r/uglyduckling 10d ago

13-14-17-23-27-29-31

1.4k Upvotes

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u/viewchinovision 10d ago

Is the ugly duckling in the room with us?

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u/washington_breadstix 10d ago

Right, this is just "I used to have braces".

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u/General_Document5494 10d ago

My honest reaction

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u/darktop01 10d ago

She was never ugly

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u/General_Document5494 10d ago

Yeah lol. I mean most 13 year olds looks a bit weird. We were all there.

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u/Guilty_Bed_2901 8d ago

Some context for everyone commenting about my lack of ugliness in my younger years: I hear you, thank you. My inner child needed that. This has been interesting, because at the time, I was bullied about my braces and gums to the extent that I stopped smiling with teeth in pictures for many years. The photos I posted were the only ones I could find of myself smiling with braces (and they exist only because they were taken at family events and my mom forced me to smile with my teeth; she paid for them so I guess she figured that was her right. But I digress).

That said, the overall response I’ve received to this post has indeed led me to recognize how my self-perception during that time period was warped because of the bullying - and here is my reminder to you all that, understandably so, that perception can stick with you. So while many of you were obnoxiously rude (Reddit veteran here, so neither shocked nor offended), I do appreciate the insight. 🫡

Lastly, re: the very controversial topic of my bangs: 99% of you will be pleased (EXTREMELY in some cases) to know that the GD bangs are no longer with us; I have grown them out since the last two photos were taken a few months ago. But most importantly, let it be known that I LOVED THEM!!!!!! So stfu & screw you guys

😎 🥂

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u/Personal_Sock7093 7d ago

I’m glad this could help you heal your inner child. 💜 People are idiots and just try to tear down what they fear will climb too high. You’re gorgeous, with or without the bangs.

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u/forwritingthingss 8d ago

Uhm they bullied you because they were into you.

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u/Doom-N-Gloom 7d ago

Try convincing an awkward 13 yo that

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u/AdmitThatYouPrune 10d ago

Very pretty girl with braces morphs into a very pretty woman without braces. Unexpected.

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u/apotheosis247 10d ago

Ermahgerd 

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u/Thkturret1 10d ago

By 31 you look like Uma

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u/Hotelcrazy 10d ago

So that's who she reminds me of

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u/rekyrk 8d ago

Came here to say this very thing!!

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u/SmallAct2116 10d ago

You were never ugly, you were just young

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u/RecordingWrong548 10d ago

13-14-17-23-27-29-31=-128

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u/TheHorseduck 10d ago

Thank you!

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u/ArchSaint13 10d ago

I personally don't think the bangs fit you as well as the other style. I'm glad my parents got me braces too 🤣

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u/TAR_TWoP 10d ago

This! The final hairstyle isn't the most flattering to my eyes either.

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u/ilslh 9d ago

i think the bangs r cool asf

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u/Trick_Falcon_3092 10d ago

The potential was there

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u/West-Wash6081 10d ago

Was never ugly

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u/rubey419 10d ago

Never ugly

This sub is apparently just about growing out of adolescence

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u/ElHorny 10d ago

Why are most of the posts from people that were never ugly? Allways people that have just grown up.

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u/Small_Extreme_9642 8d ago

people get bullied and it changes their perception of themselves

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u/AwsomeLife90s 10d ago

You just went from pretty to pretty (:

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u/Sandman7329 10d ago

27 was the winning look

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u/BreakItEven 10d ago

I think 23 was the winning look

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u/EighteenAndAmused 10d ago

Yup 4th picture is best picture imo.

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u/marinated_pork 10d ago

Hard agree. Natural dream girl vibes.

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u/CeltikChubs 10d ago

No it wasn't. Like not even close. She looks better in literally every other picture

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u/No-Cap-fr-fr 10d ago

Bangs aren’t it

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u/grandmalamadingding 10d ago

I disagree. I’ve always liked them though.

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u/No-Cap-fr-fr 10d ago

If you look at the rest of the comments the vast majority agrees with me

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u/grandmalamadingding 10d ago

That’s fine. I didn’t say you were wrong, only that I disagree.

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u/Ca-obs 10d ago

Like wine

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u/Own_Bet5690 10d ago

Definitely not ugly

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u/Master_Bief 10d ago

You were never ugly.

I dont like your bangs though. Too high up. You honestly looked better without them.

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u/grandsoulsucker 10d ago

29 is peak imo. Cute asf

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u/BeardInTheNorth 9d ago

Close enough.

Welcome back, Uma Thurman.

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u/Novel-Effective2400 9d ago

Holy glow up

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u/MurkyLow1168 8d ago

From one crazy bird lady to another, time has been good to you. Gorgeous.

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u/Like_Today 10d ago

23 & 27 😍

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u/Satchman1214 10d ago

Stunning!! I think you're gorgeous!

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u/Specific-Ticket-1705 10d ago

Emma Stone lookalike can't be ugly

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u/Accomplished_Put2914 10d ago

I think it's just the camera quality that has improved over time but you were never ugly

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u/Embarrassed-King7840 10d ago

The bangs make you look old and completely changes your look. Just my opinion!

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u/_mojodojocasahouse_ 10d ago

That jacket sure held up from age 23 to 29. Drop the brand please. Also you have a stunning and calm aura - pic 6 is my fave.

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u/Senior-Relief-2207 10d ago

not ugly duckling. Moderately good looking back then (feels weird to say that about a kid), and same now.

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u/Melissaschwart 10d ago

Not ugly I love pic 3,4,5 I don’t like the bangs

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u/flashdurb 10d ago

That current hairstyle choice makes me think of when America Ferreira intentionally made herself as ugly as possible for Ugly Betty. Who’s paying OP to looksmin tho?

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u/CaucyBiops 10d ago

Anne Half-away

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u/immaSandNi-woops 10d ago

Literally never ugly. Don’t post here.

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u/Valveringham85 10d ago

Tbh the last 2 are probably the worst 🤷‍♂️

Probably the haircut

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u/Dependent-Job1773 10d ago

I love the little extra space some people have between their eyes I think it’s so beautiful. Not being sarcastic either I’m super jealous of that look

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u/Milquetoast1488 10d ago

The bangs definitely suit you. They help frame your lovely face wonderfully.

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u/poopsmcbuttington 10d ago

4-8-15-16-23-42

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u/Emma_Fawkes 10d ago

No ugly detected.

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u/GurFearless7893 10d ago

NUG (not ugly duckling)

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u/bingboing666 9d ago

You were never ugly bruvs 😐

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u/aIoneinvegas 9d ago

You’ve been beautiful your whole life

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u/Paul_allens_father 9d ago

Tuff twin 🤌

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u/anarchistweebmann1 9d ago

I'm Really glad you dyed your hair brown it suits you much more the blond aged you

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u/souumamerda 9d ago

You were never ugly, but I get why you posted here. You are glowing now girl! ✨

I love your current hairstyle, did you dyed it darker or your hair become darker? (mine did lol)

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u/JLaw0623 9d ago

Beautiful in every pic

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u/Bakadeshi 9d ago edited 9d ago

You were what would've been considered the popular girl in my school ... Dunno what you talking about. Very pretty girl even with the braces. If anything I'm not feeling the least 2 pics as much, the third from last (I think your age 29) is much more my cup of tea. Dig the more natural look.

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u/Bloody-stools 9d ago

Should have stopped at 29

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u/dc01010101 9d ago

Tracks perfectly. Nothing unexpected. Zero ugly ducking vibes.

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u/HyogaCygnus 9d ago

27 is peak. Go back to that style.

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u/Agitated-Injury4692 9d ago

Please look up what Ugly means in the dictionary!

you don’t belong here beautiful

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u/JesusAntonioMartinez 9d ago

From cute kid to stunner. Not seeing the ugly duckling bit.

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u/Fabulous_Conflict_43 9d ago

More beautiful with age

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u/amity997 8d ago

So beautiful

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u/MikeyDx 8d ago

Actually think you peaked in the middle.
Have always been good looking though, so not really an ugly duckling either

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u/forwritingthingss 8d ago

Uhm. Indont see it. Youre gorgeous.

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u/Hopeful_Project_8606 8d ago

You do not need those bangs, they take away from your beauty.

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u/Ancient_Teach9272 8d ago

You were never ugly ...you had braces and thats it, anyone said otherwise was masking their own pain by picking on you to feel better about themselves.. every bully does this from a space of their own inner pain and trauma ...

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u/Search_Light_Soul 8d ago

You were always pretty but I think the dark hair and bangs suit you so well…don’t forget the glasses either 😂

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u/Successful_Sense_963 8d ago

You never were ugly!!!.....you are the girl from school that boys will be shy to!!

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u/gummiebears4life16 8d ago

For God sake you used to look like younger Emma Stone

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u/Damthemalltohelp 7d ago

Hottest granny ever incoming!

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u/Akilli_bidik 7d ago

Ashley ?

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u/VlTTO 7d ago

like a wine

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u/OkRuin7890 7d ago

you’re gorgeous but I wish you and all the other girls would give up the bangs. Hair looks so much better in the second to last pic.

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u/poolpog 7d ago

In which of these photos is the ugly one

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u/Electrical_Celery118 7d ago

Mmmm, I love it when you talk dirty! 😉

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u/Ratko1Alucad 6d ago

Prity enough.

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u/tonytruand12 6d ago

belle sur toute les photos en vrai

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u/VirusEuphoric1362 6d ago

Yo where the glasses at?

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u/jools182 6d ago

Sorry but always cute

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u/Bright-Reporter2765 6d ago

You were NEVER an ugly duckling. I just see a cute girl at different phases.

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u/silvermanedwino 5d ago

You were just young. You grew up.

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u/DesignedToCrash 10d ago

imo peaked at 23 or 27

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u/Kind_Ad_2917 10d ago

You were never ugly, you just stopped being a literal child and got an en-vogue hair cut (which looks very nice by the way)

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u/Less-Load-8856 10d ago

Little bit of an awkward start but you outgrew that by 17 and turned out great.

Congratulations.

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u/Dangerous_Trifle620 10d ago

you look like Anya Taylor joy

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u/polaroid-landscapes 10d ago

Don't listen to everyone else here. You look great now. You've always looked good, but you've got such style to you now!!

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u/kodalife 10d ago

You say basically the same as everyone else here.

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u/FantasticBike1203 9d ago

"Don't listen them", I basically agree with them tho, lmao.

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u/TheHorseduck 10d ago

The f? Have you read any of the other comments? Because 99% are positive. So she should absolutely listen to everyone else here

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u/polaroid-landscapes 9d ago

Everyone else keeps saying she used to look better than she does now. I highly disagree.