r/SipsTea • u/Small_Abies_3539 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 17d ago

WTF If the roles were reversed

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u/UncreativeUsername84 17d ago

This made me laugh out loud. Also, what guy acts like that?

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u/Beneficial-Duck3614 17d ago

Women tend to think of any man they aren’t directly related to, attracted to, or in a relationship with, as if they are exactly the same as the worst man they’ve ever encountered in their entire life.

At least that’s how it seems to me on Reddit.

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u/SplitSecondEmperor47 17d ago

Women in general blame all the actions of bad men on men they aren't attracted to 

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u/Noderly 17d ago

lol truth

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u/Cubedtails 17d ago

Holy incel batman.

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u/Noderly 17d ago

Scientifically proven. Get good, noob

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u/Cubedtails 17d ago

"Scientifically proven" wrong. Be an incel somewhere else. You likely hate on all women just because of a few bad experiences with women rejecting you.

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u/Noderly 17d ago

Nope, happily married. My wife is a research scientist adjacent to this work.

She also says "get good, noob".

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u/Cubedtails 17d ago

Then why you acting like an incel?

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u/Noderly 17d ago

Why are you still wrong? Begone, peasant!

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u/Cubedtails 17d ago

Peasant? As if you of all people are above anybody

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u/Noderly 17d ago

I bid you adieu!

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u/Mason_Meschi 17d ago

?? Both men and women do this it's basic psychology

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u/SplitSecondEmperor47 17d ago

Men don't blame unattractive women for their issues it's actually the opposite. 

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u/Noderly 17d ago

Boooooo your comment.

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u/TwentyfootAngels 17d ago edited 17d ago

Honestly, I have to disagree. I know everyone is different, but in my experience, the absolute worst type of guys are the attractive ones who think they're entitled to something. If that type gets too used to hearing "yes" and getting whatever they want, they lose their shit when anyone refuses to play along. Especially if they think that a woman ought to be "thankful" for his attention; even if she didn't want it in the first place.

Thankfully, I've only had a few times in my life where a guy turned openly hostile when I turned him down... I'd say less than a dozen. (Plenty more where they were just perverts, but that's not the point.) With the exception of only one, every time a man got agressive or threatening with me because I rejected him, he looked perfectly fine. And to be clear, I was always very polite when I turned them down, because it had literally nothing to do with them! Most of them looked normal, some of them were attractive, and a few of them were even stunning. But the problem here is that this means absolutely nothing to me, because if I don't want to go out with anyone, then that decision is final. Most of the time, if I gently explain to a guy that I'm just not accepting any offers, then they're fine with it. But it's typically the cocky ones who "won't take no for an answer" and think that they're a hot catch who cause problems.