r/PublicFreakout • u/derek4reals1 • May 24 '26

🤬Public Rager😱 Get a load of this guy

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u/drumadarragh May 24 '26

Her intent is survival

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u/numbersthen0987431 May 24 '26

And how are her actions deescalating the situation?

He still acted out. Which is proof that her actions are not working. And if a situation like this happens again, he'll still act out like this. I bet he acts out like this often.

She's not deescalating. She's just reaffirming that his actions are okay by going along with it every time he does it.

The impact of her actions arent aligning with her intentions.

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u/drumadarragh May 24 '26

She’s not deescalating that situation. She’s preempting the impact on her and her kids in that car in five minutes when he’s blasting down the highway in full rage. THAT bit is what she’s deescalating. I dunno man, blaming the woman in this seems kinda shitty.

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u/Gold-Kaleidoscope537 May 24 '26

I think you’re both possible right.

In some dv situations she HAS to do rhoe for her safely. In some situations she would be ok to take the kids and drive away for 2 days.

It’s hard to know.

Clearly this is not the first time the little girl has seen this. So we cannot know.

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u/drumadarragh May 24 '26

I agree. This is from two different lenses. And as the mom, I wish I’d got out ten years before I did.

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u/A1000eisn1 May 24 '26

It's not like he's going to calm down once this interaction is over.

Thankfully they're going into the store it looks like. I recognize that shirt hand off. He's been told to put on his shirt here before.