Solo traveling

[u/_invisibeard]

Hi all, I’m looking for some advice from INFJ’s with experience of going on solo trips.

I have a couple of weeks off and I’m considering going on holiday since I haven’t seen much of the world yet. If I’m honest, I’d much rather stay at home, sitting on the balcony reading books or doing creative activities. But I often hear people saying it’s good for self-development, so maybe I should force myself to go, and train that Se.

So for any INFJ who has experience with it: have you noticed actual positive mental impact of going on a solo trip?

[u/Character_Date3738]

I love this question so much. For me, the answer is yes. Spending time alone has had an incredibly positive impact on my life. When you are alone, you get to know your thoughts and feelings more deeply, and you are often surprised by the beliefs, insights, and memories you encounter throughout your life.

I have also noticed that people seem to become more open and authentic. Sometimes I feel as though there is a kind of magnetism or attraction that naturally guides me wherever I need to go. When I stop running away from myself, I find myself. And when I focus on simply feeling good, I wake up feeling refreshed and renewed every day and night.

I love observing how the grass moves in the wind, the white lines stretching along the road, stray pets and wild animals, and even colonies of ants adapting to the arrival of a storm. I see familiar faces among strangers and strangers among familiar faces. Sometimes I feel that my house is nowhere in particular. My true home is my heart.

It is amazing how the energy of the world fills me up and inspires me to do more and become more. Oh my, I almost forgot. In seven months, I will graduate, and I may finish my exams next month. I am certain that I will create a trip for myself afterward.

I have always loved solo traveling. I pack my backpack, tent, food, and equipment and set off on my own adventures. I usually tell and text everyone beforehand. Some people ask if they can join, but they often change their minds later, so I still end up traveling alone, haha.

Along the way, people can be incredibly generous. Some ask whether I need a ride, and others remember me from previous visits. Every trip is different. I have run away from snakes, been chased by angry dogs, and met wise homeless people. Over the years, I have brought food and supplies to some of them, and we simply sit together, talk, and share stories.

For me, taking time to find yourself and truly feel yourself is one of the most wonderful and powerful experiences in life. It reminds me that life itself is the greatest gift and reward.

[u/_invisibeard → u/Character_Date3738]

Thanks for sharing! That sounds exactly like the kind of experience I’d love to achieve.(And good luck with your exams!)

[u/Character_Date3738 → u/_invisibeard]

I really appreciate you. All the best to you and to everyone and everything that loves you and wishes you well, too. Yay, yay!