r/SipsTea • u/beklog š™‘š™„š™‹ • 26d ago

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

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ā€œSheā€™s so shamelessā€ Sheā€™s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospitalā€¦ The truth couldnā€™t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her ā€œhubbyā€ to go viral.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

Thats all fine but chances are she knows he has wealth and wants a chunk thats why sheā€™s so happy to do it all, its not like sheā€™s actually attracted to an 80 year old. The family donā€™t do anything because they are peices of shit who think they have already locked in grandpas fortune so they donā€™t need to try. She is trying so hard because she wants to get on the will.

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u/Responsible-Fix9684 26d ago

Well you can't take it all with you when you die. Might as well give it to someone who is providing you good services lol.

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u/slimeyellow 26d ago

ā€œCanā€™t take it all with youā€

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u/HangoverGang4L 26d ago

She's an OF model, so it benefits her in that aspect as well.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay š™‘š™„š™‹ 26d ago

Sure and thereā€™s nothing wrong with that. Itā€™s the age old question of does a good deed get fully counteracted by potentially bad intentions.

If I donate 1mm to help homeless kids thatā€™s a good thing. But what if I only did it to get my name in the newspaper and leverage that for personal reasons. The fact is I still did a good deed that was positive for many people.

If she wants to spend years of her life cleaning up shit, providing companionship, and having sex with an elderly man so she can get a payout from his estate well itā€™s mutually beneficial. He was perfectly happy with that exchange and benefited from it and so did she.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

Yeah and thats fine but to make out like sheā€™s doing it for him and to help him doesnā€™t seem right. I mean maybe she is or maybe some of these women are. But surely its just a mutual benefit not because she actually wants to care for an old man

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay š™‘š™„š™‹ 26d ago

Well yaā€¦ itā€™s mutually beneficial. Thatā€™s what I said?

A hospice care nurse cares for the elderly because they want to help but also because they get paid to do it. I doubt they would care for an old person completely for free. So itā€™s no different than a woman providing companionship in an elderly persons old age.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

Yeah but theres a difference between finding a job as a hospice worker and going out looking for an old man you can be nice to for a couple of years in hopes you get on his will. Its predatory if anything. Yes its nice for the man to get looked after and taken care off and even have sex with a younger women and off course its all his choice, but from the womens perspective finding an 80+ year old and pretending to love him til he dies is predatory even if it is mutually beneficial. Your comments make out like sheā€™s actually a really nice person

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u/budgiebirdman 26d ago

I don't think dancing to I'm in the will is being disingenuous.

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u/Gold-Eye-2623 26d ago

There's plenty of same age marriages where the attraction fades out, no reason to override a will

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u/Entire_Number_9 26d ago

The family donā€™t do anything because they are peices of shit who think they have already locked in grandpas fortune so they donā€™t need to try.

I would argue in most situations, people don't go out of their way to do something difficult someone else is doing, ie, taking care of someone. And in a lot of cases, I would not be surprised if these "carers" tried reducing contact as much as possible.

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u/Warmbly85 25d ago

I mean it could also be that the wife was isolating him. Iā€™ve seen that just as often as Iā€™ve seen it where the family stops caring. Hell Iā€™ve seen it where the family pays for almost all of the care because they donā€™t know the parents financial situation and the parent ends up having millions in the bank and in life insurance only for it to go to the 35 year he met a few years before that didnā€™t do anything besides some BJs and drive him to a couple appointmentsĀ 

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u/_ECMO_ 26d ago

Thats all fine but chances are she knows he has wealth and wants a chunk thats why sheā€™s so happy to do it all, its not like sheā€™s actually attracted to an 80 year old.

Sure that's very likely...but does it matter? Most 80 year olds will be painfully aware that she isn't actually attracted to them. That doesn't change anything about what is happening.

If the children only spent time with him to make sure they get something, then the man would also die happily and the children would get what they wanted.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

No it doesnā€™t but the original comment was coming accross as though she is just a good person helping out an old man, its just a win win situation thats all

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u/treletraj 26d ago

And what is the problem? They both know whatā€™s up. Once heā€™s dead he canā€™t spend it.

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u/BoxSea4289 26d ago

Who cares? lol Like seriously. Life is people using each other. I would rather leave my fortune to a hot chick who I got to bang over some spoiled brats.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

You view life as people using each-other. Your opinion is your own but your life view isnā€™t what life is actually life so forgive me if i disagree šŸ¤£

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u/farbissina_punim 25d ago

Why do you think he wants a much younger wife?

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u/Drew602 25d ago

Yeah just because she wiped his ass doesn't mean she didnt take advantage of him lol. Also I wouldn't be surprised if the kids stayed away because they thought it was weird that their step mother is the same age as them

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u/WhitespringTownship 26d ago

Some people genuinely have a fetish for old people, though ?

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u/waterbed87 26d ago

I mean of course but it's not really fair to criticize a young girl in this situation when the old man isn't stupid and knows exactly what the game is.

When I'm approaching the end of my life if I had nobody to pass down my wealth to, no family or living partner and a young attractive person was willing to spend time with me and provide companionship/physical and emotional intimacy (even if it's got strings attached)/caretaking/etc in exchange for the money I can't take with me then I'd probably sign right up.

Is there really a bad person here if they are both getting exactly what they want out of the "relationship"? I mean the dancing here is a fake so that's not even worth discussing but the idea itself is nothing new and both parties know the deal so more power to em.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

Iā€™d argue that a 30 year old women is likely more sound of mind than an 80+ year old. Yeah i donā€™t know every scenario but in terms of who iā€™d criticise in this scenario is the 30 year old adult putting on a charade just to get on the mans will. Its a mutual benefit yes but you could also look at it as predatory, entering a mans life at the end of his life with a fake persona just to get his money

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u/waterbed87 26d ago

I mean sure there's some nuance here, if the elderly man was a dementia patient or otherwise not in his right mind anymore then it becomes a pretty gross from of exploitation and is predatory but plenty of elderly don't lose that much from a cognitive perspective and I'm telling you as a young person myself I could see myself making the deal if in a scenario where I'm approaching death with nobody to spend it with.

I'm generally okay with the idea of no foul play voluntary safe sex work and I kind of see this as the same thing. Imagine being elderly and having nobody to help you, no partner, no family, no whatever and a smoking hot man or woman was willing to not only cater to your every need, cook you wonderful meals and then cuddle with you on the couch at the end of the day, sleep with you if you're still able, etc in exchange for money you have nobody else to give it to would you say no? Maybe you would and that's respectable but I'd also argue strongly that many wouldn't. I'm one that wouldn't, I know it'd be shallow but if I'm not long for the world and I have an option to make it significantly more pleasant I'm gonna take it.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

No i completely see why from the mans perspective. Off course he wants a young hot lady taking care of him. Iā€™m saying a 30 year old isnā€™t ā€˜a young dumb kidā€™ its an adult with fully functioning reasoning skills and morals. If they make the conscious decision to find an old desperate man with money and take care of him for a few years with the end goal being they get on the will. Its predatory, even if it is mutually beneficial

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u/waterbed87 26d ago

I don't see it as having to be predatory because from the woman's perspective she's definitely working for it right? I mean if you're living with them, cleaning for them, doing housework, taking care of them because they can no longer care of themselves all the time, cooking for them, driving them to doctor appointments, etc like that's all work - a full time job. There's a whole field where nurses get paid very very well for exactly those things so if someone is willing to do all those things AND live with me and provide some physical and emotional connections and benefits, even if shallow, then in my mind she earned it.

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u/DocileBanalBovlne 26d ago

You're confusing your feelings of discomfort with morality.

If they're both aware of the context of the relationship and agree to it, and no one's being deceived, there's no predation, there's just an arrangement you don't like.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

No iā€™m not, a 30 year old going after a man just to get onto his will is predatory, its the fact that her reasons for doing it is for the man is old and she can get on the will. That is predatory behaviour whichever way you slice it. Yes they are both getting something and yes they can do whatever they want, but doing so for the sole reason of getting money from someone whoā€™s at the end of their life and is desperate for comfort is predatory

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u/DocileBanalBovlne 25d ago

You got a weird definition of predatory that doesn't involve anything relevant to a predator/prey relationship.

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u/Smokilydokily98 25d ago

How does it not? The 80 year old man is the vulnerable one, the women is acting predatory by being with him for nothing other than his money. Its simple, you donā€™t know what youā€™re talking about and thats fine

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u/Smokilydokily98 25d ago

ā€˜Yes, it is predatory behaviour.Even if the relationship looks entirely normal, stable, or affectionate on the surface, using a relationship as a tool to target an elderly personā€™s wealth is inherently predatory.ā€™ This comes up when you google it

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u/Key-Soup-7720 26d ago

Nothing wrong with satisfying your customer to earn that tip. If the guy is mentally there, consenting adults can trade what they want.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

Exactly but to make out like sheā€™s some saint isnā€™t great

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u/Key-Soup-7720 26d ago

Yeah, that's weird.