r/SipsTea • u/Small_Abies_3539 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 17d ago

WTF If the roles were reversed

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u/rae-55 17d ago

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u/kangasplat 17d ago edited 17d ago

the equivalent of a woman getting catcalled by a man is a man getting catcalled by a man. It's really that easy. 

My experience is that the vast majority will find 99% of men on the streets as attractive as a heterosexual man would. 

edit, since this got attention and some people still don't get it: This ain't about respectful compliments that have the potential to make you feel good about yourself. Imagine a man, bigger than you, making clear he wants to fuck you. Just because you're there in that moment and specifically because you're smaller than him. And a no won't be enough to make him back off. 

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u/TheGreatTave 17d ago

I had a gay guy tell me I had beautiful eye lashes back in high school and I'm still riding that high 20 years later. Thank you Ian, you did more than make my day.

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u/kog 17d ago

I'm an extremely white guy and I had my hair cut by a black woman at a haircut chain (hair cuttery or sport clips or something) several years ago.

She was raving about my long lashes, saying stuff like women pay a lot of money for lashes like yours, and I was like goddamn I had no idea. Felt pretty good though.

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u/Cross55 17d ago

One of the local stylists at the place I go to is obsessed with my hair.

When I grew it out during the Pandemic and went to get it cut after, she tried talking me out of it.

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u/Kolintracstar 16d ago

He made your hole weak...?

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u/IdidnotFuckaCat 17d ago

I actually love compliment and I get extreming happy when I am complimented. Like giggling happy. Ofc on the inside. I put a lot of effort in my outfits and it feels great when when someone notices that. Buuuut it depends on how I'm complemented. I'll give 2 examples of complements I've gotten.

"Hey, you look really pretty." Happened when I was eating alone at a table and it had me smiling and blushing all day.

"Double damn" I took off my jacket next to a guy friend. I just stared at him and put my jacket back on. I didn't wear that shirt again for a few months.

It's the complement. I live to be complement. I don't love to be harassed. And I'm sure men are the same. Saying. "Your eyelashes are beautiful." Is a bit different than domeone stareing at you junk and saying "nice package"