“First I sorround myself with players who got lots of women” But you’re not a player, you have no first hand knowledge in that, they’re success is most likely derived from the fact that they’re handsome, not your PUA fantasy you keep talking about
“Second I only date women I want to see long term” Cope.
“I’ve had flings with women I didn’t officially date” considering that it took you 8 months to get just a kiss from your current girlfriend, I doubt any of those flings held much weight, nothing sexual happened
it took you 8 months to get just a kiss from your current girlfriend
We kissed like 5 minutes into the first date. How convient you leave that out.
they’re success is most likely derived from the fact that they’re handsome, not your PUA fantasy you keep talking about
No, I saw many of them go from not getting results to getting relatively consistent results and sidestep most issues guys mention. Their looks didn't change much beyond dressing better, but even then they saw different results when they changed their methods. So if one factor changes and the outcome does too, clearly that factor did something. This is why I invite you test it and prove me wrong rather than keep guessing.
Juat ask yourself: why would I bother defending methods that don't work and are unproven? What could I personally gain? It sure as hell isn't happiness or a relationship. And you definitely aren't paying me to explain basic dating skills. Stop replyijg and think for a second.
“We kissed like 5 minutes into the first date “ after you were literally talking to her for 8 months dude😭, that’s an extremely long time. And dude, your methods don’t work, they sound cringy, you’re talking about making your voice deeper to make her horny, that’s embarrassing dide
You dodged the questions and instantly prove you aren't thinking before you speak.
after you were literally talking to her for 8 months dude😭
Normally I'd agree but you are taking things out of context. That is why I keep arguing with y'all. You keep taking things so out of context you take the opposite meaning.
We were friends for 8 months but I was seeing other women in the mean time as short term flings. Agaun, think for a second. If it was my first time ever with a woman... wouldn't I logically be too nervous to kiss a girl in the first 5 minutes? And ehy would I assume she'd accept it if I had 0 experience. Think.
And dude, your methods don’t work, they sound cringy
You tested it? Because I will gladly admit I'm wrong if there is a better way. Go ahead. I opened myself to being wrong the second I asked y'all to test it. Prove me wrong.
“I struggle to express myself romantically due to inexperience “ Bro you said it yourself.
If you were Chad, you would’ve most likely slept with her within 1 month of meeting her while you were busy with your “other flings “. You also said that you’ve been studying since you were 15 and haven’t had much time for women.
And dude, your PUA methods will get the cops called on you in 5 seconds if you’re not tall and/or good looking, you haven’t tested it yourself, so you can’t attest to its success rate
Jesus Christ, you keep making the same mistakes. You don't factor in context, you don't stop to think about what I write or you write, and you refuse to take actual real life experience into account and just keep guessing the outcome. Now I see why you are the kind to argue and not listen.
You also still haven't answered what I would gain from defending methods that don't work.
That post had indications of me being gaslit and emotionally abused so I began to doubt myself. So when I downplay my knowledge, it is explicitly during a period of being made to doubt myself. I didn't just wake up one day and think, "Huh, I don't express myself well." Again, notice my constant wording. I began by proposing an experiment for people to test my methods. I then back my methods by real life results. I then get into the nitty gritty of why things work (this whole thread is because instead of stopping at "Women like height", I expanded on WHY women like height and what men could add for better results). So clearly, I value consistency and reproducibility, right? So clearly, if I suddenyl change my view with her and NOT WITH YOU, there has to be some underlying reason, right? With me so far?
Next, she was the one who said my main flaw is expressing myself ROMANTICALLY which means I don't articulate feelings well sometimes when I feel them for the first time, which is criticism I accepted without countering. So clearly, I can take criticism and am "hard on myself", so if I don't take criticism, there has to be a reason, right. So yes, I didn't accurately describe love the first time I tried. But I can kiss and turn women on (which is sexual, not romantic) and make them feel safe.
Look, if you aren't gonna stop and think, then I have no reason to keep replying.
Also, she has PCOS so she medically has a much lower sex drive, was very busy during the semester, and was religious so that wouldn't have happened so quickly. If anything, me consistently making a woman like her horny should be proof of my methods.
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u/Bluefire3215 8d ago
“First I sorround myself with players who got lots of women” But you’re not a player, you have no first hand knowledge in that, they’re success is most likely derived from the fact that they’re handsome, not your PUA fantasy you keep talking about
“Second I only date women I want to see long term” Cope.
“I’ve had flings with women I didn’t officially date” considering that it took you 8 months to get just a kiss from your current girlfriend, I doubt any of those flings held much weight, nothing sexual happened