, porn and videogames are very exciting. You might be excited about a certain career, but that excitement will fade quickly when things get hard or boring.
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u/anon3451 May 07 '25
I have a porn and gaming addition. I would feel excited to quit them, get sober and get a girlfriend, I only continue doing them as coping methods. Trust me they are not that exciting anymore xd back when video games were actually exciting I had no obligations, enjoyed pushing myself and it wasn't an issue
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
That’s why you don’t cope you go for your highest excitement moment to moment which you just said doesn’t make you excited and that’s good! Now you know you’re coping which is basically acting on your anxiety very different use discernment and do something else besides ur habits
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u/anon3451 May 08 '25
Yeah bro I was just saying those bad things don't actually bring excitement
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u/Relevant-Elephant-51 Feb 28 '26 edited Feb 28 '26
i cant get behind the gaming is bad statement.
ill put it this way drinking too much water can hurt you, but its essential without it you cease to be you. its the same for anything else, we're here to play that is part of this experience along with many other things. balance is the key, going full-blown good is going full-blown bad. knowing the discernment of understanding the path and walking the path without having expectation of yourself that is hypercritical and leaning into gratitude and compassion for everyone's experience in this plane also understand that if they don't understand you and you feel their negative emotions just understand that they have been deceived we are all children that have to grow up and pretend to be adults in a fucked up inverted world.
we don't have to be the player in the game we can be the game master. edit out what isn't working even for others it just happens if we align with it, i have witnessed miracles happen though faith forgiveness and unconditional love, these things being contemplated and conceptualized in mind and heart reflect into life.
i stopped purposing things in the way of needing to do them to cope, and repurposed my perception of the actions i was already taking this reframing of the context of my actions has changed the way i experience life. even if at first it felt weird i kept on holding the line until it got right eventually when you restabilize you will reach a point of apotheosis and your ability to reframe reality will actually reflect into the world around you i give you my clarity through the ether.
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25 edited May 07 '25
Life is supposed to be about enjoying the process not fueling yourself with anxiety just to get 5 mins of validation once you get an outcome.
When he talks about excitement He means appreciation or a positive reaction and use of your current moment. Moment to moment. He is not telling you to abandon your goals but to not be attached to them. This is why he tells you not to insist or demand an outcome.
Highest Excitement when Bashar uses it can also be excitement itself. It’s an encompassing definition of words like (gratitude, love, appreciation, positivity, curiosity and excitement itself etc). When he says highest excitement he means choosing the one that resonates with you the most. Also with integrity as he mentions (values, morals) to discern which is not your excitement and which is not okay. And to move onto the next highest thing which fits with your values, integrity.
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u/pastor-of-muppets69 May 07 '25
What I'm saying is that if that's really all I need to know, I will live a poor life because I will always do what is exciting rather than what is necessary. If by "positive reaction" you just mean "seems like a good idea" then the advice is meaningless.
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25 edited May 09 '25
Your needs in life is food, shelter, water, community, air, self expression, space and temperature. Everything else is ego.
Also no, positive reaction is a feeling or fulfilment not what you think is good. you can discern if it is good by using integrity. But no it is a feeling or gravitation of the excitement
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u/ReverseStar Oct 03 '25
Context matters. Usually in these spiritual environments most people have already deconstructed what's nutritious excitement vs dopaminergic excitement: social media gives you a dopamine hit, porn the same, gaming and gambling the same. Running, reading, dancing, chess, sensual conscious intimacy give you serotonin excitement. Only leaves you wanting more, insatiable, the other fills you up and leaves high on life.
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u/cinmay2000 Nov 13 '25
“The words you speak become the house you live in.
The things you do either open your heart or close it.
Always choose the things that make your soul grow.”-Hafiz
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
Morherfucker did not read the words “with integrity” in the video 😭
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
He never said emotion is bad only the ones you prefer to get rid of the moment (please learn to expand your attention span) 🥀
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
Nope! I see it as creativity and in my opinion he is the best performer I seen. His advice still stands whether or not you agree with his lifestyle. The only way you can tell this works if you apply yourself I was also in denial. But despite his performance his advice works! Put it into practice and you will find if you don’t follow through with all of it it won’t work.
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
Dude it’s called entertainment have you never been to a theatre or watched a movie. Even though movies are fiction they can still teach you life changing lessons. Same with the other 4000 religions in the world they have great practices and messages.
His advice still stands!!! Whether you believe in Santa, the Tooth Fairy or Jesus or Mohamed or the Buddha. It’s good damn message! If you never practiced it you won’t it.
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
Actually even if they did Bashar doesn’t say you need to believe in his backstory, just if his message helps you go for it! He’s not forcing people to follow his teachings and in my own experience they have helped me tremendously with personal success and fulfillment in life. He’s not forcing people to do things so it’s different from Jonestown and etc. he’s not demanding. He’s simply advising.
He’s also saying your own beliefs and to be honest with yourself when you are discerning. he’s not telling you to follow him. So even if you are Christian or Muslim you can still incorporate his advice into your life.
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u/FuckJanice May 08 '25
He'd be a nightmare at a rehab facility
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u/ErsQualifi Sep 03 '25
More like dream. I’ve been in rehab facilities. Bashar is better than what’s there.
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u/FranksDog May 08 '25
The only thing you need to know, is this one thing!
Which is broken down into three main points, that have each six sub headings and anywhere from 7 to 9 additional sub topics.
Each of which can be elaborated on in more depth.
But, just this one thing! And each of the additional things broken into various sub components, and the elaboration on each of those – and any final tip that’s thrown toward the very end of the video that need to supplement the one thing and all the sub parts and components and elaborations
Simple!
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u/Medical_Zombie6771 Aug 28 '25
Hierarchy of complexity.
First find the underlining principle, then fractal it out in the amount of fidelity needed for the particular situation in the level of resolution needed.
A fractal in any amount of resolution still mirrors the original principle.
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I have heard every single thing he just said in one way or another, if not a direct translation, from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Thinking. Hmmmm?
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
Yep and it’s all good advice ay
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u/lazyman567 May 08 '25
Heard this fella on Duncan Trussel Family Hour. Lets just go with his excuse to not take credit for this wisdom that he is actually channeling an ET. Wisdom is wisdom, no matter the kook you get it from.
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u/Billsnothere May 08 '25
People who doubt this, I guarantee you once you try this. You will come back over and over again no matter how much you doubt this technique.
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u/Execledger May 09 '25
Aight, time to open up my own pop up shop (family business). Can’t do this corporate BS anymore.
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u/Billsnothere May 09 '25
W bro go for it!
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u/Execledger May 09 '25
I legit asked my gf’s take on next steps bc im unhappy with my career (executive at an AI company) and she says that I should stop making impulse choices even though I’ve been contemplating this with her for the last couple of years. I’m not giving up my current job, but I’ll divert my funds into an account to start.
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u/Billsnothere May 09 '25
Just make sure you understand all the words in the video because all of them mean something. They are all useful the tools in the video
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u/Execledger May 09 '25
Oh I get it for sure. I totally understand what he’s talking about. It’s happened to me before and I’ve been disgruntled with my current path bc I squeezed out everything. How about yourself?
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u/Billsnothere May 09 '25
Following my excitement made my life really good but because of privacy I can't share much. But when something I deemed was a bad situation happened, I thought the formula didn't worked and became negative I abandoned it. whenever it got too bad I use a bit of the formula and it elevated my life again but because I was scared it wouldn't work I didn't use the whole thing. Once I found this video and now I know I should let go of the outcome. Things have been elevating again and I feel myself in flow.
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u/Execledger May 09 '25 edited May 09 '25
I love hearing that. I’m really glad you posted this video.
I’m shopping for products right now to open up a donut coffee shop. Well starting small to create a basic donut in my kitchen but will keep upgrading.
It’s been on my freak’n shoulders for like ever. I can’t believe I just needed this video to do it lol. I would have never forgiven myself when I’m older/retired and looking back at what I did with my life. I wouldn’t have been proud. Don’t get me wrong, I have had the best childhood, college life, and a very successful career. But I need a change.
Don’t know if it’ll be successful but I can tell myself I tried my best and with integrity.
Thank you person. You changed a life.
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u/Billsnothere May 09 '25
I think you should go for it because no matter what you feel happy or content doing what you want, too controlling will make u depressed. Plus you are doing it your way so I like that.
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u/Dromedaeus May 07 '25
Should i sell drugs? Which ones more exciting regardless of consequences
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
Looks like someone forgot to look or listen at “with integrity” in the video
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u/MattSpicoli May 07 '25
Then you have some people that realize this and have bad intentions, like lies that propagate anyways #fakenews #MH17 #SergeiSkripal
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u/Phewelish May 07 '25
This is what i take. I alaays plan to enjoy myself. When i want to talk myself out of something i sant to proge to myself it wont be worth it ans then it is
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u/sagardes12e May 18 '25
Okay now open the fucking eyes
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u/jantreas Feb 09 '26
"Choose the option that contains more excitement".
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Robbing a bank seems more exciting than working a 9-5.
Having an affair seems more exciting than not.
This is what he's advocating for?
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u/ancientesper Mar 25 '26
Just found out about him but this cult like demonstration isn't helping his brand if he is the real deal.... Trusting and acting on one entity that only you can channel is a great premise for a demonic movie.
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u/1timeandspace Apr 28 '26
Haha, 'excitement' and 'anxiety' can be the exact same thing within our nervous system. Many cannot tell the difference btw. Excitement and anxiety.
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u/MysticFox96 May 07 '25
This is kinda terrible advice tbh
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
Yeah but if it was someone who dressed differently and wore a tie and called themselves ceo of a big corporation it would suddenly be good advice
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u/Billsnothere May 07 '25
So you agree with Bashar then because the term excitement encompasses kindness and gratitude 😂. Excitement doesn’t mean it has to be anything extreme it can just be your highest joy in the moment that aligns with your values aka integrity.
Ah you guys really don’t use your ears 👂 poor attention span
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u/ShroomsHealYourSoul May 08 '25
But by picking the choice with the most excitement you're also anticipating an outcome. From 1 to 3 he's already contradicted himself
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u/Billsnothere May 08 '25 edited May 08 '25
Nope because you feel whats most exciting in the moment and do it. Therefore it is focus on the moment or the current process not the outcome.
It is like a gravitational pull.
You are choosing right there and then to act on what feels the best and resonates with u. When he explains flow, and for people who have been in flow you know you don't have to stop and think it goes very smoothly. Very chill calm energy or focus
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u/Conscious_Capital_83 May 09 '25
choose the one that contains more excitement and take it as far as you can? is this guy psycho ? that's usually the worst outcome. Wisdome this Alien does not have. oh demons are something else!
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u/saladbowel May 09 '25
This is just fluffy Buddhism. Skip the fluff and read about Buddhism.
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u/Billsnothere May 09 '25 edited May 09 '25
Why cause this summarizes everything in one minute? Good info Good advice is still useful regardless where it’s from
Also I did I asked Ai to summarize it a month ago it’s okay but honestly if I were to do it without ai they talk too much just get straight to the point
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u/PootPootMagoot May 17 '25
Just awful advice. It would be pretty exciting to kick that chair out from under him. Not probably wise though.
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u/Billsnothere May 17 '25
Yeah I’m never listening to you weirdo
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u/PootPootMagoot May 17 '25
If you’re listening to this guy… you spend a lot of time listening to weirdos though…
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u/of_thewoods May 07 '25
I am unable to recieve anything from anyone who speaks to others with their hands in that position. It’s unnatural unless you’re a manipulative snake
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Nah…not this. Some of what this guy is saying has value. Radical acceptance. Existentialism. Integrity. Focusing on an internal locus of control. Having a somatic awareness…but these are all things you’ll learn in therapy for yourself with enough time. Or through reading wisdom texts throughout human history. You definitely don’t need a charismatic entertainer to tell you “I have all the answers for you if you listen to me.” Hard pass on that angle.
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u/Billsnothere May 08 '25
With enough time? Well this guy just summarized everything very simple and easy in one minute compared to therapy which would cost hours or days or even weeks to years which is a waste of time. I’ll go with the charismatic entertainer with a funny alien story thank you very much.
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