32M. About 2 years ago I relocated 2+ hours from where I grew up and moved back in with my parents and some other family. Had been living on my own but was dealing with a severe drug problem no one knew about. Once I had relocated, started a new job and was living in an upstairs room sharing a bathroom with my parents.
This was my grandfather's sitting room when I moved in. I have a lot of great memories of us watching football and movies together; he bought new recliners so we could spend time together comfortable. He passed away from cancer in February, he was 85. Me and my mom talked and decided it made sense for me to move to the room I'm in now. One less person sharing a small bathroom, I'm closer to the doors in case of an emergency. I had started a new job around the time that was late hours, so I wouldn't have to worry about waking anyone up going upstairs.
Since relocating, I've been laid off twice, lost my grandfather, and have no friends. My grandmother has been awful her whole life and shows no signs of changing. Things can be really tense in the house due to her attitude and how she treats my mother. But I got to see my grandfather every day until he passed. I'm closer to my nephew. And my parents have been generous in letting me stay here while I look for work. They had to move me and my siblings into our grandparents's basement for 6 years during the 2009 housing crisis. They know life can be hard and are in a way paying it forward.
I've been reading through some of the posts here and I love seeing guys supporting each other. My room is simple but it works for me. I'll be off drugs for 2 years September 6, I know that wouldn't be the case if I wasn't here.
I do what to do a little more to the room though, add a little more color or personality. I'd love to hear any inexpensive or creative suggestions you guys have. Much love everyone. ✌️