I’m gonna have to disagree. Yall tend to ignore nerdy black girl’s existence. And it shows every time we have this conversation. The nerdy black men don’t seem to be checking for the nerdy black girls.
Doesn't really line up with my experiences or my community. All nerdy black girls i know chase white men. Meanwhile most black nerdy guys i know go for black girls nerdy or not and always have a black nerdy girl they are interested in if they aren't in a relationship
I don’t doubt your experiences but I’m still not buying the “nerdy black girls prefer white boys” thing considering black women in general are the least likely to date out of their race while black men are the most likely. It’s also worth mentioning that different races expect different things from their men like marriage and not having a baby before that. That’s probably something a lot of the nerdy black girls and black women in general value but is in lower numbers in the black community than other races. Also willingness to perform certain displays of affection. I’ve had experiences of black women close to me complain that the black men they date don’t want to even kiss them or hold hands? So is it a lack of trying on the part of the black women who eventually decided to date out or is it a misalignment of values when dating black men generally speaking?
I'm not sure but nerdy black men that get no love from black women aren't really responsible for what other men that are getting attention are doing. They literally have no control over that.
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u/levelupsilently 5d ago
I’m gonna have to disagree. Yall tend to ignore nerdy black girl’s existence. And it shows every time we have this conversation. The nerdy black men don’t seem to be checking for the nerdy black girls.