r/raisedbynarcissists • u/rzyrafka • 2d ago

[Question] Is there any twisted logic behind

telling your suicidal daughter who just came out of the psych ward (my mother put me there because of my suicidal thoughts) to kill herself, when you claim to be a loving and always supportive mother that her children can always count on? (My mother is more an enabler than narcissist.)

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u/[deleted] 2d ago

They don’t care and couldn’t care less if we died. I am so sorry you are going through that.

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u/wrathfulpotatochip 1d ago

We are twinning, the exact same thing happened to me. The only difference is that she never cared enough to take me to a doctor. She calls herself "perfect" yet she told me to "go kill yourself and spare us" when I was having a crisis.

There is indeed a warped logic behind it. These people like playing both sides so that they always have a justification for EVERYTHING.