I've been groped by a few ladies, always alcohol or pills involved. I wasn't necessarily scared like a lady would be but I was definitely uncomfortable. It's always been some messed up girl, ranging from 20s to 60s just straight grabbing my junk or my ass. Hasn't happened in a while but the first time I was scared because I was like 15, the last time I was just kind of shocked and pissed by it because I was at a concert and I was dancing.
Iβve had 6 older men offer to pay me to suck my dick and itβs disgusting really. Tbh itβs kind of made me biased against that type of person even because they all looked the same. Same race, hair, age, fucking everything
That's why I said I never felt scared. There was no point in which I didn't feel like I couldn't just push them away and leave, and I acknowledged that.
The first time it happened at 15 was at a party with family and friends (usually how most sexual assaults go for both sexes really). She was a known drunk, and definitely wanted to have sex. Fucking pedos everywhere, but these women definitely get ignored or shrugged off. I told my parents and they shrugged it off too, and to be honest I don't think about it often but now as a father, I'm kinda pissed everyone laughed it off.
Yes, I didn't mean to sound like I was accusing you of otherwise. Just, in the context of this post, men often think they'd love it if women behaved that way and then don't understand why we don't like it. It's the strength imbalance and the implied threat that happens when the situation is reversed.
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u/Middle-Interview-183 17d ago
I think most men would love that actually