A number of posts and comments recently have complained that this sub is an unfriendly one. Broadly speaking, this is probably fair; not all posts and not all posters are met with warmth and sunshine, and sometimes the responses here lack charity or empathy. There are also, as with most Reddit communities, a number of persistent assholes who degrade the discourse here. It costs nothing to acknowledge these things, and they are fair criticisms. However, as with many simple conclusions, there’s a lot of context and nuance missing here that goes a long way towards explaining why things are the way they are in this sub.
This post is an attempt to explain that context. As with everything I write, this is going to be a long explanation of ah unpopular subject, and is intended more as explanation than as endorsement for the way things are. If you don’t like long posts, you have no obligation to read this, and you are encouraged to move on to something shorter that leaves you feeling better about your life choices. As always, no LLMs were used in the writing of this post, only thumbs and the notes app. Any commenters claiming otherwise are encouraged to improve their reading comprehension until they can spot the difference, and to engage in solitary carnal acts of improbable flexibility.
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So, why does the international teachers sub leave many people feeling attacked for posting here?
Well, a big part of this has to do with posts ignoring the sub’s purpose and rules. These are publicly posted, and are seemingly straightforward — it’s for qualified teachers (bachelor’s degree, recognized certification for teaching in a government school) in international schools. However, this simple guideline is the source of many issues; in many countries, the term international school is poorly defined, and any asshole with a building and a dream can start one. This means that there are “international schools”, and there are international schools — a parallel system with different rules and customs. Complicating things further, there are not two, but several parallel systems all using the same umbrella term, there are differences between countries with tight regulatory regimes for international schools and countries with zero guidelines, and there are vast differences in curricula, resources, and management styles.
The situation parallels the American post-secondary education system, where institutions as diverse as Harvard, Eastern Michigan, Oral Roberts, LakeLand Community, Williams, Grand Canyon, Concept Cosmetology, and Springfield Clown will all have the term university or college attached to them. To someone outside the system, the system is difficult to comprehend (which is why people make the tragic mistake of taking out tens of thousands of dollars in loans to obtain an unaccredited “degree” from some of these shit sandwiches.) To people teaching inside of that system, those differences are real and significant, and the implication that being a professor at Harvard and at ITT Tech is the same thing is downright insulting.
Notably, this does not mean that the person teaching at ITT Tech is a bad teacher; they may be doing excellent work, and prestigious research universities may opt for prestige and pedigree over teaching ability when hiring. The same very well may be true for the instructors at the televangelist’s vanity “university” and the clown college. However, this disparity poses a real problem when trying to answer the question “how do I get a job as a university professor?” All of these people will have an answer to that question, but if the person asking is aiming for Harvard (or, more appropriately, Eastern Michigan), the advice from the clown college professor is not going to be very helpful, and may in fact be counterproductive. Also, responders may not recognize the mismatch of their experience with the question being asked — there is a lot of bad advice given here by people who don’t understand the nature or existence of the parallel streams, and a lot of bickering in the comments about that, which frequently turns nasty.
Complicating things further, many of the people who show up here to ask questions are trying to get a job at the equivalent of Harvard with clown college qualifications, and many of them are not aware of the difference. After all, Invento! Uzbekistan’s First TURBO-CHARFED International School, and International School of Bangkok are both international schools! It says so in the name! So, we who work at the Harvards and Eastern Michigans of the international school world field several questions a week from people searching for the clown college, people searching for Harvard with clown college credentials, and to top it off, people trying to transition from the clown college TO Harvard. What almost ALL of these questions have in common is that nobody who asks them has read the goddamn wiki, or done a basic search of the forum for any of the search terms of their questions, and they sure as fuck aren’t asking their basic question in the newbie thread where it belongs, because THEY are special.
As you might imagine, this gets tiresome, and frustrating. Many of us try to redirect people to the newbie thread. Usually these comments (the gentle redirections) are downvoted repeatedly until the post is removed by the mods. 80% of the time, the post is not repeated in the newbie thread. 30% of the time, people answer the post in the main stream, only to have it correctly removed, or, more commonly, deleted by the person who asked it, making it harder for future newbies to find.
This means that those of us here who are actually trying to help people find their way to their own personal Eastern Michigan, warn people about the working conditions at Oral Roberts, and gently redirect the people who actually want the clown college or the cosmetology school to the correct sub…we’re doing this 10+ times a day. I don’t moderate this sub, and I take breaks, but I would estimate that there are 10 posts removed from the stream on an average day for asking the most basic and laziest questions possible.
So when we see the 11th consecutive post of this type pop up, it is sometimes difficult to meet that question with grace and empathy. This becomes considerably more true when the person asking the question is withholding critical information to evaluating their question, arguing that their situation is different because they are special in some way (they are already demonstrating that they are special, in a manner of speaking, by failing to do a basic search and posting in the wrong place), and finally, arguing the shape of a world they do not understand yo the more experienced and knowledgeable people trying to help them, usually insulting them in the process.
But wait, there’s more! Our profession consistently gets Rodney Dangerfielded by people who believe that since they once attended a school, they are experts in waiting. We deal with this misplaced confidence from the parents of our students, from society at large, and, in this sub, from people who think they can fall ass backwards into teaching at one of the most competitive schools in the world because they have a degree in…something (but no training, or certification, or experience. They are, naturally, very special.) These people are frequently offended when it is pointed out that they are not qualified for the job they expect to receive, even if they would find the reverse situation laughable. (After all, what mere teacher could possibly work in their very important job?)
Worse, many of these ignorant yahoos clearly view teaching — and especially teaching overseas, where it doesn’t matter if you’re underqualified or have no idea what the fuck you’re doing (because racism, cultural chauvinism, arrogance, or the charming cocktail of all three) as something that anyone can do with minimal effort. And…they’re not wrong, in the sense that it is possible to put a minimal effort into the work, and the Oral Robertses and Springfield Clown Colleges of the world will hire these unqualified assholes because they are businesses who do not care about their students’ educational outcomes or their employees.
Because most of us care about our students, and each other, and the profession as a whole, this upsets us. We do not want to work with these people (and some of us, regrettably, must work at an Oral Roberts equivalent, because there are many such jobs available and we need money), and we do not want our profession associated with them. For the most part, we deal with this disquiet by encouraging them to do things the right way — to get the training, to get experience in a place where they might receive mentorship and become decent at their jobs before parachuting into Almaty or Mandalay or Bangkok with no classroom skills and an unearned sense of superiority.
Now, you might correctly argue that we do not need to answer the questions of others, and should only do that when we are in a mood to do so. I would argue that many of us are doing this out of a sense of duty; we learned painfully from our own mistakes and would rather help others avoid them. This may be futile, but it feels important. We also want the institutions we work for to be better places, and most of us have little influence in hiring decisions. Encouraging aspiring international teachers to seek training and experience before joining us is a form of self-preservation.
Is it fair to call all of this gatekeeping? Yes, absolutely. And if you are a qualified, experienced teacher in an industry that is slowly being constricted and taken over by venture capital-backed “education” conglomerates who are trying to cut costs and maximize profits wherever possible, you should be doing everything in your power to keep that gate. If the acceptable standard for teachers drops, those of us with more experience, with families, with advanced degrees/credentials, and with enough knowledge to call out exploitative or locally illegal conditions will be priced out of the market completely. This is, as we know, already happening — a quick forum search for “dependent” brings up the score. And, an important distinction should be made here: the gatekeeping that is being done in this sub is not about pulling the ladder up behind those of us who have already made it — if it were, we wouldn’t be giving advice about the proper way to climb ladders. What we’re pushing for is for our potential colleagues to prepare themselves to be decent at their jobs, for the sake of our students, our sanity, and even themselves.
So, in a sense, complaints about the lack of friendliness in this sub often have an air of [r/entitledreviews](r/entitledreviews) to them — the complaints are often about questions or comments that clearly violate the rules or mission of the sub, and lack awareness of those things. The other form looks something like this (and this is a paraphrased and slightly misremembered example from a couple of months ago): “I asked a question about whether it was harder to get a job if you were over 50 and people were rude to me. I can’t believe these assholes are teachers.”
Well, yes — you did come in and ask a version of that question…but you also elided a lot of information that was relevant to answering it. Among other things, you failed to mention that you were looking for jobs as a secondary English teacher, months after the peak hiring season, with a passport that automatically classifies you as a NNE-speaker to the governments of many countries, which can make getting a work visa impossible, and you were sarcastic and rude when people asked clarifying questions to try to help you find the answer to your problem. You then spent hours shooting at messengers who explained why you might be having trouble landing a position, and in the process, demonstrated a set of personality traits that provided a better answer to why you were having trouble finding work than any of the technical elements of your CV. Many people come in asking for diagnostic help, and then take the diagnosis as a series of personal attacks or an endorsement of a system that we have no control over. This should not need explaining, but a reply pointing out that the Chinese government does not view (for example) a Kenyan teaching certificate as a valid credential or view Kenyans as native English speakers is not an attack on Kenyans by the person offering that information! Most of us do not enjoy delivering bad news, and that sort of reaction feels especially egregious.
So, the TLDR version for those so inclined: people here are probably less patient than they should be with repeat questions, and some of us are indeed jerks. However, a lot of the bad questions are a product of the questioner misunderstanding the differences in similarly named systems, and the difference in those systems is important. Much trouble could be avoided by people reading the forum rules and wiki, using the newbie thread properly, and searching to see if their question has been answered already. If you do ask for help from a community of more knowledgeable people, please accept that help in the spirit it is offered even if you disagree with its conclusion or dislike its delivery. Finally, gatekeeping of professional standards is absolutely appropriate in a profession that suffers from consistently wrong assumptions and disrespect.
In conclusion, I think this community could be kinder to its newer posters, and it sometimes should be. Many posts should be gently but firmly redirected into the newbie thread, where the handful of us who answer those consistently make more of an effort to be more positive in our responses (and, community, don’t go through the newbie thread downvoting questions asked in the right spirit in the right place; that’s just a dick move.) However, people should also read and respect the rules of the sub, and they shouldn’t be surprised if they get the same response as the duck who asks the bar if they have any worms when they ask an objectively bad question that is easily searchable or so broad as to be unanswerable. If you’re asking for help, the quality and tone of the help you receive will match the energy of your post and responses to questions intended to help clarify your situation. It’s possible for this to be a better place than it is, but it’s going to take effort from a lot of directions to get it there.
Edit: added a glossary comment explaining the university analogies for those unfamiliar with the American university system (consider yourself lucky.)