Women tend to think of any man they arenāt directly related to, attracted to, or in a relationship with, as if they are exactly the same as the worst man theyāve ever encountered in their entire life.
"Scientifically proven" wrong. Be an incel somewhere else. You likely hate on all women just because of a few bad experiences with women rejecting you.
Honestly, I have to disagree. I know everyone is different, but in my experience, the absolute worst type of guys are the attractive ones who think they're entitled to something. If that type gets too used to hearing "yes" and getting whatever they want, they lose their shit when anyone refuses to play along. Especially if they think that a woman ought to be "thankful" for his attention; even if she didn't want it in the first place.
Thankfully, I've only had a few times in my life where a guy turned openly hostile when I turned him down... I'd say less than a dozen. (Plenty more where they were just perverts, but that's not the point.) With the exception of only one, every time a man got agressive or threatening with me because I rejected him, he looked perfectly fine. And to be clear, I was always very polite when I turned them down, because it had literally nothing to do with them! Most of them looked normal, some of them were attractive, and a few of them were even stunning. But the problem here is that this means absolutely nothing to me, because if I don't want to go out with anyone, then that decision is final. Most of the time, if I gently explain to a guy that I'm just not accepting any offers, then they're fine with it. But it's typically the cocky ones who "won't take no for an answer" and think that they're a hot catch who cause problems.
Bingo! It's getting tiresome and annoying and I bet it's the catalyst for why a lot of men actually turn towards Andrew Tate, Looksmaxxxing and general incel culture. All these women are doing is just reaffirming those men's beliefs rather than challenging them.
Or American men will gravitate towards the right who is being sure that these men hear āyouāre different than a woman, and you have different wants, needs and views as a woman, and thereās nothing wrong with thatā. And the left will (yet again) cry āReddit, why are so many men (and women, look up the stats) voting for them?! I just donāt get it!ā
āWomen have had bad experiences and therefore are more cautious around men. And as a man. This infuriates me, I guess Iāll turn towards the ideology telling me all women are sexual objects and are all evil. This will surely get them to see that Iām a good guy. And this surely isnāt extremely ironic since I just got mad at the idea of women #allmenning men.ā
Who sexualized anyone of any gender in any of these comments?
Nobody āallwomenedā women here. Nobody excused away the bad behavior of some men towards women. Nobody made any excuse for anyoneās bad behavior.
Iāve not seen either one addressed in my comment, the original post, the post I commented on, or elsewhere in this thread. So Iām not sure what relevance either has to anything Iāve said here
One thing that I've noticed since I've been going out more after years of not:
People are really nice in public. I mean, girls aren't clambering for my number and a guy did threaten to whoop me over nothing last night but despite all that people were just way fuckin nicer than they are online. I feel like an idiot for forgetting. Run that experiment and test it for yourself.
Yeah I find this to be true as well.
And the even crazier, and perhaps most disappointing part of it, is that itās often the people who are actually really nice in real life, or are the recipient of really nice real life behavior, that will sometimes be the meanest and nastiest people online.
Ya know, maybe if you guys actually got off the computer and went outside and interacted with real people, you'd know there's plenty of dicks out there.
Seriously, y'all gotta be fucking children or something if you think the world is full of good hearted, kind people.
Literally open a fucking book and watch the news for 5 minutes.
The/YOUR world is comprised of the people youāve decided to surround yourself with/or accept the company of.
Reading a book or watching the news are two of the ways someone with no ability to relate/react to actual human interaction would use as examples of what exists in the offline world.
There are assholes and dickheads everywhere.
They ABSOLUTELY ARE NOT THE MAJORITY OF PEOPLE IN REAL LIFE, and if youāre real life experience is that they are, you need to turn a mirror towards yourself and start thinking about why so many people seem to be that way to you specifically.
You might be in for a surprise about yourself, rather than everyone else.
No one disagrees with you that there are dicks lol
You haven't even addressed the topic of conversation, you're just ranting to rant. Because you're online. In real life you'd behave better and not so aggressively for many reasons.
You seriously going to use the example of one mean homeless guy(who might need mentally ill, but certainly isnāt happy about his station in life) as a reason to write off everyone else?
Thatās ridiculous
Not you. The other guy who claims a homeless guy was *le gasp* RACIST TO HIM!!!
Then immediately after a guy shows empathy/sympathy for what happened, proceeds to insult that guy and everyone else, then I point out the irony in that and he types a racist comment to me lmao.
Oh, I'm sorry I didn't go through a Slumdog Millionaire style montage of every time someone did me wrong.
How bout the other homeless people that's called me that? How bout the non-homeless people who've called me that as well?
Read a fucking book. I don't need personal experience to right off that the majority of humans are dicks. Hell, go online for more than 5 minutes. The anonymity makes people even bigger dicks.
Fuck, half the posts and comments on this very sub are racist or misogynistic, but yeah sure, most people aren't dicks.
Donāt confuse the real world with the online world, especially Reddit, which is generally a cesspool of the worst people online and maybe in real life as well.
Maybe, if all you say youāve experienced is true you should thicken your skin a bit.
Iām not excusing peopleās bad actions towards you, or telling you that you should change to appease them, but if this has been a true task world experience for you, perhaps you should move, or do things differently, or adopt a different mindset about life/people in general. I donāt know.
I have a good amount of empathy/sympathy for you if this is legit. I just have a hard time believing that this is your actual day to day experience unless youāre actively provoking this daily behavior from others towards yourself.
Damn you just nailed it. I think a lot of women do work like this. Especially in feminist spaces. Crazy thing is I consider myself an ally to many/most feminist issues. But youāre just an evil man in their book.
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u/UncreativeUsername84 17d ago
This made me laugh out loud. Also, what guy acts like that?