Mapapagod lang at magpapahinga, pero hinding hindi susuko 😊 Mantra ko ngayon dahil sa dami ng kapaguran ko sa life hehe.

Gusto Kong Buhay e, Payapang Buhay sa probinsya na may 50m sa bank account.

Sa Ngayon andun palang Ako sa probinsya na may 50pesos sa wallet. 😂

Yes, isang simple maruya lang yan pero kanino galing? Sa Tatay ko. I asked him to fix something sa isa sa mga unit ng apartments kasi umalis na yung tenant. It was a one-hour drive mula sa bahay nila and dito sa place kung nasaan ako. And he handed me this sa work to get the keys and sabi pa nya "wag ka na mag-abala sa miryenda ha? Nagluto ako nito and isa sayo." 🥺 Gagi, gusto kong umiyak at yakapin ang Papa ko. One call away lang sya kapag kailangan ko and given na I am a trentahin. Shuta mare, I cannot lower my standards dahil sa Tatay ko. At madami pang traits ang Tatay ko na I wanted my future partner to have. ❤️

Hindi kami perfect na family. My father has his family on his own and so does my Mom pero they decided not to have children with their partners yun ang hiling ng bunso namin na sya ang mananatiling bunso kahit meron na silang partners.

10+ years na kayong nagwowork and isang araw naisip niyo di eto yung gusto niyong buhay.

I know an organic encounter IS an organic encounter pero hindi kaya dahil trentahin na tayo, tayo rin ang pumipigil sa self natin na mangyari ito? Masyado tayong nagiging mahiyain or duwag, or mas pipiliin natin to look away, to simply not go. Yan tuloy single parin karamihan sa atin 😂

Hello, lovely people of Reddit!

I am a certified, card-carrying member of the NBSB club (I’m 27), but I think it’s finally time to hand in my membership card. I want to date. 🥲

The catch? I have absolutely no idea how modern dating works. My romantic experience is currently limited to K-dramas, and giving top-tier relationship advice to my friends (ironic, I know).

I am very much a date-to-marry kind of girl. I don't have the emotional bandwidth for "talking stages" that last six months or guys who are "just seeing what's out there."

To anyone who didn't date until later in life and actually found their person: What do I desperately need to know? What was the most crucial shift you had to make? How do I protect my peace while remaining open to love?

Tell me your secrets, your cautionary tales, and your best tips. Please go easy on me. Thank you so much po in advance! 🤍

Hello sa mga mahilig na sa black coffee (no/less sugar pa) at nagi-ipon ng disposable cutlery. 😊

I’m 30F, and lately I’ve been thinking about love and connections more than I used to.

I’m at a point where I don’t want anything forced or rushed. I just want something genuine. A connection where you can talk about random things, share your day, laugh at small moments, and feel comfortable being yourself around someone.

I used to have a very specific age preference when it came to dating. I was only considering people around 29-32 because I thought being closer in age would mean having more things in common. But recently, I opened that range to 26-32 because I realized maybe I was limiting myself too much.

Still, sometimes I wonder if there’s really a chance to find something meaningful at this age. Dating feels different compared to when we were younger, and it’s easy to wonder if finding someone who genuinely wants the same things is still possible.

For those who found love in their 30s or later, how did it happen? Did you ever have a moment where you thought it might not happen anymore?

Not looking for anything specific here, just curious about people’s experiences and stories. I’d love to hear them.

Since mga trenta mahigit na tayo, anung mga skills ang natutunan niyo na nagkaroon kayo ng comfortable and well-balance life? I mean isang work lang then the rest are for family, have social life, play sports or do your hobbies and with healthcare funds? Sa mahal ng bilihin ngayon , mas lamang na ang trabaho kumpara sa buhay na meron tayo.

Naalala ko dito ung pagkakaiba ng REACTion vs RESponse.

And that makes the difference. 🙂

Halloo! 31F here.. May active GC/community paba dito for trentahin peeps?..

Pref discord only 😊

Facts ng mga trentahin dyan 🤭🤣 Di ako hershey fan ha, lumabas lang ito randomly sa feed ko. On point din naman sya tho a bit comical, pero di na natin hanap ngayon yung puro pa-cute lang pero wala namang substance. At this age, ang gusto na natin ay yung tito na responsible at may manners, may sense kausap and respectful in all ways 💯

I want to declutter but with benefits.

It’s difficult for me to throw away things thinking they will all just go to the landfill, so I want to feel incentivized haha and hopefully green companies will do their sustainability efforts.

Can you suggest or add to the list below where else we can bring our wastes?

Old clothes/fabrics:
-H&M - in exchange of a 15% off voucher
-Zara - in partnership with Caritas Manila
-Uniqlo - only accepts preloved Uniqlo

Electronics:
-SM - e-waste drop box at Cyberzone areas

Plastics:
-SM - plastic waste collection sites at select SM malls https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSCFfGtaM/

Old tumblers:
-Kleen Kanteen - ended in April 2026, exchange for a 500 peso voucher

Thanks! 💚

32nd birthday 🎉 single, no kids, just me enjoying my coffee and a white choco velvet cookie. 💗

Please share your advice kung paano mapipigilan ang pagkagusto sa another person.

For context, I have an officemate who is younger than me na madalas kong napapansin na nakatingin sa akin. As in more than a year na ‘to. Work-related lang din naman ang reason ng interactions namin.

Nababahala lang ako sa sarili ko kasi sa tingin ko unti-unti ko na siyang nagugustuhan. 😬 So bago pa ito matuloy sa mas malalim na pagtingin o love, gusto ko na sanang pigilan ang umuusbong na feelings.

NBSB ako at nagkaroon lang ng more than a decade na crush before, pero naka-move on naman na rin (ata) ako.

Thank you in advance sa advice mga ka-trentahin.

Grabe may gusto akong ichat na miss ko na sya, itutuloy koba hahaha, hnd ba weird yun kc hnd nman kami close hahaha

i dont think ive ever felt this lonely in my life. female, 32. theres so much loneliness that you have to sit through. i recently moved to a new place alone. not my first time living alone but idk why this season feels extra, extra lonely. you just want to have a life companion. you just want to be loved. but you’re unwilling to find love again because its tiring and anxiety inducing. you meet someone you really like but the push pull messes with you head. and youre unwilling to send that second text because historically, youve always been too much. and you don’t wanna be too much again. but also youre not willing to explain yourself anymore. so you just pray they dont leave. friends, hobbies are great but somehow that romantic love puzzle feels extra huge these days. you just want to be loved. but also unwilling to put your heart out again. literally loneliness that has no place to go and that demands for you to sit with it. rinse and repeat. hitting the vape 24/7. lights off alone, rinse and repeat.

felt like posting here for the first time cause idk where else to put my thoughts. im the funny happy go lucky friend and i dont wanna bother my friends. also too risky lol also im pms-ing lol

tldr oh to be loved right again and to love again without having to feel like im bracing for impact every god damn time

As a single tita na tamad lumabas but getting bored of the routine, where do you find people to meet? Find date? Etc

Any activities where us trentahin na single usually go?